Online lovers really exist?

Philippines
March 23, 2011 11:40pm CST
I am so tired with my love life few months past since I can't find someone right for me and all of them are not serious in relationship. But lately I meet this special someone in facebook and we became friends and time come that we exchange contact information, we chatted every day in facebook and time comes that we feel that we love each other and we become lovers, thought we didn't meet in person but I say that we really love each other. I am just afraid if the feeling is still the same if we meet in person. What do you think our situation? Do you know someone the same with us?
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24 responses
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
ooh really???omg..hehehehe..pareha ta..u know him..hahahahhha
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
sakpan ka ha..kinsa xa rex????eheheheh..ahermmmm..
@Graceekwenx (3163)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
Hi! I had fallen for someone in cyberspace. Would your feelings still be be the same if you meet in person? Hmm.. Why not take the risk to meet him? Has he exchanged the same feelings for you? You can never really tell if it is genuine love if you fail to meet him. Good luck on that. I must admit that issues like this is up for cynical insinuations. There would be those who would tell you to "why not just date someone you can realistically meet?" Online relationships can truly be full of surprises and risks.
@sunnycool (12736)
• India
25 Mar 11
"Online relationships can truly be full of surprises and risks" --- SO TRUE
@tonyllenium (6266)
• Italy
24 Mar 11
mmh i think is particular condition so in reality i think till you can't meet her you can't really say i love her or not because you know chatting on social network is a thing but when you can meet or speak live with the person may be something can change...
24 Mar 11
A friend of mine matches your situation except that its not on facebook but they on the online games.. they been lovers in the game for bout i think 6 or 7 months.. they chat everyday.. saying i love you to each other.. call.. text.. then came the day that they met.. well, as far as i know.. nothing changes between them.. so online lovers really do exist.. but now they are not together anymore.. they are together for about 3 years i think.. but its pretty long for the two person whose been inlove before they meet..right?
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
That's good. Online relationships do exists of course. Hope you both could meet in person too so that you'll get to know more each other well.
• United States
25 Mar 11
It can really go either way and no one can tell you how it will turn out for you. Every person is different and every relationship is different. Sometimes it's real love and you meet and end up together. Sometimes it's just the persona the person projects through text and there is no real spark once you get together in person. All you can do it meet him and hope for the best and see what happens.
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
hi rsaburnido, Online or offline relationship will be successful one if both of you will work it out i have a friends they have an online relationship i can say it was successful it's not just online but online distance love affair but they try to make things alright. LOVE HAS NO BOUNDARIES its NOT HOW FAR OR HOW NEAR its about HOW MUCH YOU LOVE EACH OTHERS. Don't be afraid to take a risk on loving someone. happy mylotting
@Janexiao (173)
• China
25 Mar 11
i am not so sure, but i know there are some love at the first sight, but if you want to know you two really can get along well with each other, you two have to be together for a while to know each other better
@sunnycool (12736)
• India
25 Mar 11
It depends on what you have been chatting --- its good to meet her with a neutral mindset else you might end up in the wrong place with a broken heart!You gotta be ready for unexpected stuff too which can pretty much force you to change your view about her.Great day!
@mayrah (1128)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Well honestly I have known a lot f online lovers, some of them become successful some are not. Personally I have entered an online relationship about 3years ago but unfortunately that love not favored me, We were both so in love with each other when I discovered that he was already married. I cried to tears and feeling it was the greatest love I would ever had but I have to let it go.. But later on when I already had moved on, I meet a very special love from from work. And I believe he is my destiny. What I want to point out here is it doesn't matter if it's online love affair or not if you are destined for each other everything will come smoothly and God will bless your relationship. I also have know few friends who have successful love story which started from online relationship and when they meet she told its the same when they were just chatting. I wish that love of your would not end andn always be happy.
@Mickie30 (2633)
24 Mar 11
I do not think anyone can be in love with each other who has never met in person. I used to think I was in love many times over, but looking back I really wasn't. True love is something very special and it only happens once or twice in a life time. To truly find the one you love that is special in every way that, that you truly connect with. This is a description of true love. Sacrifice for each other. Having children together and giving up things you love for them. When you have true love, you know that you know that you love that person. You would not be asking if you were in love if you truly were in love. However, there are different forms of lesser types of love. Maybe that I would not even call love in itself. Like, lust, crushes, etc. How can you love someone deeply if you have never even met? Perhaps this is your soul mate, but you would only fall in love once you met. Once you have spent time together. Love grows and it never stays the same. Love matures over time. Jesus had true love for us because He gave up His life for the world. He loved the world so much that He sacrificed His life.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
24 Mar 11
Within facebook, you might have this fantasy with each other. You might not even sure whether the photo she posted up there is real or not. So, you might be need to be cautious about it. I am not advise you against this relationship, or online love you so call. I just have to tell you be careful with everything online.
@dreamnishu (1253)
• China
24 Mar 11
hello friend! i do not believe that online love is going so long.it is happen with me also now i do not believe on it.some are exception but exception is not an example.yes you are right so do not believe on it.we do not know about that person whom we talk so it is not good for us to believe them.i think have to be strong. thanks a lot.
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
So I can call this a Facebook Love Affair,lol. I think what you feel is just normal maybe because you find her special and there maybe some qualities in her that you find appealing and exciting. The good thing is that the feelings is mutual and you are both in love with each other, that is so sweet. I think you both already see each others photos so don't be afraid if you will meet in person I am sure the feelings is still the same. Even though I am expecting that long distance relationship wont always work out well in the end, but I wish you both a happy ending. Happiness lies in your hands and hers as well so continue to love each other as long the feelings is alive.
@acey76 (1278)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
Well it happened to me before, He's in the US and I'm in the Philippines, we've been chatting for 1year and a half when I am surprised getting a call that he is already here, He's a Filipino like me, We've met and well we both accepted each other and nothing has changed, Our relationship just stopped after he got back there cause His father wants him to go to army.We are still talking but now we got separate life now but nothing has changed :-)
@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 11
THEY DO! I have heard hundreds and thousands of people, near and abroad falling in love online even before they meet each other. You love the person from the way he talk to you and the way he express himself to u. Just that he didn't exist around for you at the time being. But, there are online predators too! So, must keep your eye open and becareful about it. Not everyone is trustworthy. I'm sorry BUT good luck to you!
@pjnjclyn (177)
• Newton, New Jersey
24 Mar 11
I have met some people online that I am now friends with. My sister met someone online and now they are living together. I know of others that are married now from meeting online. My feelings on it you can meet someone anywhere whether it is online or a chance meeting. Love is love and as long as you are honest with each other then you can have a relationship. Think about it this way people that met on chat lines or through dating services. Every person is different. I will say this the first time that you do meet in person make sure that it is in a public place so that just in case there is something that is not right that you are safe. I am not saying that there will be something that is wrong but better to be safe then sorry because there are things that people have done.
@makenie (23)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
That's a great story... It depends in you, If you really love that person seriously there is nothing to afraid of. Remember love is the ultimate force here in this earth. It can bring you happiness freedom and fulfillment but if you violate love it can cause so much pain. So be sure about your feelings. :)
@nikramos (701)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
online lovers really exist? they do. when you feel something unexplainable yet special, it is true. just a reminder though- dont disclose too much information too soon. you might regret doing so. enjoy the feeling of being in love while its there but be very cautious about who you meet online.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
It does exists and real if you believed in love. 2 of my friends whom i also met online had their online love comes in reality. The first friend of mine met her online love last 2 years ago and now they are planning to get married soon. My second friend met her online love in person last January,and i am so happy for them. If you believed it would happen,and you knew in your heart that it's real...it is real and it would happen.
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
Hey take it easy it happens to me but lucky me coz its work just hope and pray that everything will be alright. I and my fiancee met in the dating sites too, and yeah me too Im afraid of what will happen if we met in person, but because I love him and whatever is the result will be Im willing to accept it and take a risk. And especially now a days its hard to find that someone who is true and devoted to make it work. Well its depends on how you build your trust your faith and love with each other...Just try to observe and you will find out.. Good Luck..