Hair dye
@Professor2010 (20162)
India
May 26, 2012 4:14am CST
This morning my wife said, you have become lazy; you used to shave daily earlier, used to dye hair every 15 days; but now although you are free from all your assignments, you shave every alternate day and dye once in 2 months. Since you will go out for treatment, go dye your hair.
So I dyed my hair myself at home using Godrej hair dye powder, it was so easy and cheap, I used half of a pouch costing 12 rupees; earlier I used to go to a saloon for this and paid 50 rupees.
Yes I have promised her to shave daily. [b]I realize an unshaven face even for a day doesn’t look good and if unshaved for 3 days, I look sick.
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[b]So male friends how frequently you shave your beard and moustache; do you like a clean shave like me or enjoy having beard and moustache?
Lady friends can share about your hubby and if you shave unwanted hair.
Both can share about hair dyeing; I dye it natural brown; which color you prefer?
Please respond and comment on this.[/b]
Thanks in advance.
Prof.Dr. B.Saraf. PhD 
26th May 2012.
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So I dyed my hair myself at home using Godrej hair dye powder, it was so easy and cheap, I used half of a pouch costing 12 rupees; earlier I used to go to a saloon for this and paid 50 rupees.
Yes I have promised her to shave daily. [b]I realize an unshaven face even for a day doesn’t look good and if unshaved for 3 days, I look sick.
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[b]So male friends how frequently you shave your beard and moustache; do you like a clean shave like me or enjoy having beard and moustache?
Lady friends can share about your hubby and if you shave unwanted hair.
Both can share about hair dyeing; I dye it natural brown; which color you prefer?
Please respond and comment on this.[/b]
Thanks in advance.
Prof.Dr. B.Saraf. PhD 26th May 2012.
[i][/i]4 people like this
12 responses
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
27 May 12
I am 57 years old male. Do not use hair dyes. I prefer a natural, though it makes me look old. I shaved the mustache and beard every day, to make it look neat. With this appearance, I am still singing and playing music on stage.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 May 12
Glad to know you perform on stage, daily shave is essential lol
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 May 12
Natural brown is best, your hair looks natural, as if not dyed.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
27 May 12
My hubby has no need to dye his hair yet, he's at the point where I think most days he's thankful to have hair on his head period. He usually has a buzz cut of sorts except where in winter he insists on growing it out into a mess 
The shaving he goes between a goatee and a beard. I prefer the goatee on him but he grows the beard because it's cheaper to maintain as razor blades are expensive and wear out quickly. Though when he has a goatee he shaves on the days he works and not on the days he's off.
I can't totally complain about things except if the beard isn't trimmed and he's growing his hair out in winter. As I only look kept up when I go to work, at home since I'm here more than anything I keep it simple and easy going sometimes sloppy if I'm not leaving the house.
The shaving he goes between a goatee and a beard. I prefer the goatee on him but he grows the beard because it's cheaper to maintain as razor blades are expensive and wear out quickly. Though when he has a goatee he shaves on the days he works and not on the days he's off.
I can't totally complain about things except if the beard isn't trimmed and he's growing his hair out in winter. As I only look kept up when I go to work, at home since I'm here more than anything I keep it simple and easy going sometimes sloppy if I'm not leaving the house.@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 May 12
Thanks for the detailed response madam (may i know your name?)
Prof.Dr. B.Saraf. PhD
Prof.Dr. B.Saraf. PhD 
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
27 May 12
hello professor,
i remember when you were a guest in our home, i use to see you shaving every day. you even share the large mirror with jose. but i never saw you dying your hair during your one week stay with us.
its nice to hold and kiss smooth cheek you know.. i always tell jose that too.
have a great day.
ann
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@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 May 12
Sweety
You reminded me of the one week stay in 2004, i never dyed during that period, but shaved daily. Once you said, Bhuwan i want to kiss that smooth cheek,Jose was there, he said, ok i permit it, but don't bite it honey, haha
You reminded me of the one week stay in 2004, i never dyed during that period, but shaved daily. Once you said, Bhuwan i want to kiss that smooth cheek,Jose was there, he said, ok i permit it, but don't bite it honey, haha
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 May 12
I shave on alternate days. I was doing this while serving in Bank ten years ago and the same thing now.
I do not dye my hair because not much of white because there is very less thickness hair on my head.
You are doing the right thing in shaving every day --one it will keep us focussed for 15 minutes every day and also give 'fresh' felling.
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@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 May 12
So far as the number of hairs left, i think we have almost equal number left at this age
thanks for response
@lihongqi (25)
• China
26 May 12
Oh,now i shave my beard every day morning after i ger up.Time of hair cut is about one per month.I don`t dye my hair ,because my hair is so good that i will not spending much time on it.Doing all of those will make you looked good,and feel happy every day.Will you feel good when you face a man with long beard and hair that have not be dealed with for a long time ?
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 May 12
welcome to mylot
I will not feel good looking at a man who has not shaved for a long time
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
26 May 12
Hi Professor, My wife too, complains because I no longer shave every day, however I have never dyed my hair. It is grey now, almost white, but both of us are happy with it that way. I know that I should shave every day but if I'm not going outside, I sometimes don't bother. Blessings.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 May 12
Dude
Better shave, she might refuse to kiss on your prickly cheek lol
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
31 Aug 12
I rather my bf shave everyday , I dont like hairy face . He also like is better without hair so its nice . It always nice if you can do certain things at home such as dying your hair , salon cost is very high .
I would normally do my hair at salon but now I start to take care of my hair all alone and thats one of my inspiration to start blogging about hair acre at home.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
30 May 12
My husband doesn't shave nearly as often as I would like for him to. He will typically shave only about once a week during the cooler months of the year and about three times a week during the warmer months of the year. Personally, I would prefer that he remain clean shaven, but I can't dictate what he does.
As far as hair dying goes, my husband has never dyed his hair and I don't think that he ever will. However, I'm anxiously awaiting getting my hair colored so that it will be able to cover up the gray that I've developed in the past year.
@marcmm (1804)
• Malaysia
28 May 12
Hahaha.... I guess we tend to be lazy when there is no needed purpose to grooming ourself.
I never dyed my hair since it is still dark black. I once want to dyed my hair to bright purple like the look of punk rock star when I was still very young. But my mom didn't permited me so I didn't proceed.
I didn't shave much because I didn't grow beard and moustache very fast.
My wife always want me to cut my hair short but I didn't like to cut my hair. I like it to be long because I used to have long hair.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
26 May 12
Well, I am a person who is particularly attentive to the personal appearance and hygiene. Which is why I still shaved with razor and foam, one day every two (or at least every 3).
I think a face without a beard, a man is a sign of "welfare" or better a person shaved every day, gives the feeling of holding a lot to the person. And for me this is very important.
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@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 May 12
I used to sport a thin mustache till 1973, one day i accidentally cut one side while trimming in a hurry, since than i enjoy clean shave lol
thanks for your views, i like it
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
27 May 12
I think by now the society is already that way that women have to shave unwanted hair, or hair men claim suddenly they don't like. Men seems to be free if it comes to that, or want us women to believe they look great with moustache and beard and a hairy body all over.
I can tell you men you don't look great at all and it's smelly as well.
So yes your wife is right. Although I think she also ment to say: how come you don't take care of yourself for me, sounds as if you were only willing to do that for your job.
Shaved men look way better also because they are open, have an open face and that is what women want. Like I was teached: a man with moustache and/or beard has something to hide you can't trust him.
