Do you face this situation talking with yourself like me I feel I am foolish..
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
September 11, 2011 9:08am CST
Last week I was upset
and I was talking about my deleted discussion with my silent (no laughing) husband he was stand behind me suddenly a student call to my husband he goes there and I not know about it. I continues talking ohhh really it is very sad and my much more time was spend on it, someone cannot see happy to me. Now I am not interested to start any discussion etc. etc.. When I turned then I saw my husband is not there. I shouted suno ji why you are go from here I am talking with myself and then feel shame on myself and laugh.
Do you feel such situation you are talking with anybody and they are not present there but you dont know about it..and start continues talking.....
and I was talking about my deleted discussion with my silent (no laughing) husband he was stand behind me suddenly a student call to my husband he goes there and I not know about it. I continues talking ohhh really it is very sad and my much more time was spend on it, someone cannot see happy to me. Now I am not interested to start any discussion etc. etc.. When I turned then I saw my husband is not there. I shouted suno ji why you are go from here I am talking with myself and then feel shame on myself and laugh.
Do you feel such situation you are talking with anybody and they are not present there but you dont know about it..and start continues talking.....3 people like this
20 responses
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
12 Sep 11
That is very funny serekha
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Sometimes mu husband is talking to himself and when I find out I say "are you talking alone?" and he say "that is nothing, when you have to worry is if one day I begin to answer my questions"
, he is so funny!.
But when I am talking with him and he is not interested he can do a lot of things to make me stop, he did it last night, was that when I began to talk about my mom and he wasn't interested he acted like dizzy and fell on me, I was very worried and took him to the bed, but thinking about that now I realized that it was his way to make me stop tallking,I love him!
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Sometimes mu husband is talking to himself and when I find out I say "are you talking alone?" and he say "that is nothing, when you have to worry is if one day I begin to answer my questions", he is so funny!.
But when I am talking with him and he is not interested he can do a lot of things to make me stop, he did it last night, was that when I began to talk about my mom and he wasn't interested he acted like dizzy and fell on me, I was very worried and took him to the bed, but thinking about that now I realized that it was his way to make me stop tallking,I love him!1 person likes this
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
13 Sep 11
Hahah your husband has also same habit like me very funny but I start talking with my husband but I dont know when he gone and I am alone and my chatting continue even he is not there haha....
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Hello my dear friend. 
I spend a lot of time alone at home and have found me to speak out loud to myself. Sometimes I catch myself doing so and I laugh really hard. It is funny because sometimes I think oh my I hope I do not get a response.
I think sometimes us talkative women just have to speak all the time, even if it is while we are alone.
I spend a lot of time alone at home and have found me to speak out loud to myself. Sometimes I catch myself doing so and I laugh really hard. It is funny because sometimes I think oh my I hope I do not get a response.
I think sometimes us talkative women just have to speak all the time, even if it is while we are alone. 1 person likes this
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Yes sometimes I hear my voice while I am talking alone and I say oh my am I going crazy.
I miss you too friend but that we are always together in spirit.
I miss you too friend but that we are always together in spirit. @surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Good evening my dear friend
Ohhh means everyone has such habit I feel shame on me and feel only I have such habit...yes I also laugh and mostly my husband gone that place and not tell to me...means you are also a talkative women like me great I miss you and your voice..
Ohhh means everyone has such habit I feel shame on me and feel only I have such habit...yes I also laugh and mostly my husband gone that place and not tell to me...means you are also a talkative women like me great I miss you and your voice..
@akp100 (13640)
• India
11 Sep 11
Hi
I guess may be it was happened with me but I don't remember it. This kind of things happen few times when somebody who is listening to us is in hurry. So he/she leave us talking in hurry without realization that we haven't finished yet. Even I have done this few time
But never intentionally.
I guess may be it was happened with me but I don't remember it. This kind of things happen few times when somebody who is listening to us is in hurry. So he/she leave us talking in hurry without realization that we haven't finished yet. Even I have done this few time But never intentionally.@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Yes friend you are right we feel someone hearing us but actually no one is hearing us...I feel most of the time because my husband is very very less talkative so they not hear my words more...
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
12 Sep 11
Woooooooo what a situation talking ourself yes this is happen many time and not only with you but also most of the people fact this situation even me and my husband also...because when we are feel we have more stress then start talking and not see someone is hearing us or not....
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Sep 11
wow fanta you are great talk with yourself like me haha.....
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
12 Sep 11
Sure I have been in such kind of situations and I think we all will sooner or later. It's normal if you are busy with something and focused on that, you tell at the same time what is bothering you or keeping you busy... better don't ask how frequently I have that with my kids. I never feel ashamed or embarrashed about that only find them rude because they don't tell me they just pass by or are leaving.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
18 Sep 11
This is why it's important to have face to face contact when you are having a conversation with someone. This way, you can see their facial expressions and know that they are actively listening to you.
If you are talking to someone while facing in another direction,you may as well be talking out loudly to yourself.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
Hi sureka!
It shows that you were too engrossed in your conversation that you did not notice that your husband was not there ........ It also shows that for him his student or the visitor was more important than you and your conversation, therefore, he left without informing you. When I talk to someone, I make sure that s/he is listening to me, if I feel s/he is showing indifferent attitude, I stop my conversation.
. It also shows that for him his student or the visitor was more important than you and your conversation, therefore, he left without informing you. When I talk to someone, I make sure that s/he is listening to me, if I feel s/he is showing indifferent attitude, I stop my conversation. @dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
I can understand your point.
Have read and responded to your new funny toilet discussion, please check.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Sep 11
ohhh friend some time we talk but not know someone is not hearing us then we feel we are tlaking ourself if we know no one is there to listen then why I will talk ahah...read my new funny discussion bur real incident on toilet and this is last topic on this interest...
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Sep 11
ohhh really means I am not only a single women to talk with myself great but I also laugh when feel ohhh talking myself...
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
•
11 Sep 11
Hehehe, I think this happens to everyone some time. I know it's happened to me but then I talk to computers when they don't do what I want, so my lady knows I'm a little bit crazy!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Sir you will once again when read my discussion someone knock the door when you are in toilet today I am laughing loudly because both discussion and the people responses are very funny... Hahah you talk with computer means no chance to run away..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Sorry one word is forget for typing you will laugh once again....
@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Sep 11
Hi bhabi...
Hmmm... as far i can remember i have not faced any situation like that but be sure i faced although i cant remember.
But yes, in a drama we performed at Nagpur was about a story where the main character confessed his everything thinking someone is hearing to him but alas no one there. that was a monodrama and our hero win best actor.
cheers.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Wow! great and congrats my hero dever... in Nagpur and Nagpur is my native place.. so when you will next visit in Nagpur...but we laugh when we are saying something and no one is there means self talking ahah...
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Sep 11
surekha: It happens like this because we are more concerned about our problem and we talk like that without looking into whether the person is there behind us or not.
People like me in old age we talk more number of times to ourselves like that.
Joke: In engineering colleges also when I take class -- I go on talking, talking -- boys and girls only few of them listening - i am thinking all of them are listening.
Like singing lullaby song for a child - I talk, they listen/do not listen. interesting. but we get paid. our time is spent usefully.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Hahah... nice joke yes we face this problem more time in the class 50% students not heard us... I was feeling I am only a women has such habit.. but I feel it is natural...
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Sep 11
Surekha: In normal classes ony 20% listen properly. If 50% listen then the classes must be ranked excellent. interesting.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
That also happened to me maybe for several times specially when walking in the street or inside the department store. I remember one time, I was with my friend at a store. We were shopping for something. While choosing what to buy we talked. I kept on talking while selecting the items. I wondered why there was no answer so I turned towards the place where my friend was standing but she's not there anymore she was on another area of the store.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Sep 11
Hahah.. means everyone facing the same problem like me at least once in a life..
@flowerfest08 (1677)
•
11 Sep 11
hi:)
yeah I talk to myself too, usually if I'm so upset with something, but I don't let anybody hear it because I'm shy that they might think I'm crazy:D hehe I usually do that in front of the mirror:D
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Sep 11
Hahah... you use mirror for talking yourself so funny and great friend but really we feel shy...
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
hi surekha,
happens to me all the time especially when i am concentrating on composing a letter or anything about writing. well, i get to talk to my computer a lot. well, sometimes i am thinking its all being said in the head but then i realize, i am already talking aloud and others get the privilege to hear it. that makes me look like crazy to the near me and looking at what am doing.
well, am justifying, its just not me who does this. and after reading some of the responses to your discussion, i found out that am not alone here doing the same thing.
have a crazy funny day.
ann
well, am justifying, its just not me who does this. and after reading some of the responses to your discussion, i found out that am not alone here doing the same thing.
have a crazy funny day.
ann
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
12 Sep 11
I do talk to me but not about myLot discussions, I often talk when things go wrong and I fell that it could have done differently to avoid, try to learn from mistakes.
So far no one has noticed my alone talking but if it happens that would not be a big deal as it happens with many people I guess.
Thanks for sharing.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
13 Sep 11
Yes actually it has happened to me quite a few times. And when I am at the point of realisation, I get very embarrassed 
The last time this happened was when I was with a friend. I was talking to her and we were walking down to the cafeteria. But when I looked beside me my friend wasn't there. I was so embarrassed and I went back to look for her. She was near the water filter filling up her bottle. And when I asked her why she didn't tell me before stopping, she said she did but I just kept on walking LOL
The last time this happened was when I was with a friend. I was talking to her and we were walking down to the cafeteria. But when I looked beside me my friend wasn't there. I was so embarrassed and I went back to look for her. She was near the water filter filling up her bottle. And when I asked her why she didn't tell me before stopping, she said she did but I just kept on walking LOL 
@JodeneB (177)
• United States
11 Sep 11
I think that would be funny! I have done that before...i feel stupid at first because I'm talking to no-one, then i laugh because i must have looked funny. But actually, it is okay for us to talk to ourselves anyway. I don't hold a conversation with myself, but i do talk aloud. Maybe your husband didn't hear you talking to him? At least he didn't do it on purpose! but, don't feel bad about it for too long!
@VennuAnusha (14)
•
13 Sep 11
Yes,I faced this type of situations in my life for many times.Actually i am talkative girl,i love to talk and discuss .My family members some times get headache due to my non stop talking,and tries to go away from there when i start any topic.
And when i realize that they are not listening i will also shout at them like you,but later i will laugh at myself.
