Somebody just called me "pig" and "dirty"

Depression - feeling sad and depressed
Philippines
January 29, 2012 4:57am CST
My boyfriend and I just had a fight, So i am really mad at him, he kept on sending text messages but i never sent a reply, not until someone sent me a message claiming that she was the gf of my bf, she kept on sending messages, thats too personal, like she called me a pig and dirty and old compared to her, but i told her that i dont give a ____ i no longer care about my bf (her bf accdg to her)and she still keeps on sending messages. and im starting to get pissed. but i have a doubt that the girl is not actually the girl, she may be my bf in disguise sending messages like that, so i will get pissed and send a reply. but the messages were really too personal. its beyond one's limitation to say those.
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15 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8704)
• Netherlands
29 Jan 12
And what is the info that girl gave you while she was texting you and scolding at you? 1. the bf is a loser and coward to let his gf text you 2. the bf deserves a girl like that 3. the girl is way younger like you are, prove of this is her bad manners and behaviour 4. you are better of knowing it now (no matter if there is a bf or girl). Kick him out and go on with your life.
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• Philippines
29 Jan 12
oh yes, and if ever that was all just a set up, oh h2@ll! i still dont give s---. the messages were too much. i really should kick him out of my life. thank you wakeupkitty! :)
@sid556 (31002)
• United States
29 Jan 12
Hi Shimi, I'd ignore the messages....REALLY. They are probably sent by him just to get to you. If they bother you then in a twisted way, it is showing him that you still care. If they really are from a girlfriend then you need to dump him anyway but if they aren't and this is his way of communicating then one has to wonder why you'd want to play thata childish game anyway??
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@Aja103654 (5656)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
those kind of messages should be ignored. If your boyfriend had a habit of doing such disrespectful things to you, then he is not worth your time. Dump him immediately. You would be better off without a guy who would do that to you. Besides, annoying people who claim they are your boyfriend's gf, ignore them. Change your phone or turn it off so that you won't get any messages from these nutcase anymore.
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• Philippines
29 Jan 12
hello! Your ex is a useless guy and should not be entertain anymore! if i were you, you should ignore them and buy a new sim card. Dont be affected to him/her, and dont let them ruined your life! just move on and be happy that he is no longer part of your life! Your a beautiful lady and i know there is someone outder who deserves your love.. :)
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@beamer88 (4267)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
If your hunch is correct that it is your boyfriend who's sending those messages, then one thing's clear here. You shouldn't reconcile with him, let alone contemplate it. But since you're still unsure, why not let the whole matter pass for a few days. If you still receive messages of those sort, I think you should confront whomever it is who is sending those messages once and for all just to know if it's your boyfriend or not.
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@cont3ss4 (70)
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
Well if you think that the claiming "gf" is actually your boyfriend.. my advice "IGNORE HIM". and BREAKUP with him. I don't think you deserve such a guy with ridiculous self-esteem and level of immaturity.. :)
@soulist (2986)
• United States
31 Jan 12
1) if there is another girl claiming to be his gf then I would say kick his butt to the curb I had that and I stayed and it was just h3ll. 2) If she is calling you pig, dirty and old etc, then there is something about you that is making her jealous enough to say these things to try and bring you down. 3) If it is bf in disguise then he is childish and doesn't deserve you. If not and is a gf, he is a pr1ck and still doesn't deserve you. I say block the number, change yours and find yourself a guy who will love and respect you and forget about this dude.
@lekhya (819)
• India
30 Jan 12
I feel he fought with an intention to get rid of you...that's y he might be hurting you with such behavior.Why don't you check yourself, 1)does he really deserve you 2)do u sincerely "love" him...and can accept his faults 3)can u stay away from him and be happy if u are ok with the third I suggest u to "avoid" and give such a reply to that msg that both of them wont bother you hereafter.Stay away from such stupid,manner less idiots.They definitely have no right to "abuse"."Think before you leap".ALL THE BEST!
• India
30 Jan 12
I think you are better off without such a bf and you deserve better relationships. Its only when we fight that we come to know the true colors of our friends and acquaintances. Its not abnormal to fight while in a relation but later on, both of them should make an effort to patch up if they care for each other and want to carry the relation forward. When bf/gf hurl abusive languages at each other, I feel that they are not really serious about love but rather it’s a passing fancy.
30 Jan 12
You don't deserve that. And i think it's just your bf, pretending to be someone else. If it is, then he's really a coward and you're better off with someone else.
@rahul2u (201)
• India
29 Jan 12
my advice is think twice before starting any relation.else you want to face such problems.first change your number and give it to your close ones who will wish your happiness.forget about the coward fellow.take care.
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
Aww.. what a mess one can get into. I'll be sickened upon reading those words. These guys, do they have a reason to do that to you? Do they have a reason not to?
@prinzcy (5049)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 12
That's pretty childish to message someone for the sake of insulting. It's best to ignore the messages. The other party (the one that keep messaging) must be mad since you didn't reply and don't give a damn about the whole thing. So that person keep blowing to ignite the fire. She (or he...) will be tired eventually.
@eljayo (1107)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
Hi! Ohh she is really mean. I think its best not to repay her in a negative aspect. It will only make the trouble grow. Instead, ignore her or be kind to her. I am sure it will annoy her more.hehe.
29 Jan 12
well..i think u should change ur phone number or something,,hope u get a better one