Why people not believed on their own efforts?

Hello my dear friend! Don't be sad and know that when I have a friend who cries it causes me to be sad also. We must believe in ourselves and continue our efforts. We can not allow anyone to change who we are. Life has it's set-backs and Lord knows I know about set backs. One thing for sure is that we must be always keep our characters intact and remember that at the end of all dark tunnels thee is a light somewhere. Sadly that light does not shine quick enough for our liking. But one day one be pleasantly surprised.

sureekharathi You are crying because someone hurt you and I think shame on them. You have a happy heart and a keen intelligent mind and whoever upset you that badly probably is mean spirited and very unhappy.Happy kind people do not ever try to hurt any one no matter how clever they or any one else is.Unhappy people often turn mean an I never know how to take them as they can be very thoughtless and unkind. this person or persons is indeed not worth your tears a tall.you know you are a good person and have people around you that love you.You believe in yourself and say to heck with those mean ones. I just do not know why some people have to target others and be mean and unkind, I think their hearts and minds are sick, perhaps they lost their way from believing in God. c heer up you have lots and lots of friends. hugs from hatley.

Hi Surekha, I know the reason for your worries. I wish to tell you that, all of us, more or less, passed a same situation here and it is a part of the mylot life. What has happened with you is a temporary episode and will be over very soon. I know it hurts, because I also passed through the same situation, but you will feel better after two days and will start to laugh yourself on your cry. You have lot of great friends here and they will surely support you if you fall. So be brave and now smile my dear friend.

Surekha: Please do not cry. We are all here to support you. It is true all the people cannot like us. In a class when we lecture only 20 to 30% students may like. that is sufficient. Everybody carries his problem in mind when dealing with others. You are doing a good job. You are doing postings here not for money but to share knowledge and learn more from others. good day

Don't cry my friend. People whose hurt you are not worth your tears. You are good and clever and you are amazing. You make me smile every time I read your discussion. You are always bright like a star. Don't let them spoil your mood.

Believe in yourself. I know you can do it my friend. Yes you are brave because you are always happy. Yes, it is a human nature to be clever but then some other people are just targeting others to be better than the other.

It is not clear what actually hurt you and made you cry? You need to be bit strong and less sensitive to ignore any criticism which is targetted at you.

I don't understand why you are sad? I appreciate all your efforts to-date and hope you continue giving cheers to everyone here with your good discussions.

You are right that there are far too many times in life where people are hurting other people only for the sake of making themselves look better. I think that is actually one of the reasons that I've recently decided that I don't need to have a lot of people in my life. I've got the people that I am the closest to and that is something that is important to me, but I really don't feel like I need to have a lot of acquaintances in my life because those are the people that end up hurting you.

Hi surekharathi, yeah you looks brave and cleaver, then don't mind about others who is targeting you be on your own way, leave it to them. Have a nice day.

Actually not really all are not believing from theyself but most of people are done what you said. Why? Because some or mostly are not sure what they are doing, they are not capable to doing on such thing - but other are pretty sure in their work.. but some are over confident which may result boastful.

I think everyone should believe in yourself and when you set a goal can achieve it. to believe in yourself means to rely on yourself to know and find the strength to do what you want and anxious. a man who believes himself to me means that there is a great opinion of himself and has confidence. nice day!

Hi Surekha, pretend you don't hear what they say or do. I'm so sure you have made 'some' enemies for your success and don't let envious minded people take what is truly yours- I mean your happiness. Remember, if you are about to hit the top... look back and you will see a trail of sad faces looking at you, but when you are in down fall, people will be rejoicing. You are brave as you said, face them and give them smile of you success, if they become sad... know you are on the right track to reach there (your target).

Hiii surekha wooo you know how can cry I feel you are only knows how can laugh and talk.. you are not looking good when you are cried so stop it and smile once.. This is a technique of people push to others and go ahead but why are you worry see how many friends are with you and join my Kitchen party and enjoy life dont cry...

I can tell you in a short and simple sentence. People are easily to optimistic. specially when someone want to destruct your idea and your mind. as a human we are easily to believe and what people saying. remember people sometime like a crab they trying you to drag down. Its that my base of my experience now I have learn, no one can believe in your effort only in yourself. success in in my hand.

Don't be so sensitive. Listen, you are a good person, an honest person, forget what people say about you or someone you love. They are the fools and they are the ones without confidence. You have confidence and trust. I see you here in MyLot all the time and I look forward to reading your discussions. I know I do not respond to everyone of them, but I do enjoy reading them. You are our friend and we care. Stop crying and stand tall.

Hi surekharathi, do not expect others to behave in a way you want, so you will be happy. release yourself forevermore and know that you alone control your happiness and it is a choice no matter what anyone else is doing.