Why? The people are using chatting as a wrong way
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
June 22, 2011 5:26am CST
I have seen a very sad news on the TV channel at night 11PM. A boy and girl chat to each other on rediffbol messenger. Then after some days they decided to meet to each other. Boy daily purchase small gift for girl one day girl said I love you but I dont like this small gift. Then boy ask the girl what you want tell me, I will purchase for you.
Girl said I want diamond ring boy say her dont worry I will give you. One day he goes into the office pick up the cheque from boss office room go into the bank put fraud signature on the cheque withdrawl the money. Purchase a Diamond ring then call her and tell I want to meet you she came he gives the Diamond ring to her.
Second day when boss came into the office he see all documents are drawn on the earht then he goes to the Police station for complaint about theft case. Police was doing the checking and inquiry, during their process boy arrested and he accept all things and tell all story to the police then Police wants to meet that girl he goes near the girl with the police she said police I dont know who is this?
Really chatting is dangerous how people believe on the person without known anything. The boy all is done only because she said I Love You share your views people should aware about this.
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27 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
26 Jun 11
Well, I did meet my husband from chatting on the internet, but I don't think that I would have ever expected him to do something like that for me not too long after the two of us met in person. Yes, he did end up giving me a diamond ring about six months after we met, but it was paid for in full and in the legal way. In addition to that, it wasn't something that I demanded of him, it was something that he wanted to do for me.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
5 Jul 11
Wow, great friend your husband is nice and you are also good because you not demanded him they give you because their wish. Yes friend expectation is not good and nobody should expect from their friends or hubby or any family member. But really your story is good.
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
•
22 Jun 11
I don't see what this has to do with online chatting, specifically. The same could have happened with someone he'd met anywhere or even knew already. I have to admit it made me shrug that he'd be so incredibly stupid as to steal just so he could give her a diamond. I mean, duh! If a girl's loves you for your money, she's the wrong girl.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
Yes sir you are right if someone is demanding some gift or money it something is wrong there. How he is trust on her really he is less mind.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
22 Jun 11
Right. That is what I was saying too. The girl was a con artist. But the boy is the one who broke the law. He is the one that thought of the plan and carried it out. He was the one giving this girl the time of day.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jun 11
when she said she wanted a diamond ring, that should have been a huge red flag to him, and he should never have stolen money to get it...
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Jun 11
Really friend if boy has no money then he should not stole the money from the office. Here I think girl cheat the boy or take a profit of innocence of boy. Thanks to spend time for my discussion.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 11
It is pity to hear the boy had got himself into deep trouble just because of online love matter. I feel he shouldn't put too much trust into that kind of relationship. Every relationship needs time to built. In any new relationship, either party should not demand expensive gift from its partner. If one is demanding that way, then there is really something wrong with the relationship.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
22 Jun 11
Sad story, of course, but it just goes to show you that one has to be very careful when talking to people online, it is very hard to know who people actually are.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
Really friend this is very hard to find out which person is innocent. But really people should not trust on online chatting. Thanks for response.
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
22 Jun 11
Hi pucca!
Firstly that guy should give any thing to that girl. Secondly he should not follow and do whatever that girl asked him to do~ Thirdly how on earth he gets an idea to steal his company money?? He gets blinded by the power of LOVE~How could he simply trust that girl?
@kolsti87 (521)
• United States
22 Jun 11
Sometimes when I'm lurking the forums on 4Chan I see stories about people and their internet "girlfriends" that they met on OKCupid or Plenty of Fish and then chat with on MSN. They take their little cyber relationships way too seriously even though they've never seen these people before. I don't care what year it is or how many times you've chatted with someone online, if you've never seen them in person, you don't know them.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Jun 11
Yes kolsti friend you are right if anyone can demanding the gift it means they not love to you but love you for your property. But here really the mistake is done by the boy how he not understand she is cheating with him. any way thanks for comment.
@jlyn friend is right this is really stupid action why the boy is purchase such costly gift only for girlfriend here husband is also not purchase such costly gift for his wife hahaha
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 11
Hi kolsti87, really can't blame these people cause they are probably desperate for love. But acting foolish to proof your love to someone else by buying great gifts, that is definitely stupid cause that would mean that you are buying their love and not getting genuine love. Right?
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
7 Jul 11
wow and that got her a diamond ring !
I only got the ring due to marriage and necklace for engagement
it's shocking how some people could go the extra mile for something so uncertain
he doesn't know her and yet he bought her gifts daily
and then she said she loves him and he got in jail for getting her a ring
Chatting itself is not dangerous, it's how people react to the chats
some people just need to apply more logic
It's true I have done silly things for love too, be it online or offline
but never anything like crime, highly risky, or spend more than I can afford
in fact if the person keeps taking and not giving back, it won't last with me
and necklace for engagement
it's shocking how some people could go the extra mile for something so uncertain
he doesn't know her and yet he bought her gifts daily
and then she said she loves him and he got in jail for getting her a ring
Chatting itself is not dangerous, it's how people react to the chats
some people just need to apply more logic
It's true I have done silly things for love too, be it online or offline
but never anything like crime, highly risky, or spend more than I can afford
in fact if the person keeps taking and not giving back, it won't last with me
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Jul 11
Yes friend gold or diamond ring is required only in engagement. Really I also cant understand why he purchased gift daily for her. Yes chatting is not bad but some people reacts such and they take risk. Without knowing anybody how you can give some big gift. Thanks for sharing your view.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
23 Jun 11
I know the story is sad, but I think it's just stupid.
Who would chat with someone and meet up then would suddenly be so swept off his feet that he'd be willing to spend his life in jail?
I mean, those things only happen to people who are so gullible that they throw away their values and morals for a fake love.
Further, what man would buy a girl a diamond ring because she demanded it? Doesn't it write 'goldigger' all over her face???
I think he's pathetic for falling into such a thing and he doesn't deserve to be in jail but be put in a mental institution for having fallen for someone he doesn't really know.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
25 Jun 11
Hahaha... The picture got me wondering why you posted some vegetable. I thought you'd say that he was like a vegetable when she's around, which is why she no longer had the brain to realize right from wrong.
Thank you for your response.
Have a great MyLot experience today!
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 11
Hi Laydee!
I don't think he can read that gold digger words everywhere in her face because he's already get blinded by her fake love~ A mental institution?? They should send him to ophthalmologist to did some surgery on his eyes. There must be something wrong in his eyes and that is the reason why he can't see what's written there in that girl 's face.:)
@umabharti (3972)
• India
22 Jun 11
We can not tell who is wrong in this case., is this the boys mistake because he loves the girl and tries to fulfill her wishes.Is this the girls mistake for replying for the question "what you need " from her boyfriend.
Is this a mistake of the boss to not to keep his things in a safe place.Or do you think this is the mistake of the internet for getting them both at a place .
I dont think there is mistake of anyone here.Its just they did not use the things which are given to them in a right way.
Okay he loves however he should gift her with his earned money and love is not that which is related with things and money it is beyond such things.
Okay she said she doesnt know him ,she was right,because the person whom she know is a lover and not a thief.She might had never thought that he would do such think for her.
In this situation the three are irresponsible persons.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
22 Jun 11
Theft is a wrong thing,and that too he had put his job career on it.Once caught he will not be able to make it right through out his life.
So its the girls who are not good then because they treat boys as an ATM .Not every one on this earth are absolutely right and absolutely wrong.
Chatting is good , it should be encouraged and used in a good way.Other things of our life also have a positive and a negative result ., we dont leave things that easily.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
I know friend chatting is good but some persons are using this wrong way. I also made good friend through chatting even I meet my husband with my chat friend and he call us on his marriage send marriage care for both.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
No friend the boys mistake is more because he should know a girl who is meet some days ago and demanding diamond ring it means she is only with him or doing drama of love so he should not trust on her immediately. No mam boss put the cheque in his office cabin drawer with lock. All incident was showing in TV. Thanks for response but people should not trust on anybody without knowing background only by online chatting.
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@rameshchow (4426)
• India
7 Jul 11
It seems like very dangerous issue. I do not like to encourage the bad online chatting. Have you ever come across the online chatting sites like wire club which is fully filled with random chatting.
We have to share the valuable information and our experiences only but not the things like as u mentioned above.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
7 Jul 11
Friend I am not wrong you are came back here after your exam. Am I right? Really chatting is not good because lot of persons are bearing loss due to this. A boy is in jail due to chatting. Thanks for response.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
23 Jun 11
Wow this is quite an unusual story because though it is not safe to chat with anyone you do not know online no one forced him to do what he did. Although the girl tricked him into getting her such an elaborate gift he took it upon himself to do this bad act.
Everyone needs to be careful while using the internet these days. One does not know who is behind the screen as they can have several pretending and it can be a group of scammers.
Truly sad for this young boy and now he is left to pay for the consequences.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Jun 11
Yes friend really young boy is attract towards girl but they dont want to know what will happen in future. I also want to suggest all mylotter and other friends to be careful when they meet to any new person, the person may be girl boys any. Thanks a lot to spend time for responding on my discussion.
@mturacom (632)
• India
22 Jun 11
Almost everything is being misused nowadays. Its not the problem with chatting its with blind belief on strangers no matter you meet them online or offline. And I think the boy was just crazy to do all such things. I don't understand why people do things without giving any thought to it.
Nowadays social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter are also being misused by many people for their own sake. The problem lies in the fact that most people believe what they read online. I advice everyone to take everything with a pinch of salt and investigate before believing anything.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
Yes friend I also think that the boy was so crazy and he fall down because she tell him I Love you but really he was work as blindness. Yes friend I agree with you I want to also suggest my all friends to check dont work as blindness.
@marinerpulak (1702)
• India
17 Jul 11
Actually I think some people enjoy it in that way...The matter is that every thing is relative...the thing you consider as bad may be good to someone else...
Let they do what they are doing...you cant stop them doing this..
better post some good discussion here...
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Jul 11
Thanks friend for responding on my discussion really some people using chat for entertainment. But they never understand what will happen next result.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Jun 11
Really friend love is blind no one can think anything in front of love. But this is a big lesson for boys who are ready to give everything to his girl friend. Thanks for response.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
22 Jun 11
Oh my. How foolish can that boy be, and that girl is so wicked and selfish. I can't understand people get into such mess. I don't think i can begin to trust anyone like just by chatting online. It's a sad thing to happen, but they themselves are to blame. How can someone trust someone so much and they have barely met a couple of times. This is really frightening.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
Really I also think this the boy is foolish and only in two or three meetings how anyone can trust on the people. How he is ready to give diamond ring this is very costly and he is ready for it and pick up the cheques from office.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
22 Jun 11
LOVE REFORMS PEOPLE. LOVE DESTROYS PEOPLE. In this case this boy has spoilt himself. The girl asked diamond thinking this fellow will understand it is a joke and drop her. Chatting is to be done carefully especially by youngsters. have a nice day.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
You are absolutely right my friend love reforms people and destroy also. This thing is also in my mind he should know she is demand diamond ring means something is wrong. I know chatting is good way to know the people their thoughts but some people is going wrong way through chatting. Thanks to put your valuable response. 
@david15923 (119)
• Portugal
22 Jun 11
that a funny/sad story :/ i mean, i understand that people are desesperated to get a bf or gf, but online is the last thing to try. many people dont even see the photos and they already want to meet them. There is a lot of succesful cases on relationships that start online, and end up in marriage, but those happen 1 time out of 10.000. i buy things to a person that you even dont know is just stupid and non cense! well, he got his lesson, and hopefully, a lot of people did to ;)
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
No friend this is not a story this is real incident I have seen this news in the "VARDAT" in Aaj Tak news late night at 11PM. Really some friends want to meet other friend without seeing photo and then they meet to each other then they tell ohhh no. Yes the boy is really stupid because diamond ring is not easy to give it is very costly and how he is ready without knowing anything about girls only with 2 to 3 meetings. I think the girl was so smart and boy if fall in love with that girl. So silly boy. Thanks for response friend.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
22 Jun 11
If this really happened the boy should have known better than to do anything illegal. He can't really blame the girl for saying I LOVE YOU but.....I don't like your gift. That is the time when he should have walked away without giving her a second thought. She already showed that she was a golddigger by what she said to him. Of course she pretended not to know him. She is a golddigger and wants to keep her diamond. It's not her fault, it is his for being foolish enough to be conned by her.
She is as low as they come, but she does what she does. If the boy was thinking straight he wouldn't have given her another moment. It is kind of like handling a poisonous snake and then blaming the snake when you get bit. It's not the snake's fault for being a snake. It is the boy's fault for picking up the snake in the first place.
I said all that to say that in this case the girl was a con artist. The boy was willing to do something illegal to get the girl, which speaks to his character. I would count this as a valuable lesson learned.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Jun 11
Yes friend I am also thinking this the girl was a artist. This is really this is a big lesson of those boys who are believed blindly fall in love without knowing anything about girl or girl's family. You response is nice thanks for this.
@AishaBR (345)
• United States
22 Jun 11
This is sad. Some females can be evil like that. But still why would he do that for a girl he just met. Why would he do that period, he knew consequences. He should have known she was about material things if she said she wanted a diamond ring and not the small gift he gave to her. Common sense but still sad.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jun 11
Yes friend some girls are really evil and fake. But the boys mistake is they immediately believed on them. Yes this even was very sad but how the boy can trust on her she is meet only on chatting. No one can know her. Really this is silly thing anyway thanks for response.
@bholebaba19 (307)
• India
30 Jul 11
Yes surekha,you are right, so many people do, but it is not good for those who use in right way. that girl used that boy and boy is mad.
