When having a bad day, do you Lash out at others????

You are working toward being a Saint...? When I have a bad day, I tried to be alone away from anyone so that I couldn't lash out on others... Still some circumstances couldn't be avoided so I did lash out to them around me...

You do know how to exercise self-control and make me feel inferior in this respect.Once I have a bad day or something has gone wrong,I may rant on my child .However,come to think of it afterwards,I always regret doing it.There is no sense in taking that out on my child.

i don't. when i have a bad day, most of the time i would only find myself alone, on mylot sharing it with people who will be able to help me, and give me sound advise... i am not very easy to get angry. honestly that i guess is my best quality and i am able to contain my feelings, even anger... =)

Hi Bird, I work in the public so I've had lots of practice at putting my personal problems aside and treating people friendly and polite despite anything that may be going on in my personal life. I have to admit that there were times when my kids maybe saw the down-side of a bad day. Is it the thing to do? NO!!! And did it make me feel better? NO!! In fact, it made me feel even worse. They didn't deserve my grumpiness. But I guess that for the most part, I don't lash out at others for my having a bad day.

Hi Bird.I dont have anyone to pass it on.I work in a school and cant pass it on to the students or my colleagues or I would get the double rebound to me!But yes I do that to my mother or my son when I am home and they can also vent out their feelings on me when they have a bad day.

Hi bird: Oh you are absolutely right with this reflexion. I feel portrayed on this discussion. I feel so bad when this happends but sometimes when I am having a bad day I could be mean with the people around me. it's a terrible habitude and I would love to stop this because it affects me and also my friends and people who really don't deserve to be treated like that. ALVARO

If it is one of those kind of days, i just go back to bed normally before i blow up, normally it helps, I try my hardest not to take it out on others because I have been on the receiving end of such a thing, and it is no fun. I joke about it at the store when someone freaks out at the cashier because of something they can not control. It has become more humerus to me than anything now.

The last thing I want to do is lash out at someone. Furthermore, I wouldn't want them lashing out at me either. I doubt anyone actually wants that. I'm not going to lie, I've been pushed to that point and have. Not often mind you, but I also know it's impossible to avoid doing so. At least sometimes. As far as my personal opinion goes anyway. While most can act happy most of the time, everyone feels emotion and some are better in keeping a "poker" face then others. Instead of lashing out though I'll find some other way to release it. I don't like when I've been driven to lash out. Do I feel better for it? No. Yes, the emotions are released, but I instintaly feel regret and guilt. Why? Because whomever received the brunt of my lashings... did not deserve such a fate. Even if the lashing was meant for that person. So no, I don't feel better for it... I feel worse. I would rather punish my keyboard then anyone else for my emotions.

Even in my worst days I do my best not to get mad at other people,because I don't want to feel sorry and ashamed afterwards because I yelled at people who didn't deserve such an attitude,so I do my best to control myself.I can't hide the fact that I'm not in a good state of mind from others,they can see it on my face or realize that I'm not very communicative in such days,but at least I don't get mad at others,I just look for more time with myself in those moments until I manage to chill out.

When I have a bad day, it's mine. I don't pass it on to others. I may get frustrated at the person that is causing my bad day, though.. but I will tell that person and not bottle it up and pass it to someone else. For instance, one of my bosses seems to change things to his liking, but it is more confusing. For instance, the more confusing he can make things the better he likes it, because that is his personality. If you ask him a simple question he has to tell you a story about it.. in other words, if I ask the time he will tell me how to make a watch. I also get annoyed when a boss doesn't pay me for all my invoices and I have to go back and ask for my money. I have had to go back and forth with one boss, and I am still trying to get my money. Once I prove to her that she hasn't paid me, she has no place to go but to pay me.. but it is getting her pinned down to show her.

Hi bird123.. If im having a bad day, I do try not to take it out on others, but then there will be times, when someone will do something and Ill just snap at how 'stupid' they are.. Its not the way to react but I cant help it.. But then it comes to apologizing for my reaction, and to be fair I can be quite stubborn.. and usually they understand from my body language or my persona that I am apologetic.. I always keep in my anger and frustrations and feel there is no need for me to share.. as no one will fully understand anyway.. so I just deal with it.. (",)

I have never taking my anger out on anyone. If I'm having problems I may show some sadness and people notice that but I will not take it out on anyone

when im mad, i prefer to be alone. i don't like to talk to anybody when i have that mood. for me, it helps that i just quiet. after a couple of hours, the madness that i felt fades away.

I dont think people realize or mean to lash out when they do. (with my streak of bad days here lately im speaking from experience) I think what happens is when your having a bad day you just want to be left alone. But that still does not stop people from coming up trying to talk to you. So in response you lash out to push them away.

I am sorry to say that if I am having a bad day, my family are the ones who have to suffer for that. When I am in a bad mood, I just can't seem to keep myself from snapping at people and I am ashamed of that because I always seem to end up snapping at my family. I can't seem to bring myself to apologise to them either because it just draws attention to it when I'm in a better mood and I don't like to do that either. I hope that I will learn to control my moods one day as it would certainly be within my interests to do so.

Check my handle: I have a whole cupboard full of whips and canes and crops and implements of torture. BRING IT ON! Nah, I get grumpy and quiet, but I avoid lashing out. All that other stuff is just for fun. Lash

When i am having a good day i feel good about everyone and everything around me. when i am having a bad day, i feel discouraged and look for something or someone to place that anger on. it may not start out that way or end that way but lashing out at someone is something that easily happens. When i find myself in that situation, i try not to let it be a lasting one. It will not do anyone any good to keep it.

Perhaps a little bit, there is really something that tends to get on my nerves. Only if I cannot get away from everyone to calm down long enough. Of course, there are many times where that is unavoidable and there are times where people tend to choose this particular time to ask questions. And there are times where when you're in a bit of a foul mood, there are a lot of times where every question that is asked is going to be a stupid question. I think a lot of people really do really get the feeling when my mood is rather agitated. There are a lot of people who frustrate me for many reasons but I try not to really let them get to me. Of course, there are times where it just builds up and any time that it just pops for the most idiotic thing. I do my best to keep my mood in check and my temper, but there are a lot times where it just pops. I'm only human after all.

but these days I feel that every one day my bad. I try not to show it to his family but inside it bothers me a lot. I can not give peace, perhaps because I am extremely worried if I get a job. but the bad days for us to do them and bad for others. Have a nice day!

No, I don't lash out on others whenever I'm having a bad mood or a bad day. Of course I will be abit angry but I wouldn't take it out on others because I always think that it's not any fault of another person to take my moodiness. Because if I do that on others, that'll make them have a bad day too for no reason and it won't be fair for them. Besides, if we tend to things like that, we will regret later on.