One Facebook picture and no Scholarship!

United States
March 25, 2012 9:21am CST
I just heard Suze Orman say if you are a highschool student and you have risque pictures on your Facebook page you won't get your scholarship. I said Really? Then I thought well that means almost 90% of students will not get money for school! Then I heard about employers looking on Facebook to see if they will hire a person. I think these practices will narrow the job pool. Pretty soon most hire-able will be over the age of 30. They are shooting themselves in the foot. I know I wouldn't get hired because I don't have Facebook account. and when I say so , they will assume I'm lying. It is all a waste of time. Your thoughts.
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13 responses
@Vvance (280)
• United States
25 Mar 12
That's crazy!! Chances are that they will have to change those rules, considering the number of people who have accounts and pictures on Facebook. But in your case, Sarah, I think it would be a good idea to create a Facebook account but not put any pictures on it, unless of course, you don't want to. That way, you can tell them you have an account and also that you have no pictures!
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• United States
25 Mar 12
No! Facebook is an invasion of privacy. I would Never , Ever create an account with my real name. In fact if a job requires me to have a Facebook page than I am not the person they want to hire. Plus if I did have a Facebook page I wouldn't tell the interviewer. When asked do I have a Facebook account I would say , I refuse to answer that.Even asking the question I see as an invasion of privacy.
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• United States
25 Mar 12
Thanks my friend!
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• Canada
26 Mar 12
You're more than welcome.
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@alberello (4752)
• Italy
25 Mar 12
Well, if I have understood what you wanted to express in your own thread, the first part, I can also understand. If nothing else, I do not know how far a person can post pictures of a certain kind on Facebook. I personally am opposed to the exposure of risqué photos. The second part of your question, I am not very clear. What does it mean that one should necessarily have an account on Facebook to get ahead in life? I just hope it does not, otherwise it would be a real buffoonery!
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• United States
25 Mar 12
I believe once I say I don't have a Facebook account they will just assume I'm lying and I will not get the job. They just assume Everyone is on Facebook, I do not believe they will hire someone who is not.
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• Canada
25 Mar 12
I have a Facebook, but it's not because of pressure from the rest of the world. 90% of my family is on Facebook, and these are family members who don't get together often, because we are scattered allover the place. We choose with whom we want to connect. If 90% of the family was on another network, I'd be there instead of Facebook. The fact that it's trendy is a coincidence. As for people thinking you're lying, that's their stupidity. I believe you when you say you don't have a Facebook account. Unfortunately so many things are almost second nature these days. My mother doesn't have a computer. Very few people believe that. LOL There are times when I'd LOVE to e-mail her something because it would be convenient, and I believe I mentioned to you a few days ago that I will be posting pics on FB from Montreal next week. I don't expect you to go out and get an FB just because I'm posting pics on mine, or for my mother to get a computer because she might receive 24 e-mails in a 365 day period.
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• United States
25 Mar 12
Way to go Mom! Why should she Have to have a computer?You believe me because we know each other and you know I don't lie about the important stuff. A stranger? I don't trust them to know me That well.
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@AmbiePam (85593)
• United States
25 Mar 12
I guess it kind of amazes me that people giving out scholarships would take the time to look for those things on Facebook.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
31 Mar 12
Isn't this like a lesson in responsibility for young people? That when they do social networking sites, they should be responsible enough to know that anything posted online, would be online forever. And could be seen by anybody looking for it. Or maybe a lesson in time conservation. As you say/wrote, this could be viewed as a 'waste of time' really.
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• United States
31 Mar 12
It is a way for older workers to Finally get more work. If Any company thinks any 20 years and is going to stop posting their pictures so they can get a job at their company is dreaming. So after they find the " wrong" picture linked to each candidate , they will have two choices, either change the policy or hire people who are not on Facebook.
• United States
31 Mar 12
Well , all this means is Any person who is " dumb" enough to have a risque facebook , doesn't deserve to go to college? All those parents saving money should just give it to the kid so she/he can become famous instead? Ok.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
25 Mar 12
It is getting real out of hand with all this FaceBook stuff. I don't see why these places need your FaceBook information to begin with. Look, I have a FaceBook account, I don't have risqué pictures, but it's my account, not theirs. They have no right to it. And if I were a college kid or a person looking for a job, I would lock my account to the public so no one can see what I have on my FaceBook. I think that is digging into the personal privacy of people. I bet these people asking for that information have real screwed up FaceBook accounts. What is after they ask us for our FaceBook information, we ask them for their FaceBook information. Now thats an idea.
• Canada
25 Mar 12
Mine's already set to private. If my future boss is going to look at my FB, or try and dig up personal dirt about me, then I want to know about their private life, not because I have any particular interest in it (not me at all!) just that if they're going to dig on me, they ought to know what it feels like.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
31 Mar 12
I like the way you think. I think the same exact way. But I will never give them that information. And they have no right to request it either.
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@Rick1950 (1575)
• Lima, Peru
25 Mar 12
Well, I think that the scholarship's Foundation are taking Facebook as one of the criteria to decide whether a student deserve a help or not, but maybe it is not the only reason for giving a scholarship. The same could happen when an employer will hire a worker. If only the membership of Facebook would be necessary to get a job or a scholarship I wouldn't agree with that.
• Canada
25 Mar 12
I completely agree with you. Look at all the non-facebookers out there, or those who's jobs didn't depend on their Facebook, and yet they screwed up anywa? Bill Clinton Dominic Strauss-Kahn Richard Nixon Rupert Murdoch The guys from Enron Need I go on? And whatconstitutes risque? I've never posted a pic of me half naked, but I have a modestly dressed pic or two of me PRETENDING to be passed out on a couch with a drink in my hand. haha Hey, if risque pictures are grounds for unemployment, then I suggest Playboy pull the plug on their whole establishment! Of course the nice thing about going on line so often is that if anyone tries anything (an employer tries to sexually harass me for example) I'll probably have some kind of recording device in my pocket, and you just KNOW I'm going to publish the recording of whatever the b_st_rd said. Hasn't happened yet, but if it does, I'm ready! I never go anywhere without my iPhone. I used it to gathe evidence when my stupid neighbour was harassing me. I could very easily crush him with what I have, and not because anyone's judging a bok by it's cover, just because it is what it is, and I've got it recorded. LOL
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
26 Mar 12
I say whether it be facebook or any other place on the internet you should be very careful about what you post....because whatever you do post is open to the whole world to judge.
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• Canada
26 Mar 12
Right on!!! There's no way in hell I'm going to just shut up, because someone MIGHT be judging me. Weren't many wars fought for the first ammendment, or whatever the equivilent is in other countries?
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• United States
26 Mar 12
So everyone should just shut up and not say anything if they want to go to college or to get a job? Wow! I can see this backfiring Big time. I know I wouldn't even try if I Knew the answer would be no! I will still say what I want to say. No college or job offer can stop me!
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• United States
26 Mar 12
Absolutely! But sadly many think they can control what people can say or do!
@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
9 May 12
I think it's crazy that schools and potential employers would go so far as to look at someone's Facebook profile. It's a social networking site, so to me, it's as if that college professor or potential employer were to butt into a personal conversation this person was having with a friend. Everyone has a right to a personal as well as professional life. It's not like anyone is trying to be two-faced or live a double life, but I don't think professional acquaintances need to dip into the personal realm. Facebook is the personal realm, in my opinion. I think it would be more than appropriate for a potential employer to look at a LinkedIn profile since that's what the site was set up for, professional networking. I'm not sure if you're familiar with LinkedIn, but there's some space for status updates, hobbies, and interests, but it's nothing like Facebook. I think there's an understood line drawn between personal and professional. Any employer or school that violates that boundary is not someone I would want to deal with going forward!
• United States
9 May 12
Colleges are shooting themselves in the foot. They are making it harder for the average person to go to college and sadly the average are not even attempting to go scholarship or not. So pretty soon whether there are risque pictures on your Facebook page won't matter, america's youth will not be in American colleges.
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• United States
11 May 12
I never had any desire to join. all my friends I have their email. Why join and Have to " friend" people? I already saw this a an invasion of privacy.
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@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
10 May 12
What that says to me is that because these applicants have lives on Facebook outside of the professional realm means they won't be able to go to college. That is so strange to me! The fact that it's also been carried on to the hiring process is just ridiculous. I don't blame you for not having any desire to have a Facebook. That is taking things way too far for schools and employers to "stalk" people like that.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
it is all FB's fault!! lol. I mean, really? i thought no one should take fb seriously..but seriously!!! cmon.
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• United States
26 Mar 12
They will either have to rehire the older people, the one who are not on facebook , or change.
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
That's lame. Almost everybody has a Facebook account so they should just leave Facebook alone and look at the student's skills instead. Plus companies looking for applicants with Facebook accounts? There are other sites out there that presents applicants formally, so why don't they just look there? Facebook is an unformal site, and really meant to be personalized by users to fit their personality, not to serve as basis if someone is right to work for their company or not. It doesn't matter if you don't have a Facebook account. What matters is your skills to do a job well. That's a pretty radical way to hire applicants.
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@megamatt (14292)
• United States
27 Mar 12
There are just so many reasons why having a Facebook account is a bad idea. People drastically overestimate the importance of Facebook to begin with. It causes more headaches than it has more benefits. And the fact that your job aspirations tend to really hang on whether or not you have a Facebook account, really is getting more absurd. Granted, most people do tend to shoot themselves in the foot by posting things that they should be posting. Facebook is a waste of time, plain and simple and really the fact that people have a Facebook account and use it fairly often, for many hours a day would make be inclined to believe that they might take their studies or their work seriously when they are messing around on Facebook. Social media in general has gotten out of control. But then again, there will be something bigger and I'm sure even more overhyped than Facebook in the next five years.
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• United States
27 Mar 12
What you do in your free time is None of your employers business, period. Why should they care what you do as long as you get your work done?!
26 Mar 12
There are also employers asking for your Facebook username and password before hiring you! Insane breach of privacy, but Facebook is mostly public! Jobs do background checks and personality tests all the time. They want to be informed on who they're dealing with. What does a picture focusing on your hoohas say about your personality? What about a gallery full of weeks after weeks of you getting drunk? Technology has brought forth a lot of fun and useful things. Gotta take the good with the bad i guess.
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• United States
26 Mar 12
And those companies will suffer when each candidate refuses to give them their username and password. Your own personal pictures and what you do on either the weekends and vacation is none of their who doesn't damn business. and once they find candidate either lying Or giving them fake facebook usernames or just walk out of the interview like I heard a guy did Then they will either have to change Or hire people who are older! Either way they are the ones who will be losing . All they need is a company who will hire the young. A company who Knows about what it means to be a youth and Facebook is here to stay and they will hire all the young who couldn't make it through the Inquisition! I know not to even try for these types of jobs because I don't have a Facebook account. But since these Nazis will not believe me Why even apply?