What would you do if the person you're with isn't ready to settle down yet?

Its kind of sucky when you want to take the leap but the other person doesn't or doesn't feel ready to be 'committed' like that (etc). But I can understand how you feel. I agree the first person, give him time to come around. Some people have trust and/or commitment issues and it takes them a while to get with 'the program'. LOL. Plus, just because you're both the 'right' age (what's the right age, anyway?) and have stable jobs doesn't mean you're necessarily ready to settle down yet (I think there are a lot of factors involved..) good luck in your situatino, however!

Just him more time. It will require a lot of patience from you by waiting but it better than forcing him to settle down with you even if he's not ready yet. Settling down is not as easy as it sounds so both persons should really sure of themselves.