Extreme penny-pinching. Can you take it too far?

December 2, 2011 8:24am CST
I watched a UK TV programme last night about several families who live to save money. One of them, a wife and mother of two, saves vast amounts of money by using coupons and vouchers more than cash. Now that's fine by me and good luck to her but what got me was the way she does it. Sometimes she will buy something, using a coupon, so it is in fact free, and then complain about it so the firm sends her 'apology-vouchers' to use, so next time is free too. Can this ever be right? (In the past, my family has received 'apology-goods' when something was definitely wrong with the product: a bit of plastic fell into a food-product, from one of the machines, and a milk bottle had a large piece of polystyrene rammed into the top! All we wanted to do when we complained was to make sure that nothing dangerous was happening in the factories.) I'm a great penny-pincher myself when I have to tighten my belt but I refuse to do anything that is so blatantly dishonest. What do you think?
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@GemmaR (8517)
2 Dec 11
I think that there is a lot to be said for saving money, but I think that complaining about something when there isn't really much to complain about is a little unfair because the companies just don't have the money to be able to do this all of the time if a lot of other people should decide to do this. I think that everyone can save money if they think about it, but they are able to do it honestly rather than by lying about things as this can get companies into trouble and make them worry about how they're going to pay their staff.
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3 Dec 11
I agree. She might be struggling but she is selfish to think that the goods' companies aren't. They are having a very bad time here in the UK at present and really don't need greedy people draining their resources as well!
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
2 Dec 11
This certianly sounds dishonest to me. She needs to remember that what we sow so shall we reap. Maybe not this life but the next.
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3 Dec 11
Yes, that's what I think too! She's not just asking for trouble. She's inviting it to sit down and dine with her!
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@hvedra (1619)
8 Dec 11
I saw that too! I will say that sometimes TV people focus on one particular part of a persons frugal strategies and will exaggerate some aspects because it is "entertaining" so I won't condemn her as a person BUT I do think some of her habits were a bit questionable. Where she was getting things like the Dove deodorants for 10p - okay, but these were the spray can type so a lot of wasteful packaging and unless you use that kind of thing anyway, why get one because it is cheap or free? She would also stockpile lots of junk foods and expect her family to eat them - despite the food being bad nutritionally and the family not liking them anyway. That's going over into obsessive for me and forgetting that foods should be good for you AND enjoyable. I also didn't agree with complaining about a product you bought because you didn't like it rather than there was something wrong with it. I know I don't like coconut so I just avoid it rather than complain to the manufacturers of foods with coconut it. A bit unfair if you ask me. Most coupons and vouchers I see are for things I've no interest in anyway or even with the voucher are still more expensive than generic (own brand) alternatives. It's a rare day I get a coupon that saves me money. Did you see the one trolley she had "This was £60 worth of shopping". I'd debate that. If I've got £60 to spend on shopping, the trolley is FULL because we buy lots of basic items rather than processed junk. She'd got her mortgage paid off and did some work for charities so good on her for doing that. However, I think she was still trying to live a very consumerist lifestyle based on wants rather than needs. If she cut out a lot of the junk she'd still "save" money but without working herself silly trying to get a "bargain".
• United States
2 Dec 11
That is definitely dishonest. It's one thing if the product actually did turn out to have a problem with it, but ... she already got the item free, why milk the cow even more? I'd feel a heavy weight on my conscience if I did that.
3 Dec 11
Watching her, I don't think she has one! She was even going to complain that her son didn't like the stuffed crust on the pizza, she had just got for free, and that she had to remove it! Sickening! She would never be one of my friends! How could you possibly trust someone like that not to take it further every time?