kids turning in techno gadgets at night?

United States
August 8, 2010 1:17pm CST
I have a friend who has two teenagers. She pretty well allows them to text and use the computer through the day. But at night they have to turn them in. At a set time (that seems reasonable to me) they have to bring them to her and she puts them in her room until the morning when they can come get them again. What do you think? Good idea or bad idea?
8 responses
• China
9 Aug 10
Is it safe to put the kids in the room in a long time?
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• United States
9 Aug 10
I'm not real sure what you are asking, but if I understand correctly I would have to say no. It's not good to leave them to themselves for extended times.
• China
10 Aug 10
Yes ,i think so.
@amrddy (215)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
hi macdingoliner I have a fourteen year old daughter, yes she has a laptop, cellphone, itouch and ds light. Since she is in school for five days she wont be able to use any of them except maybe the laptop for her research. Otherwise these are all weekend gadgets and no tv during school days. am I too strict?
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• United States
9 Aug 10
I can't say if you are too strict or not! IT's really about how responsible your daughter is and how the system works for you and her! I know it all has to be managed somehow or we not only lose our kids but they forget about the real world because they get lost in their gadgetry and don't do their school work and such!
@llwilkins (384)
• United States
8 Aug 10
I think this is a great idea. I think more parents need to start doing this. B/c when I was that age I thought of alot of things to do and realize that if I had a cell phone back then I would have got into much more trouble. B/c the cut off time for phone calls was 9:00 and seeing kids now a days....... What is there to talk about on the phone all day long? Nothing. I don't think kids should have cell phones b/c parents cannot monitor what they are texting or seeing over a text (pic).
• United States
9 Aug 10
That's true. It's also hard to get a good night's sleep when you're up texting with your girls all night!
@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
8 Aug 10
I believe it is highly important to set rules and limits when allowing kids to use electronic devices. Video games, computers, cellphones.. and whatever else kids might use should definitely have time limits set to them. Kids are not responsible enough to know when enough is enough. If I let them, my kids would play their video games 24 hours a day non-stop. There are some nights I let them stay up playing them, because it keeps them quiet and gives me time to be on the computer without interruption. Well, we all get involved with what we're doing, and next thing I know it's 10pm and the kids are still on the video games, not even thinking about going to sleep yet!
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• United States
8 Aug 10
I didn't have to battle all of that with my kids. I did have to set some boundaries for video games and movies but that was it.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Aug 10
thats a very good idea. my daughter used to let my grand daughter keep her cell phone at night and im telling you, she'd be on it till 3am or so, then be sleepy for school next day and whining around. she was supposed to be in bed by ten, but would sneak under cover and talk almost all night.
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• United States
8 Aug 10
That was part of the reason my friend began taking the techno stuff at night. Her daughter was texting on up into the night as well! It all stopped when she began turning it in and she actually got a lot more sleep!
@ruthsm (222)
• Thailand
8 Aug 10
Sounds a good way to do with teenagers so they get enough sleep at night and they also learn self-control and discipline. My children are only allowed to use the computer and tv on weekends and they never complain. My eldest son who is 16 get extra more time but we didn't have to make rules on texting because he's not much into it.
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• United States
8 Aug 10
Actually her kids started getting a lot more sleep and their grades came up since they were basically handed some time to complete their assignments without texting and facebook competing for the time!
@commanderxo (1494)
• Canada
16 Aug 10
GREAT idea! More people should be like her with their kids. cdrxo
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
24 Aug 10
I think that this is a wonderful idea. My daughter is far from being a teenager, but she does have an addiction to the same kind of techno gadgets that you are referring to. When we moved into the house she was allowed to have a television and DVD player in her room and those were on a timer so she couldn't use them at night. Then as far as the computer goes, it is downstairs so that it doesn't give her temptation at night.