So I've be hearing a lot about this guy who looked at his wifes email.

@2004cqui (2812)
United States
January 4, 2011 9:29pm CST
He found out she was having an affair by looking through her computer. I thought that when you got married you had to share in all things. To me it's considered "game on". Yet, if convicted of invasion of privacy he could get 5 years! I wonder what new levels of "privacy" will be available to us if that happens!
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• India
5 Jan 11
Lol marrien couples should be loyal and honest to each other, fully transparent, no hiding at all, if not live may become hell for both and peace is gone for ever.. Thank you so much for sharing. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . HAPPY NEW YEAR
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@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
5 Jan 11
I agree so much! Over the last 27 years I can remember many times and reasons why both my husband and I have had to go into the others personal spaces to get something just to run both our lives while the other was unavailable. I've told him where to find my credit card, he has told me where to find his paycheck stubs, etc. To me total transparency is total peace of mind.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
5 Jan 11
Written by a wise man.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
5 Jan 11
Truthfully I think the charges and the publicity are ridiculous and b.s. I am one that doesn't think it is right to get into someone elses personal mail, wallet, phone etc. In all the years that I was married, I never once snooped in my husbands wallet or mail. I never got into his dresser. Still, it seems that this person had a suspicion that he needed to confirm and he did in reading his wife's e-mail. I may not agree but I don't feel it was a crime. It is a personal conflict between a husband and a wife. Adultry doesn't even hold up in court anymore. I know so many couples that go through each others e-mails and phones. I am guessing this one will get dropped. In the meantime, they are just making a big deal about something that happens all the time.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
5 Jan 11
I've been married a long time and we can totally trust each other. With that said lets say I have reason not to trust him and I hire a private detective. Then with pictures in hand I take him to court. Is that a privacy thing? Hmmm.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
5 Jan 11
Wow! I'll have to pass that info onto my DIL....she likes to check up on my son...and it pisses him off! He would never think of cheating...and if they have to check up on their partner well I call that pretty sad. Marriage is about trust.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
7 Jan 11
The wife was completely not that smart in this case. Not that I'm advocating an affair, but having that type of stuff in an e-mail that your husband can easily access. Not that smart. Really that just shows that she's rather not that bright. Or supremely arrogant. It might be an invasion of privacy, but there are reasons why you put passwords on your e-mail and tell no one. Because people are human and they can get vindictive. Especially if you're married to them.