What is better -- Starting a disscussion or posting response to a discussion?

India
February 25, 2011 4:57am CST
Dear Friends, I have seen that many myLotters have started a huge number of discussions as compared to the number of responses they have made. At the same time there are others, like me, who have not started more discussions, and the number of their responses is quite high than the number of the discussions started by them. I am totally confused after searching profiles of users here at myLot. What is better? Starting a good discussion or posting a good response to a discussion? What is the right course of action for a good myLotter? What do you think? Between these two options, what is considered better by myLot itself? Can you suggest something?
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
25 Feb 11
Hi their The most important thing is you take part in discussion whether it started by you or other. I mean mylot pay for our own activity .. So even if we start discussion and don't reply back to responses we get we will surely not earn more. So enjoy discussing with other is important. Now you have to decide where you want to discuss. I mean starting your own interest discussion will give you more chance to discuss on it. Or you can find your interested discussion started by other and discuss with all users in it.
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
25 Feb 11
The numbers behind our username is the 'user rating' you are talking about. Yes it will be increase when you will respond in others discussions and it will also increase by one when you reply to your first response in your discussion... About which one is better.. Its totally depend on you. If you want to increase the user ratings then surely it will be increase more by responding others.. And in our own discussion there is more chances we can respond and write.. So that will surely give you more earning..
• India
25 Feb 11
Thanks for this new information, I was unaware that this number is rating. I thought that this is number of responses we have made as it keeps increasing by one digit after each response made. I was also unaware that with the first comment also our rating increases. So, rating effects our earning, right? Then, it is better to increase our rating. Therefore, it is better to respond rather than start a discussion. on the other hand, as you say, "In our discussions there are more chances that we can respond and write which will increase our earning." Therefore, it is better to start a discussion. It has become again a bit confusing, which way is better?
• India
25 Feb 11
Hi there, Yeah, that is well understood that we got paid for the effort we have made in order to make a discussion complete, whether by giving a response or by starting a discussion. But one way should be better, right? I think the Ideal way should be to post responses to the discussions of others. In this way the number of responses shown nearby our user will also increase, right?
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Feb 11
MyLot exists to promote good quality discussions. A discussion (as opposed to a 'question and answer' session or anything else) consists of: 1) a good topic which encourages good quality, descriptive and original responses 2) at least one response (and preferably many) which is descriptive, original and relevant to the topic 3) good quality replies to and comments on the responses (and, perhaps, more of the same - a collective and meaningful conversation, in other words) If a topic does not fulfil those criteria, it is not likely to be a 'discussion of quality' and, unless (3) is met, it is not really a discussion at all. With that in mind, therefore, it is good to start a discussion, provided that it abides by the Guidelines and is likely to be a topic which fulfils all the points above; however, a discussion involves everyone who responds and the more colloquy there is (see: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/colloquy - in the first sense but also the second), the better the discussion. ONE person may start a discussion but it takes MANY to make it a good one, therefore responding to and commenting in discussions is vital and everyone should be responding and commenting more often than they are starting discussions. *** Everyone who starts a discussion, too, should be prepared to maintain it by making good quality, descriptive comments on the responses. *** This is the ideal and it is what MyLot is all about and it is also what MyLot reward us for ... our participation, not just starting discussions or responding or commenting. Once you have understood that, you are less likely to make mistakes and be involved in discussions which get deleted and more likely to earn well.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Feb 11
I think that the reason that many people post multiple discussions in a day (and sometimes almost swamp the 'New Discussions') is that they are under the impression that 'Posting Discussions' is what MyLot is about and that this is the best way to earn. You will often see that people who do this are new(ish) members, the 'topics' are often ones that have been posted many times before and are frequently 'poll type' questions or other kinds which are specifically forbidden in the Guidelines. I regard these kinds of 'discussion' as 'noise' (and sometimes a nuisance), however, the MyLot servers are able to store them, so, as long as they go unanswered they will quietly sink into oblivion.
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• India
25 Feb 11
very well said, All of these types of discussions were posted by almost new members (although, older than me). Exactly there were topics which were either repeated or were not according to the guidelines of myLot, I was fortunate enough to avoid them.
• India
25 Feb 11
Many many thanks for such a precise definition of discussion. I will always remember these points and will try to always follow them till my user name exists in myLot. I hope more users will see your description and there will be less number of discussions which are in the form of simple statements and declarative sentences. But why there are multiple discussions in a single day from one user? Is it better? which one is better between both of the options? What you prefer? or What should be generally done?
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Feb 11
This is a very good and productive discussion, Narendra. There is a great deal here that many newcomers could benefit from and you certainly should have no misgivings about whether what you are doing is right! (Take no notice of what 'most' others are doing!) My only concern is that (with one exception), you are the 'youngest' - in terms of User Rating - to have posted. I wonder how many new users will have even seen this discussion, let alone will have read through it. I suspect that most new users come here with one purpose - to earn money. They can't be bothered to read or try to understand. They think that posting (and posting their own ideas and 'discussions' mostly) is how to do it. People DON'T tend to listen these days. It's all about shout, shout, shout! MyLot is a place where these 'new' rules don't work as expected! .... (thank goodness!)
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• India
26 Feb 11
Many thanks, Owlwings, I myself have learned a lot from this discussion regarding how to start a discussion and how to maintain it. It has also taught me how to respond to discussions. Many of my doubts have been clarified through this discussion. I read all the FAQs and rules of myLot and then when I saw users starting discussions which were not in accordance of those rules and regulations I became concerned. Everyday I was seeing multiple discussions which were started irrespective of their repetitive nature and content. I wondered if only starting discussion should be the motive of a myLotter. But now I have understood a lot. Thank to you, you have been of an immense help. Have a wonderful day.
25 Feb 11
I think it all depends on if you are a chatter or a helper or both equal if you have many things to say or that you want answers to or to discuss and would like advice then you may start many discussions on the other hand you may be better at giving advice and opinions so you respond to discussions more
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• India
25 Feb 11
Hi, I got your point, but if I can do both things, what is considered better? I have seen there are many discussions which do not ask for any advice or suggestions, and they even do not have a sense of discussion. They are just in the form of simple statements. There are may discussions which are in the form of declarations. They do not have any point of debate. Users are just starting discussion everyday irrespective of the content of the discussion. I have seen multiple discussions started by a single user in one day. This made me totally confused -- Whether it is good to start discussions only?
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@GardenGerty (157598)
• United States
25 Feb 11
MyLot prefers quality content and participation, whether it is in the form of a discussion or responses. The best way to manage discussions is to start a discussion and then comment with good content to the responses. A user who does not do that is missing an opportunity to develop a good reputation and to earn well and make lots of friends.
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
26 Feb 11
Exactly, an earnest conversation is called a discussion. As conversation is the essential part of a discussion, it is mandatory to comment back on the responses to our discussion in order to make it a complete discussion.
• United States
25 Feb 11
I love both but must admit I do not start very many. I am not going to start discussions just about anything as my discussions at times are endless. Since I am one who gets back to each and every response I want to make sure that I am fair with that. For me I can take weeks before I start one but in the interim I am forever responding to members. I truly enjoy both but if I had to pick I would say responding only because when I do I respond mostly due so many life experiences I have encounter and it allows me to speak from the heart. So my suggestion is that if you do start a discussion just make sure it is of an interest as this way you have plenty to come back to the members with comments. This is how it works for me. Best of luck to you and do look forward to further interaction with you!
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• India
26 Feb 11
Many thanks for your best wishes. Yes, I have seen your discussions and participated too. Your approach is extremely good. I think it is good to contemplate and give multiple thoughts to a discussion topic before starting it. But when I saw opposite of this, I was concerned and puzzled. I thought if it is really important to start a discussion as users were starting multiple discussions in a single day. You are correct that we must start a discussion of our interest as this will help us in commenting back to the responses we have received. Have a nice day.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
26 Feb 11
In one of a discussions, we were reminded that our earning will be based on whatever we have written on mylot. For instance, after we have started a new discussion, we can earn the credits on our comment after someone response to our discussion. For me, starting a new discussion will be better and easier for us to comment and earn. But not all the while I have something to start and to be proactive in mylot. I shall respond to discussions too whenever I have something to say.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
26 Feb 11
Thank you so much for providing the exact name of the discussion. I should be appreciate if you can provide me the related link too. I did search but I couldn't locate it anymore. I am wondered if I was deleted by the administrator or not.
• India
26 Feb 11
it is not the topic of that discussion, it was the punchline of it. I can type link but I do not know if it is allowed or not. I will send you personal message, just accept me as your friend. what you prefer the most as the ideal course of action? Starting a discussion or responding to the discussion of others? Although, both will result into a good discussion, but I want to reach on a consensus here.
• India
26 Feb 11
Yes, the punchline of that discussion was "I type I earn" "You type you earn." It was quite an informative discussion. I also think that starting discussion is better as we start a discussion on a topic over which we have some command and thus we can comment back on our responses. At the same time, it is also correct that good discussion topics requires a lot of thought and ideas. You start a discussion when you have something in mind to start a discussion and you respond when you feel you have something to share, but overall you prefer starting a discussion, right?
@GardenGerty (157598)
• United States
25 Feb 11
I noticed that you said something about earning from getting a lot of responses. I think probably you have noticed by now, we do not earn for what other people do, but only for our own activity. So having a lot of responses to a discussion will only earn for you if you comment on each of those responses. Many of these users who bombard us with countless discussions end up getting tired and leaving because they end up not earning the way the believe they should be. You are doing a nice job of asking questions and participating in this discussion and if you do that in all discussions you will do really well here. One thing I would point out to any new person is that if you post a discussion and no one responds, you do not earn, but if you post a response you earn for that every time.
@GardenGerty (157598)
• United States
27 Feb 11
What you post to start a discussion does not actually become a discussion until it has elicited responses. I believe it is two responses now. When I first started here, once you had one response you had started a discussion. This is one reason it is advantageous to have many active friends. If they are active they will have their notifiers turned on and will be responding to your discussion if it interests them and they can contribute.
• India
27 Feb 11
Oh, yes, without a response, it will not be called a discussion and will remain a one sided dialogue. To complete a discussion we must get at least one response. Now I got it. Yes, active friends are always helpful. Thanks a lot GardenGerty.
• India
26 Feb 11
Many thanks for your support and best wishes. While reading a discussion a few week ago, I learned that we earn for our activity only. The basic idea of that discussion or should say the punchline of that discussion was "I type I earn." "You type you earn." That was an eye-opening discussion. But still users are unaware of this very basic fact. They just start a discussion and sit back and keep on counting the number of responses they are getting. Likewise, I found many users were just starting multiple discussions a day irrespective of their content or repetitive nature. This made me confused and concerned. I thought if it is really more important to start a discussion. But now I have learned a lot through mentors like you. Again, it is a new piece of information that if I receive no response, I will earn nothing. One doubt, I will not earn even for what I have posted or written in order to start that particular discussion?
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@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
hi narendra2n, For me it doesn't matter as long as I am interested in a certain topic I will share my views and contribute in that discussion. I think what is best thing to do is to make quality discussions rather than create random topic that the starter will not able to handle or respond but, it doesn't say that we must answer all the responses we get in our started topic. It is just that, it will make the topic more interesting if we can handle all the topic we have created. It is your choice, whether to create a huge number of discussion or respond as many as you can as long as it is of good quality, why not. Happy Lotting!
• India
25 Feb 11
Hi danitykane, Very true, some discussions have so much interesting topics that we cannot stop ourselves to respond them. You are write that what matters here is "quality discussions," but I have seen many discussions with topics which have no quality to be called as a discussion. They are just a kind of declarations, I wonders how to respond them. One more thing, I have learned that it is extremely essential to comment back on the responses to your discussions. That is, we must answer all the responses if possible in order to make it a complete discussion. Many thanks, have a nice time.
• United States
26 Feb 11
I think many users prefer to post replies instead of starting new discussions for several reasons: --It's easier to think about a topic already in existence, rather than coming up with a compelling topic. --There are tons and tons of topics on this site, and users need to search for a topic to see if it already exists before starting a new one. Many people don't like going through that. --New topics are for something on your mind. Reviewing topics and responding to them does not require any preemptive thinking or preparation. Thanks all.
• India
26 Feb 11
Hi adammason, Your reasons behind not starting a discussions are good and sensible, but I have noticed just opposite of this. Users are starting multiple discussions a day and not caring for the repetitive nature of the topic or for the violation of the myLot's guidelines. That was the reason why I started this discussion thinking that maybe starting a discussion is more important that responding one.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
1 Mar 11
I personally think its better to making a discussion than responding others because its will made our reputation higher. We had bigger chance in making new friend and ear more because we will had to response all the response we got. But I believe we are had our own style here like I did. I enjoy more responding to others discussion than making one. In term of earning as long we give quality answer we will earn good also. So its a matters how we did it. In term reputation I got blue star few month ago but because I really enjoying response to others discussion than making one I stuck in red star.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
2 Mar 11
The value of our star is decided by how others rate our activity. That could be our started discussions, our responses on other discussions or our comments. Others can rate us without participating in our posts and it makes no difference whether we start our own topics or not as they can rate us regardless.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
1 Mar 11
You will know if you already got your 100 post you will get your star and realize your start will raised up faster if you making discussion than responding it. But how others members to rating us also important in our rating. I don't really obsessed with my star but its feel good to have thats blue star. I think the rating will drop if we not making discussion but not so many maybe one level. I think its also related to my inactivity here because real life quite hectic right now. I think you need to look your self, in time you will learn so many thing in this site but FAQ is a big guide here. I think the biggest sin here to be one liner or two, in making discussion or response it.
• India
2 Mar 11
Hi Nangisha, Thanks for your support. I have read the DRS system in FAQ many times. I think it has nothing to do with inactivity here. It is only related with our activity and its quality as perceived by others. AS you know they give us plus or minus by their understanding of our contribution. Hello mysdianait, You have always been precise and accurate with your responses. I would like to request you to please throw some light on this discussion also. I need your valuable response as it has great value for me.
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
I don't really know which one is better- I have more discussions answer than the discussions I have posted though. It is quite hard for me to think of a good discussion to post- so I just answer other people's discussions. But I think it's better to post discussions so If you don't have any discussions that you want to respond to, then you can just respond to the people who posted in your discussions.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
Yes, I really find it much easier to respond to discussion- mostly on topics I really enjoy (like eating, watching movies, books, student, life and the like) . Especially when I am in the mood, I can answer more than 15 discussions in a day.
• India
26 Feb 11
Great, I too have almost similar interests. Yes, in order to provide good responses we should have a particular type of mindset at that time so that we can think better and provide a quality response. When we are feeling a bit down or there is something else going on in our mind, it becomes hard to provide good responses to discussions. A quality discussion needs proper attention and good mood. I have never ever given more than five responses a day. You really have great potential. By the way, how is your mood today?
• India
26 Feb 11
That is the same situation like me, more responses than the number of discussion. Sometimes it becomes very hard to find a good and unique topic to start a discussion, I agree with that. On the other hand making responses to the discussions of other is a bit easier as we have to give our own views on that topic.
@sajeevking (5073)
• Mumbai, India
25 Feb 11
I don't find any difference personally i just like posting on discussion and have started only 3 discussion till now but i like it that why i would start few discussion soon its been a while since i did that anyways it all depends on individual i guess some of us like posting and on discussion and some like to start one and some who do both as far as what is better i think all of them are same it does not matter what you do here you just have to enjoy what you do
• Mumbai, India
25 Feb 11
Yes both are same but if there are not many discussion starter there might not be many responder as we would have less discussion to take part in and same goes if there are not many user who reply to our discussion then the user would feel that no one is interested in posting on discussion both are required
• India
25 Feb 11
Yes, in a sense both are same thing as the result is same -- discussion. Whether we respond or start a discussion result will be a discussion. I got it. But why there are many discussion which cannot be called a discussion in any way. This led me to feel that starting discussion is considered better. So you prefer giving responses to discussions rather than starting a discussion.
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• India
26 Feb 11
Means there should be a balance in both. One must start discussion and at the same time keep on responding to the discussions started by others. That is a good idea. But why users are starting multiple discussion in a single day? I have seen they are responding less. It is evident from their profiles. If every one will think like this, there will be no responders which is a very concerning situation.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
1 Mar 11
myLot gets paid by the number of people who visit it. In that vein, it doesn't matter whether you invite people to a discussion you started or a discussion you added-to, as long as you ARE inviting people to myLot.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
2 Mar 11
No, I DON'T mean earning through referrals. I may not mean how WE (members) earn at all! I mean the way myLot earns---by the number of visits others make to the site. And as for 'whether starting or responding is better,' ... I'm gonna say 'responding,' as it enriches the content of pages myLot already has. 'Earning through referrals' is "a horse of a different color"
• India
3 Mar 11
Oh, okay. Yes, I understand that how any website like this earns. I also consider responding better. Thanks.
• India
2 Mar 11
You mean earning through referrals? Yeah that is another aspect like earning by doing tasks, doing search, uploading photos, etc. Actually, we were discussing about starting a discussion or responding a discussion, which is considered better.
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• Indonesia
26 Feb 11
I think mylotters should do both, starting good discussions and responding in a good way. For me, I prefer the last one. I'm not into 'making a discussion sounds interesting', maybe because I'm not so confidence with my english. I experience that posting a response is more easy than making a discussion.
• India
27 Feb 11
Hi, Well said, to post a response is rather easy and there is also less risk in it in terms of deletion. After all we all are here to enjoy and we can enjoy in any way by giving our responses or by starting a discussion. I do not find your English wrong. In fact you have good communication skill in English. Better than many myLotters. Keep up the good work. Thanks for your response. Have a nice day.
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• Indonesia
2 Mar 11
Thanks a lot for the compliment. You've made my day...
@mohdromly (165)
• Malaysia
31 Mar 11
I agree with you.What say about start discussions is very important.Also,be rsponse and give response is very important.If everyone do it discussion only,who will response to our discussion.
• India
31 Mar 11
Yes, if everyone will keep on starting discussions only there will be no one to respond and there will be no discussion. We must keep responding to discussion along with starting a discussion. Welcome to myLot mohdromly. What you find good between starting a discussion or responding to a discussion?
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
28 Feb 11
Personally I respond back to way more discussions than I ever start. Most of the time it is because there is nothing I can really think about talking about and would rather just post back to everyone else's discussions instead. Personally there is good and bad to both, as you can risk the discussions being deleted either way. You do earn $$ here from doing both. It is usually all just based on how active you have been in here as well.
• India
1 Mar 11
Hi, well said. It is rather easier to respond to discussions of other as we have just give our views. On the other hand starting a discussion requires a unique topic which should not only new but also attractive so that we get multiple responses.
• United States
26 Feb 11
I do not think one is better than the other. They are different in that if I want to get an answer or an opinion to something then I will post a discussion. If I feel I can contribute to a discussion with my response then I will respond. But IMO one is not better that the other. The only course of action is your personal choice. MyLot does not seem to care one way or the other.
• India
27 Feb 11
Yes, I depends on the user only what he wants to do whether he wants to respond or whether he wants to start a discussion. It is always good to provide response to the discussions of others. I also follow this path only. Good day.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
28 Mar 11
Hi,i think both are good if only you discuss or respond seriously. I most time search for the topics i like to give responses. Of course, there are some occasion i come up with a topic, then i will raise a discussion and hope mylotters will follow me, and i will be very glad to receive lots of responses. There are some times my discussions can't get many responses, i feel a little disappointed. And i do thank for those who give responses to my discussions and those who have helped me in the past. So i think there is no good or bad in these two choice. I only raise discussions when i need to raise questions or i got some topic to discuss with mylotters.
• India
30 Mar 11
I have made many friends here and whenever I start a discussion my friends always respond to it. I also check my mailbox and whenever my friends have started a discussion I try to respond them. You follow a good path to choose a topic by searching it, but I think everyone do not do like that and therefore you get lesser responses for your discussions. Be my friend. I will be there to discuss with you always.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
I think the two are better depending on the writers appetite. But for me I prefer to comment and reply than making a discussion daily. I have a limited of sources to post that I why I much prefer to be a commentator for every post
• India
8 Mar 11
When there are limited source to post we can always choose which post is from our interest so that we can respond to them. We chooses the discussion topics when they are available to us and respond them. It is easy to select one of our interest and posting a comment. Have a good day.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
26 Feb 11
I am one of the people that respond a lot. I have only started 2 discussions. I can't think of new topics to start a discussion. I answer some of my friends and from my list of interests and by then I am too tired to start one anyway. I don't think Mylot cares if you start a discussion or respond. As long as it is a quality discussion.
• India
27 Feb 11
Great, It means you have always helped myLotters in their discussions by providing your responses. That is a very good thing. I appreciate your attitude. I also find it hard to find a good topic to start a discussion, so I also choose to give my responses to the discussions. Thanks for your response. Best of luck.
@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
1 Mar 11
Each has its importance and I don't think one is more important or better than the other. See it this way: it's pointless to start many discussions if no one actually respond to them (they should be called monologues in that case), as it's equally pointless to have a lot of people willing to respond and nothing to respond to. There must be a balance between both. Both are important and I think each one should both start own topics and respond to existing ones. Of course, each one has his own preference too, but I don't see too good to be commited to only start discussions or to only respond to others.
• India
1 Mar 11
For a good discussion both are essential as it is completed only when there is a conversation. Yes, user act on their preferences, but some think that since they have started a discussion now people will respond and they will earn which is completely false and they do not earn after initial earning for starting the discussion. They have to comment back to maintain their earnings, right?
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