Which solution is better?

India
July 9, 2010 3:44am CST
In life when nobody never accepts us then what we have to do? Some questions have no any answer. Today I Seek of all these things and want to die now. No one can understand my feelings and no one can hear my sound. No any place in family also. Everyone only says that get out from home. where i go now? where i fell better? when stops my bad days? just my child can understand my fellings but he is small now. when he can understand me and give me few happy moments? when?
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13 responses
@vijayanths (7878)
• India
9 Jul 10
Hi, vaishali, you are a very strong lady, don't forget it. You can handle any tough situations easily. I know you are having a lot of talents. These things happen in every home. It will pass on. You have to contribute a lot to your son and to your family. We all need your friendship and your cheerful comments.
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• India
10 Jul 10
yes friend i can handle any hogh situatins but sometimes i lost my confidence.
• India
10 Jul 10
handle any tough situations
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
9 Jul 10
Vaishali! This will soon pass. You are a mother of one sweet child and pull yourself together.Do not get bogged down by situations; husband's plac e would not be the same as your parents' place and it would call for a lot of adjustment, determination and grit. Focus only on your husband and see that you don't displease him.If he is happy then you will not have problems.
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@sharad7 (86)
• India
9 Jul 10
I don.t understand what can I tell you because it is really difficult to find your problem but a still solution for you according to me everything just leave into the god and just pray what can I do god give me the way what should I do in this critical condition because no one on this world who is not worry from his or her problem so un this way god is the solution.
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@SangsTurks (1447)
• India
9 Jul 10
i think you try too hard to please everybody and that is why you are taken for granted by them. Just ignore what they have to say...do your thing, try to keep yourself happy first , it is only then that you would be able to keep others happy. Dont do things that are beyond your capabilities to please others....if they make you unhappy let them do things on their own. You too can isoloate them. Remember God has gifted you with a child, you think they will look after the child if you harm yourself? There is nobody like a mother who would love the child.... not even a father can love the child like the mother. So save your life for your child.
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• Mauritius
9 Jul 10
well , the main thing in this world is survival of the fitess. so it is better that u get a grip on yourself and that you do not let things take on you such that you regret later on. there may be reasons why others cant accept your decisions , you have to talk about things in a way that makes both the guy u love and you family know what your real feelings are. things never happen the way we want it to be yet its worth trying talk to your loved ones. good luck!:)
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@MAllen400 (830)
9 Jul 10
Hi it really sounds as if you have the baby blues. Please try typing in baby blues and you will see that you are not alone suffering like this. It is hell going through this but please believe me you WILL get through it although I cannot say how long as it varies. Please if you can see your doctor or speak to other Mums if you can or even write to me but dont give up as at the end of the day you have a wonderful beautiful son. x
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• United Arab Emirates
9 Jul 10
Dont lose heart the GOD is watching you....The world is a big place there will be many who undersatnd you. I know what you are feeling right now. But you are only thinking of the problems...have seen a wall...when yiou look from far you will see it samall...but when you come near you will see it bigger and bigger...so dont think of the problem...satrt thinking away from the problem....i am sayinf bcos i have tried this....
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• Malaysia
9 Jul 10
i can feel that u having a bad moment today. DIE is not really the best way to solve a problem. Just cool down yourself and think what else u can do. U still got child and u should stand up again for them.
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@greygoo (798)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
it seems like you're going through a really hard time. i don't think that no one hears you because if that were true, i wouldn't be replying to your post right now. i don't really have answers to your problems, but please calm down. if he makes you feel better, take comfort in your child then. life is not without struggle. but i believe that things go through a cycle; if it's hard today. tomorrow will be different. the future must have better things for you.
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@2004cqui (2823)
• United States
12 Jul 10
You suffer from depression honey. Go see your doctor! Now!
@ebook_freak (1515)
• India
11 Jul 10
Oh dear... That must be a really confusing situation. As a teen, I too have faced this problems in my home. Even my father used to shout at me that he never intended to create a buffoon like me and that my existence was a shame for him and the family. I used to have a lot of bad feelings and thoughts of dying off. I wished I could sublime into nothing - or something like that. But as time passes by, we forget it. We revert into the past us. We would be happy again. Always remember one thing: "True friends stab you in the front." Peolpe who wants you to improve really hurts you and shouts at you. You just should be patient and be kind. Analyse and try to forget whatever had happened and pledge a new beginning. Regards, Ajith.
• Indonesia
10 Jul 10
Everything that you feel is what you thinking about. If you think nobody can accept you, so it gonna be happened. If you think nobody can understand you, so it will be... Look into your heart, feel it... deep inside your heart, you can find a peace inside. Slowly, take that peace out side your body and let the peace give you the light, until you can see that you are unique and interesting. the people need you, may be they don't know yet. Every body will understand you, but don't ever trying har to make they understood right now. Slowly, because your life is so important...
@irisseno (134)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
just be who you are and u'll be amazed to know who really understands you...be positive and don't let other people affect you..and most of all don't change your personality just for other people to like you...let them like you as for who you are.not because of whom you're pretending to be. hope these comment will enlighten you...=)