i am happy enough....
By shibham
@shibham (16977)
India
June 12, 2010 8:17am CST
Now i am happy enough my friends.....
why?
yes, if you give a look to my last 10 discussions, then you will find out that i have received less than 10 responses in six discussions. it have made me happy enough.
cause no. 1. i have find out the interested members to my discussions ( its also true that there are some members who may not noticed them). it makes me easy to keep a well relationship with friends.
cause no. 2. it gives me the opportunity to save time so that i can respond to others. actually i dont wish more responses that i cant comment back with different views.
so what about you do you feel happy if u receive less than 10 responses in a discussion? or you wish more?
please share, thanks in advance.
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17 responses
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
12 Jun 10
I am one of the friends who has not noticed. I have been spending very little time on myLot recently. There are many factors though that affect discussion responses.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
15 Jun 10
Hi C,
One thing i appreciate in you --is you always come back to respond. Based on my personal experience with you, even if it takes weeks or even a month you respond or comments back. and i thank you for that!
But i understand your point...there are really lots of factors affecting one to respond fully in their discussions.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
12 Jun 10
hi shibham,
how are you? its been a long time. huh!
well as far as i'm concerned i don't mind if i get only few responses on my discussions. what's more important to me is the conversation that i have with my responders. its better to have only few responders who comment back and discuss that tons of responders who don't bother commenting back.
by the way sorry for being absent in your previous posts, im kinda inactive in the last few weeks or month.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
13 Jun 10
i am fine ckyera. missed you a lot. an emptiness ever. hahaha...
yes, i also feel happy when i get less responses bcoz i can handle easily all those comments that i have to write in return.
no need to say sorry. i understand. but do u know the good news of sunset? hahaha....
@butterfly
yes, the influences of friends are more precious here then any other thing. i always consider it in a greater way.
take care.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
12 Jun 10
Hi CK,
correct! it's the meat of what's being talked about and the impact it can make to us. we may not be blessed with so much responses but we are blessed with many friends here.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
hi shibham,
thanks that you understand. ah okay, but as i can see it even if you got lots of responses you still manage to comment back to most of them and that's a good thing.
yeah of course. and we are really happy for her.
hi winks,
yeah yeah, and its the quality that matters more than quantity.
yeah of course. and we are really happy for her.
hi winks,
yeah yeah, and its the quality that matters more than quantity.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
13 Jun 10
I am happy with what I get. I think that sometimes there are discussions where there is an importance of quality over quality over quantity. I have asked a few serious questions and was very happy with the responses I got. They weren't many but they were really good responses.
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@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
I would be very happy if my posts addressed by others, because I feel cared for and respected by friends and I will try to always reply to the comment my friend. But if the comment was too much of course there would be a comment that is not rewarded and that I will apologize for it.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
12 Jun 10
I don't mind getting a low response rate as long as the people who do respond have something to say about the subject. I start discussions because I'm interested in the subject. The money I make is secondary, although very nice.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
12 Jun 10
You have not made anything?! Do you have your payout amount set to the lowest? That is very puzzling. With all the replies you have made and the discussions you have started I would think you would have made the minimum payout by now. It is always a nice thing to see in the inbox.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
13 Jun 10
You should start the process again. It is your money and you have earned every cent, you are entitled to it. You can use it as savings or buy a present for a loved one. I hope you will claim your earnings.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Jun 10
hi shibham I would feel a little disappointed as i wou ld wonder
'what I did wrong as I usually get a lot more than that. but I
would at least have more time to comment back on all of them.
I have been here for three years so have gained a number of
friends so expect twenty at times. bu t I am happy with however
many responses as I get.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
13 Jun 10
yes, it is the main satisfaction that at least a few members become interested by those discussion. as i have seen that some members often become disappointed receiving less responses and wish to receive more and more. i dont know why?
as you i am also happy with what i have gained.
have a nice day
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Jun 10
I'm fine with that. Not all discussions are interesting to everybody anyway! More is good too, but it can be hard to keep up with sometimes.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
16 Jun 10
i guess we should always be thankful that even there are less responses we receive in our discussion, at least we can say that they are interested with our topic. at least there are some out of 207 thousand more, got interested to read and response to ours.
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
14 Jun 10
I am glad to receive any responses at all. It is very hard coming up with a discussion that others will be interested enough to respond to. For that reason, I really don't start all that many discussions. I am not as lucky as some are to receive hundreds of responses. I think I would faint if that happened. 
There are some in here that have good ideas and good writing skills, so they seem to make out quite well with their discussions. I think I have received 50 responses to one discussion, and the rest were less, but at least 10, mostly, with one less than 10. I haven't really complained about it though, as getting some responses is better than nothing at all. good luck to you and happy mylotting.
There are some in here that have good ideas and good writing skills, so they seem to make out quite well with their discussions. I think I have received 50 responses to one discussion, and the rest were less, but at least 10, mostly, with one less than 10. I haven't really complained about it though, as getting some responses is better than nothing at all. good luck to you and happy mylotting. @shibham (16977)
• India
15 Jun 10
hi rosekiss. nice to meet you here.
i would not feel lucky if i receive over 100 responses bcoz its really problematic to me to comment back. yet, i have received more than 50 various times but still managed to comment back. even i received only one response. so all type of experiences i have found here. i also never complained for it and become happy with a few or huge number of responses.
take care.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
12 Jun 10
Hi Whistle,
I feel happy when someone respond to my discussion regardless of how many they are as long as someone take a look and comment on is an honor to me. i am happy that never all my discussions received responses. yes, i have some discussions with less that 10 responses but it's okay...at least all of them has responses. so, i treid to respond to those no responses discussion to make the author feel good that someone took time to respond on.
I too experience having more responses and it's challenging to respond. i admire those mylot members who made blockbuster discussions and still managed to respond on.
cheer up and have a wonderful weekend!
@shibham (16977)
• India
13 Jun 10
Thanks butterfly that you have returned to my discussion. i though you are leaving my discussions. hahaha....
It is also not a matter to me at all that how many responses i have received but as i have seen the said result i laughed at me. thats why i posted this discussion.
I never leave any response without commenting back so as you have said to some extend, it is a challenging factor. but we are owed to them.
have a nice day friend.
It is also not a matter to me at all that how many responses i have received but as i have seen the said result i laughed at me. thats why i posted this discussion.
I never leave any response without commenting back so as you have said to some extend, it is a challenging factor. but we are owed to them.
have a nice day friend.1 person likes this
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
13 Jun 10
yes. we need to go back to our discussions from time to time to check new responses so we can respond back. it's a great feeling receiving responses or feedback from comments so it will make our mylot friends happy too if we do...go back o their discussions and comment on!
@Gany15k (1673)
• India
12 Jun 10
Hi shibam,
Honestly I will not be very much happy if I get 1 or 2 response but will be satisfied that I got 1 or 2...Once I had 0 response to one of my discussion ..It was my first discussion..I didn't add any friends and straight a way started discussion..Then a few days before I got 2 response for that discussion which I started some 4 months ago..I was very much happy to see those 2 responses...Now I get somewhat better in starting discussions..and I look to comment most of the responses but sometime I will miss..whenever I get free time I will comment those responses..Hope so..
Happy mylotting..
Happy mylotting..@shibham (16977)
• India
13 Jun 10
Hi gany....
so sorry that i have not noticed that discussion. once i also receive 1 response to a discussion but that was my fault bcoz the topic was too hard to understand.
again, i dont like those skipper mylotters who often tend to comment back on those responses that they like and leave the rests. its unbearable.
thanks for response. have a nice day.
@ellenoister (56)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
As for me, Im happy enough if i can share something into a certain discussion just like this one. I don't mind not getting noticed. I just want to share my thought. Just to let you know i haven't start any discussions yet but I'm so enjoying responding to any discussions that i think i have something valuable to impart to. But if in any case that I'll start my own discussion, i would be so happy to see even just 3 responses :D. I guess, that's not bad for a beginners like me :D
Have a happy day ;)
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
12 Jun 10
Honestly sweetie, to me it really doesn't matter. A few a lot, i don't mind responding. TATA.
@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
12 Jun 10
I open discussion and then if they have few answer I think that the topic was not interesting for friends
When I opened the following discussion I think if the members interest or not
I opened the discussion to which I am not expecting to have so few answers,but as they say "any failure help progress"
In free translation "a wreck if not kill you, makes you stronger"
@shibham (16977)
• India
13 Jun 10
Thats a nice speech cip. A WRECK IF NOT KILL YOU, MAKES YOU STRONGER. as hemingway, i always follow A MEN CAN BE DESTROYED BUT NOT DEFEATED.
but here the matter is just different. i never get disappointed if i earn less responses rather i feel happy, as i have said above that it helps me in commenting back.
yes, i agree that discussions should be interesting but it is hard to predict the interests of a huge number of mylotters.
thanks for response. take care.
