What about your significant other annoys you.

If you pm me your email address then I will send you something on this - an article hat I wrote and had published when my husband was alive. I experienced the same thing. I know exactly how y9o9u feel. Too busy to Mylot these days. Taken out 5 mins form work to de-stress. Blessings

my husband is as passive as I am OC. that's about it. we get by, though.

Almost everything, that's why we're getting a divorce.

LOL, that's typical guy stuff.. mine does the same thing, and he gets really pissy when I don't show sympathy. I'm incapable of showing sympathy to sick people unless they truly are dying or at least coming close. Besides that, I know how he gets when he's sick so the minute he starts coming down with something I'm already bracing myself for his wrath. He has literally ruined holidays because he didn't feel good. One Christmas I forced him to come down and sit with us at dinner and he wouldn't eat but sat there moaning and whining the whole time.. then immediately went back to bed... typical guy stuff. Mine does billions of things that annoy the heck out of me, and what annoys me most depends on the day and what he's doing. I guess towards the top of the list I'd have to say the lack of appreciation for what I go through. Anytime I vent to him about my day he just sort of says "Oh.. that sucks" like all non chalant as if I just told him I stubbed my toe or something. I get so frustrated, how many different ways to I have to say I can't handle another minute of this stress before you realize that I'm about to explode? Plus he doesn't seem to care about adding more stress to my days. Our hot water sprung a leak the other day, and instead of fixing it he shuts off the hot water to the house and shows me how to turn it on when I need it... so on top of dealing with 5 kids, 2 cats, and a flea infestation thanks to the kids letting the cats outside.. now I have to deal with no hot water to bathe or do dishes unless I want to rip half the wall off the bathroom to turn the hot water back on.. and does he care? Course not, he works 8-9 all week and won't really be spending anytime at home until after 2pm tomorrow, and I guarantee you the first thing I'll be forcing him to do is that fix that gosh darned leak!

This is easy. lol Small and simple things are something for me. If there's a small problem, I am easily affected by that and I dont want to sleep with an uncomfortable feeling. My husband knows that but he has this kind of attitude that shows me that he doesnt care a bit. It drives me crazy thinking that he doesnt care.

The way he eats lol and the fact that he takes so long just to do everything. No lie, he'll take 5-8 minutes just to iron a shirt or jeans. Or the fact that I hate his driving. I'll have to tell him to slow down because I fear for my life. But thats about it. The eating thing, reallly gets to me. lol. Thanks for sharing!!

that would drive me nuts too! i have to say that there isnt much that drive me crazy about hubby. the only think that i would say is that he is too nice and often says yes to anyone that asks him to do something. i find that frustrating because we dont have a lot of us time together. they say the thing that attracted you to your mate in the first place could quite possibly be the one thing that bothers you in the end.

hi dorannmwin I think the big thing with my own hubby was his behavior when he was ill with the flu, he moaned and groaned and actedlike a baby. He yelled for this and for that, and kept me on a trot. Okay when I had the flu, I had the cooking, cleaning, the laundry and did he ever insist I stay in bed, on not at all.later he would say if you had gone to be I would' have taken care of you,oh yeah I would believe that when I saw it. When I got pneumonia however he was there for me, but I got too 'sick and he had to call an ambulance. The stay in the hospital I never really remembered much.Guess I was too sick.

I hate it that he thinks that he could wear jeans and sneakers everywhere. Hahaha. It's such a pain, specially if we're going to a fancy restaurant, but he would still insist on wearing his chucks. LOL. And sometimes, he can be so sarcastic that he doesn't realize that can hurt other people with his comments.

Something about my fiancé that annoys me is his lack of patience and his bad temper. When something for example stops working in the house and he gets trouble fixing it he will scream and curse a lot! And he have some problem with being able to think that other people isn't like him or feels like him. But I love him a lot and I have my flaws too ;)

That seems to be the norm with men. They can't take pain like women, and because this is a well known fact they seem to think we are invincible. The one thing most that annoys me of my live in boyfriend is that he snores, so loud to the point where I have not had a good night sleep now for four years...LOL He has tried everything possible including medically but it has not helped. This is the most annoying thing about his wonderful self....LOL

i dont have a bf right now but a guy said he loves me so i was giving him a chance to show me that. he was so sweet always caring if i was sad, singing songs that he said was for me, being so sweet you know. then this week we argued and since already 3 days he is like turning his back to me i talk with him and taht day we talked even things were not ok he talked even he refused to explain his side, and then he talked again barely answering and then two days he didnt care any yesterday i talkd he didnt answer and today he answered after i talk so much he said you didnt care for my feelings. like i just cared for my side but i said to him explain you now but he prefered to turn his back than to say things bcs he didnt like arguements. if we dont say things how can we solve things? thats what i dont like in him. we could be talking happy and bcs his way we are not.

What bothers me about my boyfriend is he gets so jealous about nothing. One time he kept asking me about a guy who I dated like a year and a half ago, and he was so jealous of him. I don't understand why, there's nobody I hate more than my ex boyfriend. Another thing I don't like is how he takes offense to my slightly cruel humor sometimes.. Haha, I can't help it thats how I've always been!

as far as i can remember, one thing that annoys me most is when my boy friend forgot our 4th anniversary.i really get mad and didnt talk to him till he remember that special occassion.ever since, he try to remember all the significant dates in our life as couple.