I hate stupidity, specially my own!

stupid things that I do - surrounded by stupidity
@bounce58 (17387)
Canada
June 28, 2011 9:49pm CST
There are just days when you're surrounded by it. You can't help but shake your head. I know I could be stupid sometimes, so I don't really need others to be as well. I could pretty well stick my own foot inside my own mouth, I don't need help with that. But some days, there is just too much to go around. It is so frustrating! Have you had that kind of day? Can you stand it?
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14 responses
• United States
29 Jun 11
Hi bounce Yes there are days that I am in such a mood that almost everything around me sounds silly. I don't know if it is because of my own mode that makes me think that nothing is going right. It certainly does not help my mood when st@pid does as st@pid is. lol.. It does add to the frustrations of my day, as sometimes I am not in the mood for silliness and that cause me to get yet more bothered. It seems like some people actually know which buttons to push at the wrong time. It reminds me of being a child when things were not going right and that pesky relative would attempt to tickle and not know when to stop. Grrrr!
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• United States
29 Jun 11
Ooops, sorry. I couldn't help it ... I left a silly comment to this discussion, but it never occurred to me that it would actually make things worse. I was trying to make him laugh to try and make things better. See what happens when you don't read all the responses first and just respond to the discussion immediately with your first instincts.
• United States
1 Jul 11
PA I see you are one of those *tickle* *tickle* types.
• United States
1 Jul 11
Yes, sometimes I am, but I usually know when to tickle and when to stop (or more importantly when to not even try) ... at least with the people that I am around off-line.
• United States
29 Jun 11
I can stick my own foot in my mouth as well, but it sounds like you are more bragging about your flexibility than complaining about it ...
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
8 Jul 11
Is this the silly comment? Doesn't sound silly to me!
• United States
9 Jul 11
Good, I am glad to hear it. This was the first thing that came to mind when I read your discussion, and I know that sometimes a silly/funny comment can lighten the mood and make things not seem quite as bad. I normally read all the comments on a discussion before I leave my own, but I was pretty sure that nobody else had responded with the same comment that I left, so I thought that I was safe. It wasn't until I read HWG's comment that I realized that my humor here might not be appropriate. I am glad that it was taken as it was intended.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
A silly/funny comment to lighten the mood is what I think we all need! Specially if we're guilty of doing something not-so-smart!
@ksherrie (891)
• Singapore
7 Jul 11
hihi, how are you? based on your discussion: yes i have these stupid and blur days. I can't stand it... on those times, i even tried to act smart... even worse! get laughed at!!! The best response i get when i'm stupid is they ignore me...
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
If people would just ignore us when we do stupid things, I think it would be much better. Because personally, I couldn't stand myself too after a realization of a stupid mistake. Thanks, and I hope you are fine too!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
2 Jul 11
The thing that I've been doing the most recently is jumping my husband's tail for some of the stupid decisions that he has been making. I am by nature that I've developed over the last couple of years a saver and he is definitely more of a spender. Well, he has been on a spending spree here lately and I will jump his butt about it. However, it is stupid because I do need to take into consideration the fact that he is working to support the family while also going through chemotherapy.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
Even though he deserves some 'spending' because as you say, he is working to support the family, it doesn't excuse him from once-in-a-while spending on some 'stupid' things. And I guess, that's where you come in. To remind him of that, naturally! Thanks.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
Yes sometimes and i just bite my lips for having been so stupid. Sometimes i couldn't accept the fact that i made a simple mistake out of my own stupidity. But i try to learn from them and never do the same mistake again. I couldn't stand it as much as i couldn't stand stupid people pretending to be smart!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
Deadma!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
stupid people pretending to be smart! Those are the worst! Sometimes I'd like to warn them not to trip on their own stupidity. Or not to hurt themselves too much by thinking! Thanks.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Maybe if they tripped they won't even notice it lol!
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
Yes. I have had them too! And like you I feel frustrated at times. However, I just look forward for another day..things will get better. Cant't wait for that darn day to get over.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
12 Jul 11
Hello sophiecheer. I think that's the problem with having days like those, the day can't seem to finish quickly. It would be great to start over with a brand new day. Thanks.
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
When at times like these, I had this mantra that I innately recite: "Hakuna Mata!"
• United States
29 Jun 11
I may have a dense moment but it doesn't last All day. There may be some let's just say intelligence challenged people about but I just ignore them. wait a minute! Are you bad mouthing my friend in my presence? Don't do that! My friend Bounce is a smart guy.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
11 Jul 11
Intelligence-challenge people! Haha! That's a good way to look at them. Sometimes I get surrounded by these, and I can't help getting frustrated. As I'm sure they can't help themselves getting frustrated when I get those kind of moments.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
29 Jun 11
Hey my sweet bro! You're not alone! I, as your sista, stick my foot in my big mouth all the time, and don't give a ratz azz! Whatever! (As we say in NY)! I am stupid more times than I care to admit to, but WTF? I'm in one of "those moods" as it is where I just don't know or care about anything, am "super depressed" and don't know exactly why, but sorta do-(I am beginning to hate my bf/roomate because he is a lazy stupid...) who relys on me to pay the rent, bills etc and I'm no sugga mama! He used to call me "White Sugga, and he was my "Brown Sugga"-Now I want to "dispose of him"-Sugga melts when you pour water on it? I think your sista is losing her freakin' mind! HELP!!!!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
9 Jul 11
Oh gosh! I hope I didn't come too late here sis! I hope that you're feeling a little better now. I hope that you've kissed and made up with your bf/roommate. If not, I hope you've told him about it, so he could at least shape up, before you poor the (hot) water on the "Brown Sugga"! Anyway, hope today is a better day.
@GemmaR (8517)
29 Jun 11
I have some days where I am being so stupid that I just don't seem to be doing anything right at all. It is a shame because sometimes things get to the stage where I make myself cry because of the way that I am behaving; but it just seems that there are some days when we cannot get our brains in gear and make them do what we want them to. I normally find that I am perfectly fine the next day, and that the "silly" days are in the minority by far; but that doesn't mean that the days aren't seriously annoying when they do happen.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
I guess that when you do have those "silly" days, you should minimize doing things. Or do as less as possible so as not to complicate things. Or make yourself cry. Like you, I can't wait for the next day to start to have a fresh slate. Thanks.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
For me yes I don't like also so be good and change your life.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
Hello ebuscat. No matter how you change your life, you can't help that you get one of those days where you yourself could do something stupid. Thanks.
• Singapore
1 Jul 11
Well, I can't begin to count the stupid things I have done! I don't even want to recall any of them... You are not alone in this. There are just some bad days, but then, there are good days too... Btw, what does "stick my own foot inside my own mouth" mean?
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
Like you, I don't want to recall all the stupid things I've done. If I could only erase them from my memory, I would! stick my own foot inside my own mouth - is a saying when you say stupid things. Thanks for dropping by!
• United States
30 Jun 11
I have plenty of days like that and the sad part is that it does start with me and then it seems like everything we do is wrong and everything people do as well. Those type of days could definitely be fraustrating. It seems like nothing will go right for the rest of the day or week depending on the situation.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
I know what you mean by "nothing will go right for the rest of the day or week"! It's like we need a re-boot so as to start over, and rid ourselves of our own studpidity (sometimes). Well, I do hope it doesn't happen often. Thanks.
• Indonesia
29 Jun 11
Yeah, me too. But take it easy dude. we all hate it. But there is always many ways to overcome it. What we need is just patience. And willing to do the better things. Trust me, we can overcome that.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
Patience is the only thing we could ask for when we trip on our own stupidity. Patience that we overcome it. And more patience that we don't do it again. Thanks ivanmarginal!
• United Arab Emirates
29 Jun 11
the condition you have described here its common you are not alone to do this many of us as a human having experience of this king stupidity but it hearts when happened thats ture but do not forget that it will teach you also
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Jul 11
Hello Yourfriend. I know that I am not unique in experiencing these stupid moments. And I also try hard to learn from it. Thanks and welcome to myLot!