some people!!!

Hi Khare Not much but yes sometimes even I faced some people who always used to complaining. I don't know about people you faced but so far I faced people are always unhappy with the things even they having good things and situation in their life. What I do ?? Just ignore them as I know if I would go for solve them then I would never see end !!

Hi Shweta! I think many of us are in the habit of making complaints. In the process of making complaints people forget that - "if they point one finger of theirs towards other person, three of their own fingers, point towards them." Perhpahs some want to prove that they are superior or better than other and they want to score over others. May be finding fault with others, help them feel they they do not have any faults. If someone complains me, I listen to him/her patiently. If the third person is not known to me, then I remain netural. If the third person is known to me, I use my own wisdom and experience and my relations with that person to defend him/her. I am not an exception, I also make complaints and may be others also do about me, when am not in front of them. What about you? Do you make complaints?

Here is proverb in my mother tongue... Who has enough stool on his butt always try to smell others. Hope u have got the answer.

I hate those types of people. I avoid them the next time around they come to me to complain. Or i would be frank with them about their complaints and how i feel about them. That way, they will know how i feel about it and most likely stop being so.

You are so kind my friend. That's why they keep coming back to you.

Hello Khare, Oh yes i also find people in my sarroundings who are more complaining but how to deal with them will always be a quetion mark for me too. This happens because they don't get satisfaction from the things they do.I have an example of my wife here whenever i try to help her in the kitchen she will be very happy and as soon as the work gets completed she will shout at me and her words will be exactly like"why did you leave knife on the slab?" "why din't you keep the water jug on its place?" at that time she will forget that i had saved her time and energy.And afterwards she cools down she realises what she said and say sorry.

hi khare oh yes. her name was A lice and I had been good to her so she imprinted me like a duck to a mama hen. She had to sit me down and tell me in great details how rotten all the food was.so I agreed with her then started say ing oh but they make a great eggplant parmesan or great spaghetti or really good beef stew.she had to agree with me on those things so she starting thinking about positive things. she used to leave me with a head ache u ntil I learned to talk positive back at her.the other A lice also complains about the food and will not be stopped so I try to dodge her a lot here. lol lol I am not much of a complainer as it always depresses me when I do that.

For some the glass is always half empty. It is never full for anyone but some see it as half full atleast. There is nothing much you can do about those who only look at the negative side of any situation. I have one such friend who will call me every single day and complain. I know she has a lot to thank God for but if I bring that to her notice she will so neatly argue that at the end of the talk I get brain washed into believing that she in fact has lot of problems!.

Yes they complain alot, i guess they show their fear and insecurities by vexing out poison and complaints to bring down everyone optimistics to depression level.They just can't handle they own unstable emotions and pour out to infect other people with their incestious comments and negativities.I guess have to avoid them and sometime cannot have to train to ignore their voice.

My thoughts is that it has to do with their personality and or just a bad day. I personally do not like to circle myself with complainers. I can be very patient in trying to make the situation better but at some point I do have to distance myself. Simply because I can sense the negativity transferring over to me. I try to remain as polite and pleasant as possible as my own ill feelings and situations are no ones fault. I know a person that no matter what one does and or say all we get is complaints, complaints, so it is at the point that I say, I am about to leave and when you feel a bit better call me. lol

I agree with you. Some people find pleasure in making complaints,rather than working.

I don't have complaining people surrounded on me. So ask yourself how come you attract them? Sounds as if you take them all serious and you are willing to help them out? So they keep running to you not noticing you get tired of them. You have to change your own attitude. Go look for positive people, full of life energy, not for the ones who need you. And yes some people complain just to complain. Nothing wrong with that. It's a way of ventilating, get rid of the stress. Not a way to ask for help. There is a dutch saying: those who complain are not in need. Remember that saying if you hear someone complain and just turn away and go on with your life. And if the complaining person is following you start complaining yourself!

I'm not complaining, but I also hate people like that. My good mood will totally be spoiled because of their constant complaining and negativity. I am trying to avoid them, especially in the morning. Because if I interact with them in the morning, my mood for the whole will be totally spoiled.

I know how you feel its irritating , they complain so much why they dont accept the fact that it all happen because god is doing our faith so stop complain , just pray hard stay faithful to god and all will be safe and sound.

It is very difficult to deal with cribbing people because they will always find someting or the other to keep complaining about ; I am sure they would complain that they have nothing to complain about on a particular day if it happens; it is a mindset and the less we deal with them it is better.If , perforce we have to deal with them , we should turn a completely deaf ear to their complains and rants.

well..that how the world it is..my brother likes to complain on other people..about the way they dress up..mingle..but i guess he didn't realised that he is not even that perfect to start with..

Well, some people are like that, and some people are not like that. Some people are good, and some people are bad. Some people talk alot, and some people just talk less. Some people like to boast, and some people are so humble. Some people just can't get enough, and some people just don't ask for too much. All these kind of people, I too have come across. How do I deal with such people? Just listen from one ear and out the other ear but please do try to solve their problems if you think you can. If they keep complaining about the same thing, just repeat the same answer over and over again until it gets into their head. Some are just not satisfied with whatever they got, so they tend to seek until they find what they want. Have patience, my dear.

hello Khare...well, i also hate people who keeps on complaining and i have some friends who are like that..If i with them and they keep on complaining what i always did is to keep quite and walk away for a little while..haha..because i'm not the talker type of person so i just do that..hehe

There are people in this world, who doesnot satify with anything. They always complain about something. even if they get some good thing also they will not be satified. It is very difficult to handle such people. So better avoid in trying to make them perfect.

Yes!You are right!There are many this kind of people in this world.Though in others eyes their life is happy and perfect, they always complain the god day by day! I think their bad behaviour from character.