My brother is my world....

@Dassodils (2013)
India
December 8, 2011 10:19am CST
Today, I had a fight with my brother. Not by hands. By words. I think fight with words hurts more than a fight with hands. I thought that everything was going to finish :-( I was scared and I cried a lot. But nothing happened :-). He is great.. I love him very much.. Now he is talking to me very gently. Very lovely person :-) Do you have such a brother?
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@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Hi dassodils, When we're younger me and my elder brother used to have those word fights too. Even shouting at each other and crying Now, everyone's busy and my brothers we're rarely seen at home. He comes home very week only, no chance of fighting with him anymore But he's also such a great brother to me and my family and I love him so much too. So I guess those silly fights are just normal with siblings.
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@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
I don't want to miss him my dear friend..I will be mad on that time..How you stay with out seeing him???? Oh...I can't to think that..I hope that I will not fall in such situations... :-( Thank you..
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
That is just normal dear, because he's working far from our home. And he's renting an apartment so he comes home every week. And during his off from work, we go eat out or watch movies.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yaa...That's nice Enelym....All the best... :-)
@albto_568 (1269)
• Costa Rica
9 Dec 11
Fights between brothers are quite common, and, most of time, things never come anywhere beyond, so, do not worry, this fight, will be forgotten in a day or two. When I was a child, I lived with all my three brothers, and several cousins, in the same neighborhood, and fightings were almost everyday, but, after a few minutes, we were all as friends as usual, and the same applies today, arguing is innevitable, sometimes, people explodes, but, family is family never mind what.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yaa...You are right...We are quarreling always...Now too... But his words hurts me than all other's....We quarreled and I cried before 10 minutes... :-(
@albto_568 (1269)
• Costa Rica
9 Dec 11
I am sure you will not remember all this by tomorrow, love is stronger than this things. :)
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Thanks Albto... very happy to hear your words.... All the best...
• India
9 Dec 11
Fights between siblings is very natural. My elder sister and younger brother are at an age difference of 9 years. My age difference with my sister is 6 years and with my brother it is 3 years. Di and I would often have a verbal fight. I never ever touched her nor did she ever beat me. With my brother uff! He was a boxer. With him it was always a dhishum-dhishum. The best thing is they both (my sister and brother) never fought. While writing this post I am feeling as though I was the biggest fighter of that time as I had fighting with both of them and they both never fought. But now things have changed we hardly fight on anything. It is good that everything between you both has resolved. Every time you have a fight make sure it doesn't last for too long. Have a great time fighting with him, but make it even greater by giving him a hug and telling him how much you love him.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yaa...He know that How much I love him..The all quarrel will end by saying that...I will not miss a minute that get to speak or spend with him...Now a days, He become very pressure by fight..So I will try my best to avoid fights...Thanks...
• India
10 Dec 11
That's very considerate of you to think so much about him. You sound to be an extremely caring sister. Cheers!
@celticeagle (114068)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Dec 11
I have no siblings. I have a step brother for seven years and he was very mean to me. I have a friend who is like a sister to me. Her family is my family. It is great to have this and I am very happy. I am glad you and your brother are on speaking terms and that all is okay now.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yaaa...I love him...I can't to live with out him...The reason for my quarrel is that I love him that much...Thank you...Try to keep relation with them...All the best
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@celticeagle (114068)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Dec 11
Surely nothing was said that can't be corrected.
@fantabulus (4006)
• India
10 Dec 11
Woooooooo you are good sister and naughty also. Yes even we fight with our brother but brother always love us and we also because brother care us like our parents. Sometime little bit fighting is also necessary but not big.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Dec 11
Yaa...I like to fight with him always by words and hands...In my view... That's really nice... :-) thank you
@ShyBear88 (16871)
• United States
9 Dec 11
Yeah I fight with my Brothers all of the time.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yaaa...That's really nice...I enjoy quarreling.... thanks.. :-)
@jagjit273 (1740)
• India
9 Dec 11
I Love My Younger brother too.He just obeys me. He always stands by myself.we are going through a bad phase of time and he is the only one who is with me.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yaa...Don't fight with him...He will be with you in your trouble situations...Thanks
@stanley777 (7177)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
I guess it's just normal for siblings to have disagreement sometimes and mostly verbal. I have experienced that too when we were young. Since I was the youngest my brother most of the time ask for forgiveness especially when our mother intervenes. We always fight before but now that we have our own family those things are forgotten. Now we are very close, in fact we always have our get together if we have time including our own family.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yaa..That's nice...You should keep connection or a good relation like your child hood... Thanks for reply...All the best...
9 Dec 11
Lovely relations never die... So keep going on fighting. Keep that love for lifetime.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Haii....Thanks for reply...I like to fight with him..We will fight with words and hands...I will beat him..He get upset on the time of quarreling...So I decided to avoid quarrel maximum...I think you are new in mylot...Enjoy mylotting...All the best...Thank you...
@ferbjohn69 (1129)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
I don't have such a sibling.My siblings aren't nice.They love shouting at me and saying bad words.I wish I had a sibling like yours.:(
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Oh...Don't worry my dear friend...That's way of showing love of some people...So try to love them and they will know your love one day..Wait for that...Otherwise god will give you a brother who love you more than a blood relation..Thanks for reply...All the best....
@ravisivan (14051)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yes. You are a student, is it not. I can see you love your brother very much. So please do not fight. Give up to him. If you cannot give up for him, who else will give up for him. Similarly he should also learn to give up for you. In your age --such fights are not uncommon. Be close to the members of your family and share the happenings in the college with mother or brother. This will help you get corrected when you take a wrong step!
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
I am an year younger than him..So he will tell me the whole things in this world to make me aware of some thing...He always give up for me..I like to fight with him always... Thank you... :-)
@Arieles (2474)
• United States
9 Dec 11
I have a brother and we use to have a beautiful relationship. We use to be so close until our family moved, and I was pushed out of the way. I will always miss those days of when my brother and me use to get along so beautifully. I hope you and your brother regain the relationship you once had.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
I can't to think a life with out my sweet brother...I wish that I will not have such a experience like you... :-) Thanks
@ritanoot (124)
• Israel
8 Dec 11
I have two brothers but with both i didn't have a good band like you.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Oh very sad to hear that my dear friend...He is not just my brother..He is my mother,father,friend,guide,teacher etc etc.... Thank you...
@WakeUpKitty (8711)
• Netherlands
8 Dec 11
What exactly is great about a brother who scolds at you and fights with you? And now he feels quilty because you were crying he is suddenly very gently? It sounds creepy to me. A person you can not trust. Someone with different personalities. Not someone I would call lovely. Or is this a game you play? You make him angry, you start to cry and he is not angry anymore? No I don't have such a brother and I am happy I have not. I think you can't trust a person who suddenly changes his mood as soon as you are crying or are afraid. Too many men behavel like that, fighting, beating up their wife and if she is broken, crying, afraid suddenly he is gentle again.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
I mean that he scolded me on that matter and when I began to cry, He consoled me and told me about his character and don't repeat such things...He always say that I am a naughty girl...If some one do some fault for annoying us and crying because of our scold, We will suddenly forget about our angry...If we really love them by heart...So there is nothing wrong my dear friend...You should feel a brother's care and love...Then you will not say that He is a fraud...Thank you :-)
@Informer (803)
• India
8 Dec 11
Hi Dassodils, I am also a brother. I know how it feels when we have fight with our sisters but it also make our relation stronger. Being brother; especially an elder brother, we have to take many responsibilities and have to take care of them. But sisters are one of the best gift, God has given us.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Ya...He is elder than me...I love my brother...Take care of your sister always...Thanks... :-)
@Hatley (157523)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Dec 11
hi dassodils I never had a brother but always wished I had it mu st be nice to have a brother to care about you and to care for. I am glad the fight ended and all is wellagain with you and your brother.I think this is really normal all siblings at one time or another have a scrap but mostly they end upwith each realizing how much they really love the other person.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
9 Dec 11
Yaa..You are correct....This is my way to know that How much he loves me..I will be very happy by ending the quarrel and a cry... I love him that much... :-) thank you...
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
that's great! i always envy people who has a good elder brother cause i do not have an elder brother. i want to have an elder brother by blood who could protect us from bullies. but on the other hand having no elder brother helped me to become tough and strong personally. cheers for having a gentle and good brother.
@wittynet (4136)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
Hello, Dassodils! I have a brother but we never had any chance to be as close like you. He is two years younger than I am. I always dream that I also have an elder brother, someone who will care for me.
• Mexico
13 Dec 11
Hi Dassodils: That's really good and actually I do. I understand this blessing because this also happens to me, in my case with my sister. We discuss... a lot but we love each other and we care too much for each other. She is very special to me and I am also to her. She is like an angel to me. She is so lovely and I'd love to protect her forever though I know it's not possible ALVARO
@dorannmwin (36636)
• United States
13 Dec 11
My brother and I used to be a lot closer than we are now. Most of the reason that we aren't as close now as we used to be is because of the fact that he got married to a woman that I really don't care for. Because of that, it is more difficult for me to be able to talk to and share time with him. However, we do still get along very well whenever Elizabeth isn't around. I actually loved it when he wasn't working and we spent a lot of time doing things together with our children.