I Must Be Happier Now Because...

Philippines
October 16, 2011 8:57am CST
I cannot recall about having gotten angry at anyone for some months now. I am still busy coping with so many tasks to accomplish but, I never feel or get irritated. Isn't it simply great! How about you? Do you still remember the last time that someone has let you so down you could not keep your cool? Do you remember how it went on? I am really bad when I get angry that is why I do not want to be through it at all.
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@bounce58 (17550)
• Canada
17 Oct 11
I think you've come into a place where you've found peace within yourself. It's great if nothing, and nobody irritates you anymore. Even if it's just because you're busy and have no time for petty issues. I think it's just healthier. Unfortunately I am still nowhere near that place. There's still a few things, and a few people who irritate me.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 11
Praying is among the best ways to deal with our feelings - negative feelings. Ask the Lord Almighty to tame them so they can be within our control at all times.
@eljayo (1107)
• Philippines
17 Oct 11
Hi! I am also happy that you are coping with your anger through productive tasks. I don't think your a bad person just continue to manage your anger. I also have problems with that.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 11
Doing mylot is another way of enlivening our lives. People whom we interact with around here are always giving us good and encouraging feedbacks. Everyone around here is very supportive of the others.
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
17 Oct 11
You reached heaven then my friend, that's great. I'm still trying... Tell me your secret, what do you think or how do you think when someone get in your nerve because you have to share how you let that go. I'm sure you are happier! You really found the secret hahaha.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 11
I used to have loads upon loads of problems. Instead of becoming hotheaded, I have become a crybaby. lol. I have been trying my best to find solutions to problem after problem and it was telling on my health. I just found myself praying so many tmes in a day. Telling God on what I am going through in life and what I am trying to do. If God can help me, please. So there goes my secret and I am being so very honest as I tell you this.
@vasumathi (438)
• India
16 Oct 11
It depends upon the person attitude and situation. A big mistake can be forgived easily, at time a small mistake can be made bigger. It lies in the person who really cares. It is good that u dont get angry !! Angry makes a man down in all aspects.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 11
It is never good to harbor and take care of anger in our hearts. It is making us older and older, then be depressed, then want us to go on a killing spree. I have an idea that it is anger at a higher degree which make people commit wrongdoings vs others.
@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
16 Oct 11
I know exactly what you mean. I take alot from people but when I get my fill of them, watch out.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 11
You do appear to be a very patient person to me. Doing mylot for years and years is one good sign.
@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 11
I used to be a hot tempered person. Little provocation will sent me into fits and I can't stop my tongue from hitting back with sharp words. But as I get older I am able to control myself from getting mad with people around me who might have the tendency to wake the sleeping tiger in me. Life is much happier when I keep my cool.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 11
Most persons get tempered with age. It is mighty good to be ageing gracefully. The older we get the more sensible we become. How good.
@HosmanF (93)
• Belgium
16 Oct 11
Good evening dear Mylloter friend Trinidadvelasco , hmm this is really a cool genuine discussion , wich by chance i cann honestly say that it kind of touched a nerv of mine (lowl), aniway related to your question , the last time that i recall that i a little bit exploded when someone let me down was actually not so long ago , almost three weeks ago , and it got to explode basically mostly because it was a person that i really expected to be exactly the oposite of what he showed me he cann be when he wants , and the bad part is that this person is a familly member and i honestly say that i cared alot about it , and i consider it like a brother , and when he let me down i felt in some sort of way betrayed and it kind of hurt , and i am usually a person that doesnt explodes easilly but i do admit that if i dont explode often its simply because most of the people whom either pis me off or either let me down are people whom i expect to and it does not affects me so badly , but when it comes from someone i care i kinf of let it get to me , aniway ever since my sister camed and aproached me telling and explaining me that if i explode and when i do , it does not solves absolutely nothing , if it does something it is to make it harder to make the other person i've exploded on to forgive my reaction , so ever since i try to change the way i react on these types of situation , and the reason that i want to do so its because when i let it explode i might say or do thingz burned from pure stupidnnes and passion , and i get to hurt people i care and i decided it time to stop and change , and the fact that my sister was the one opening my eyes , it make it easier for me to handle it. I wish you a great evening dear friend. Hosman,
• Philippines
19 Oct 11
It is true that getting angry and spurting words of anger will never solve proglems at all instead, it will aggravate the problem/situation at hand. However, at times, we just could not control ourselves. This is what we should be aware of. For it is in awareness that we will be able to deal with it properly.
@GemmaR (8527)
16 Oct 11
I think that I am happier at the moment too, and I also can't remember the last time I snapped at someone for something that they had done to me. I know that I am always happier when I am less stressed, although I can't really think about what has changed in my life to make me this way rather than the way that I was before. I am glad that you are feeling happier now, and it is true that it just simply isn't healthy to be losing your temper at people who probably don't deserve it in the slightest. Well done to you.
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• Philippines
16 Oct 11
It is good to know that the same thing is happening to you. Anger is a very negative emotion. It gets us stressed out, it consumes our strength and energy to some degree, depending on the depth of one's anger. Yes, it is truly unhealthy.
• Philippines
19 Oct 11
I've been let down too many times but the one time I was let down to low, I smashed two faces and caused a dislocated elbow. It was a long time ago and I'm actually in good terms with those people now. After some time, I guess it just numbs you of the pain it could cause, or maybe I just grew up.