Why the god give so many pain in ones life..?

What makes you think that God gives the pain? Humans live, make their own decisions and have them made for them by their parents, their teachers, their bosses and their families. ALL of the decisions are made by humans. Some may be 'good' choices and others may be 'bad' choices but we believe, do we not, that God made us with the freedom to choose? If I walk along a path and am not careful, I may be scratched by thorns. Should I blame the thorn bush for being there or the gardener for planting it? NO! It was MY choice to take that path and MY fault that I was scratched!

God may allow pain, but he doesn't give it. Big difference.

I think it is not god that has given us all the problems and all the pains we feel and encounter. Remember that we are given free will that is why more often than not it is our own doings why we suffer.

If you have read anything about Karma you will understand. People go through bad times because they need to learn something either from this life or a previous one. We are put on this earth to learn through different methods. It is sad to see others in bad times but this is perhaps a good arena to learn how you can be of help to others.

Life is not create as heaven but hardship. When the earth created it is created for good. But human transgress the commandment of God. This is the reason why God, give human to this way of life... Do not be dismay about life, friend. Life really created something like that because of human sin...

Maybe he is testing our resolve.If we stand firm and struggle we could come out stronger and better.But in times of turmoil its difficult to think on those lines.It appears everything is against you.I really can't understand why some struggle whereas others have a relatively better life.

Well personally I think we will really know why God lets so many people endure what they have too. I have chronic pain due to having Fibromyalga, as well as dealing with Chronic wounds due to vein problems in my leg, and being Diabetic that never want to heal unless I go to a Wound Health Care Center. I am a Christian and Pray and attend church all the time, so it is not my faith. Sometimes I feel he allows us to go thru things to see how much we can handle and get us to rely and trust in him more as well.

Good Evening to you. I hope your day has been treating you well. I wish I had the answers to this. Really dont like seeing others in turmoil or suffering either. It is pretty sad and especially when you wish you could help ease the troubles for a fellow person. While I do not understand the reasons behind them it is my understanding that its not always for us to understand. I believe that its for us to gain strength and be able to bear witness to others in their times of trials and tribulations and there are times that we also go through things for others around us to watch and learn something from.

I believe that God allows us to go through trials so that we will come to Him with our problems. "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) I think the poem Footprints in the Sand pretty much says what happens when we have trials and problems in life: One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord. Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky. In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand. Sometimes there were two sets of footprints, other times there were one set of footprints. This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life, when I was suffering from anguish, sorrow or defeat, I could see only one set of footprints. So I said to the Lord, "You promised me Lord, that if I followed you, you would walk with me always. But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life there have only been one set of footprints in the sand. Why, when I needed you most, you have not been there for me?" The Lord replied, "The times when you have seen only one set of footprints, is when I carried you." Mary Stevenson http://www.footprints-inthe-sand.com/index.php?page=Poem/Poem.php

Could be you are blaming God what you should be blaming on Satin or yourself.

I firmly believe that God gives us some trials to become close to him. Do you remember God whenever you enjoy your time. And another reason God gives us some trials to make us stronger. We become strong whenever we face some challenges in our lives. I do believe that God ready us to face other challenges in future. We are just like a blade that we have to sharpen in rough surface, blade will not be sharpen using velvet clothes. So you can use your experience in future. I am telling you. Just keep yourself with the guidance of God.

Hi siliguri~ No matter which side did God give us- the pain or the happy side- either way will make the same point. Both are tests for people whether you do believe on Him and remember Him in yourself or not. If you are rich or in a comfortable state it tests you whether you still remember not not forget the suffering people or those who unlucky than you. Will you be thankful to Him for giving you such pleasure and still seek for His help and protection? Did you do things to help the unlucky people with the wealth he gave you??? When you are in pain, will you seek for His help, will you bear with it, do you have patience to it??? Usually we only ask and remember God when we are in pain but we tend to forget him when we are happy. For those who believe in God they knows that what they do now will affect their afterlife.

hi, Maybe God have many reason why He give many pain to a ones life,i think to give value to the life He gave to us and also to enjoy the life we had now,how can we enjoy life if there's no pain,how can we say that we are strong when there's no pain,how can we value our life if there's no pain,so many reason why we have to feel the pain in our life.

For me GOD do not give pain but GOD takes pain to relieve our pain.You always think you have lot of problems but have you ever think that GOD has solved many of your problems without giving you a hint of it. Had He not solved those problems you might have more problems & must be crying.

Hie I think Human life is the best one, God has created human in his own image that is his abundant love for us. Though man has lot of problems as compared to animals but think over it again, we are been the best God is always there to help us in each and every situation God doesn't not want us to suffer and be painful in life, When sufferings and troubles come it is none other than our sins troubling us for what we have did, God always still loves us inspite of all this. Never curse a like be thankful to God for what he has created. God has solutions to each and every plans if you take your pains and sufferings in a negative way you will always think that human life is very miserable, So my friend see from the point of view of God and always pray when Problems arises iam sure you will find your way from it.

To my knowledge God gives no one pain..As I recall the story a fella named Adam gave stewardship of this world over to that other fella..you know the one..who is (literally) hell-bent for glory. It is his influences in this world and over us and our 'dammed' lousy choices that cause the pain and sufferings in this world. We, through our self interests set in motion the chain of events that lead to much of the suffering and pain we see in this world. It ain't God! He tries to influence our choices but the final action of the choice is on us. Too often we listen more closely to that other fella, choose what he wants us to do and put into motion the actions that bring about all that pain we see in the world. So if you want the cause..and the solution..you best find a mirror..

For me it is not the true God gave that pain it is the God of this system Satan.

Hello!I have the same feeling with you.Increase with age, I find that life is more than the pain of the.I also believe that some religious life is a sin.There is also a statement,who was born the first sound of crying,is the beginning of suffering.However,we still have to happy mood to spend the pain of life. Happy every day!

i will answer from my relegion background... as i am muslim we consider pain as a tess from our god to our patience

God gave us problem for us to be strong. We just have to trust him in everything. Don't worry GOD won't give problems that we can't bear. Just trust in him and everything will be fine. :)