Is it right? Silent persons are not like more talkative persons.

More talkative persons - I like talkative persons
India
March 30, 2012 11:15am CST
I observed if some persons are talking more and some persons are silent then they not like more talkative persons. Some time they told to them please keep quite. But they not try to keep quite. What you think you are also irritate from more talkative person or you enjoy with them and you are also start talking.
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@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
2 Apr 12
It matters what they much speak about. Some people are jsut keep speaking but don't have any meaning, they want to speak and not bother how others feel about and think of it. But there are people speak much and but it give messages, information, and ideas. They are actual worth to speak and they are always rememberd for their sevice where as the people just deliver 'junk' also will get rememberef for their horrible TALKS. Also, there a few category that people won't talk much but they conveys much information in their short words. People who are in the top level categories normally won't much speak but they notify things. Even fewe managers and some partners in our office never speak much but their short 2-3 mts. of discussion make others to work and discuss for the whole day...
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@Sreekala (24348)
• India
3 Apr 12
Hello brother, Usually, talkative people do not think much, they just keep on talking without thinking the consequences. Mostly they are innocent too. They don't know to hide anything. Once I met a girl in a Laboratory for first the time in my life. She took my blood, I think I spent with her less than 10 minutes, in between she explained about her whole life. There was only one reason I felt on her open minded attitude, we both from the same state (as you know I am living in different place than my native). Once the talks over I felt I knew her for long time because I know her whole life history.
• India
3 Apr 12
Hi Sree, As you said, people are so differnt in nature and what you said is correct. Also, there are some group of people who are well-versed in marketing (especially) the people involved in MLM & related marketeing and people who are running after such marketing also will become more talketive and jump into the topic whenever they get a chance. Typically, as you mentioned, some girls are so tallented to talk nicely and easily get mingle with the people whom they want to make acquintance.
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@Sreekala (24348)
• India
31 Mar 12
Hi dear, I am not a talkative person, I must admit that. But I have no hatred towards the talkative people. Sometimes I really enjoy such people. They really can spread a positive energy. It is not easy to be pleasant always and talk much. I think those people are lucky, even if they have problems they like to talk and talk...
• India
31 Mar 12
Hahha... means I can talk with you more no problem. Thanks to tell this you enjoy with talking person also and you feel talkative person spread positive energy. Thanks suny pa you are also with me. Means if I will talk with both of you, you will not annoyed on me. haha...
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@Sreekala (24348)
• India
2 Apr 12
Dear chattering box, when I think about you there is a smile in my face always.
@SIMPLYD (86519)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Well, for me it depends on my mood. If i feel a bit grouchy at that time when someone is talking in a loud voice as if he owns the place, then i would surely hush him. But if i am in a good mood, maybe i will join the talking too, because i could be talkative at times.
• India
31 Mar 12
Hmmmm means before talking I should check your mood ohhhh this is difficult because I am not wait till checking the mood. My dear friend I want to talk with on phone but I think you are from USA so difficult to talk with you.
@SIMPLYD (86519)
• Philippines
2 Apr 12
My friend, i am a Filipino residing here in the Philippines.
@CarlHalling (3629)
• United Kingdom
31 Mar 12
Good conversationalist... - I looked it here, didn't I, in 2009, but actually, I was not conversing at the time...
I think it depends on the situation. I can be very talkative myself, and have been known to dominate conversations, but I try to allow others to talk as well, I like to inspire interesting conversation. And it can be fun to be around lively conversationalists, as long as everyone can have a go. But if the conversation becomes oppressive, so that each time I try to speak I am ignored, or dismissed, then another's talkativeness becomes unpleasant. In these situations, I will try and leave without too much embarassment. I don't think talkativeness is good if it's designed to make others - especially quieter, more sensitive, more timid people- uncomfortable. If it's loud, intimidating, it's not good. And it can cause people to become quiet and resentful. Even frightened. Or angry.
• India
31 Mar 12
Wow! means you are also talkative like me hahah... I am happy. You are right I also feel we can get more knowledge with good conversations. I am talkative but not more and everytime.
@topffer (36652)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 12
I think you can be silent one day and talkative another. For me it is a matter of mood : I have days where I like to talk, and days where I am a soundproof wall. It depends also of people around. If I am in a talkative day, I don't like to be called to order, and I can immediately welcome this with a witty remark that can be unpleasant, though, getting older, I try to be wiser and to keep my tongue locked in my mouth.
• India
31 Mar 12
Hmmmm it means if I want to talk with you then first check your mood hahaha.... but I cant wait till checking of mood. I not like to lock to my tongue other my tongue will damage hahah...
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
yes i agree with this... people are so annoying if they talk much especially if they are talking nonsense
• India
31 Mar 12
Hmmm yes some person has the habit to talk nonsense. But I have no such habit my friend and dont worry when talk with me haha...just joking.
@toniganzon (53688)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
It depends on what the person talks about. If the person is talkative in a boastful way, that is just a total turn off. But there are those like my father who's talkative in a funny way and people loved him.
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
2 Apr 12
I think that you really need a nice mix of quiet people and talkative people in your life to keep you happy. I myself tend to be one of those people that is more of a quiet person, but I find that a lot of my friends are more talkative people. One of the things that I really like about people that are more quiet is the fact that I think that they are taking everything in and that is the main reason that they are quiet people. Those people that tend to be more talkative are the kind of people that you are not able to share any secrets in your life with.
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 12
Hmm..how to say??? I like to talk and I like to be quiet as well~ If people talk rubbish, I will avoid them. Social small talk which is like trivial things we always found in people's wall in facebook- I don't like it so much~ It's not really depends on my mood either. Even if I don't want to talk but when others talk and the subject interest me then there is possibility I will join the conversation...I don't know how to say it but since I can be either way I don't get mad when people like to talk too much or less~ Accommodate the less and ignore if it get too much~(^^) I don't know if you get what I mean~~~hehe....
@PurnaSharma (2175)
• India
31 Mar 12
hi surekharathi!i am very silent in nature but it doesn't mean that i don't like the talkative person.Moreover i think talkative person are less harmful than the silent person because one can easily understand,judge and justify the talkative person by helping him/her to be aware of his every step that going ahead.
@veksinho (84)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
31 Mar 12
i also think thet way i think thet i am also quiet person and do not talk to much becouse i do not want to be some leader talking person in my society . but i do not think thet i am differnet from person who talk to much but i have some shame when talk wit persons who i do not know but with my friends i talk like every other person .
@Porcospino (19691)
• Denmark
31 Mar 12
I always thought that I was very talkative...but then I met my husband and he talks even more than I do. Sometimes I find it a little annoying especially when I am trying to concetrate on something. It is hard for me to finish the things that I do when he is around, because he talks and talks and he interrupts me all the time. Sometimes I tell him to be quiet for a moment while I finish the things that I am doing, and then he says: "Okay, sure"... and 5 seconds later he talks again! He simply can't keep quiet, but I know that is one of the things that people sometimes find annoying about me, too.
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 12
I think Yes. They are introvert, but have great idea sometime.
@stanley777 (7178)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Yes, there are people who are talkative. Sometimes it really annoys us to hear if a person is talking too much, for me it's alright if he/she knows what he/she is talking about. I'm not much of a talker but I'm a good listener especially if the person I'm listening with is talking with sense.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
30 Mar 12
I think it is not true. People who talk a lot like to be heard and be in the centre of all attention. So they need people around them who are quit/silent otherwise you can't hear them speak.
@clocks123 (1228)
• United States
30 Mar 12
yes, every person is different. you have to get to know them to see what type of person they are. you then can see if you need to talk or remain silent.