If your really that happy why are you going for other girls?

@911Ricki (13602)
Canada
July 9, 2012 9:13am CST
My friend called and asked me about this her friend had asked her. She knew I would tell her what I thought, and honestly. This guy (Im not sure what or who he is) anyways has been dating his girlfriend for about a year or a little over a year. Supposeable he had said he was very very happy with this girl, he loves her, and wants to marry her. Now the entire relationship he has been on and off trying to get with other girls (not sure if he was successful or not). He would go up to other girls he was supposeable not interested in (my friends boyfriend works with him and said he was very very interested in this one girl), he was trying to get with her. Even after the year he has been looking at other girls, and trying to get with them. This one girl she was friends with. I just sat there and laughted in my personal opinion he isnt happy, I asked about his history or past. She wasnt sure of his past girlfriends, or remember him dating anyone so I said maybe this is his first girlfriend and he doesnt want to ditch her. Also, she had said his girlfriend wears the pants, and is a giant biatch and bosses him around so I can see where he wouldnt want to piss the physcho off. She has hacked into his Facebook account, and sending a few girls messages, also threatening a few of them. My friend was trying to defend this guy and honestly he sounds like a giant coward. Hes leading girls on and not either ditching the girl or his girlfriend. I told her to tell her friend to ignore the guy, dont show him attention just stick your nose in the air.
5 responses
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
12 Jul 12
I do think that there are a lot of people that are happy with a person that they are in a relationship with, but they are also hardwired for some point that they need to have other relationships that are going on at the same time. I have a really good friend that is like this. He has been dating this girl on and off for close to a year now, but I do know that despite the fact that his girlfriend is pregnant with his baby, he does have a lot of extracurricular activity going on in his life.
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
10 Jul 12
some people just like their cake and eat it too as they say.
• United States
9 Jul 12
If a girl knows that a guy is involved with someone else and routinely hits on other girls, she knows all she needs to know about him. It doesn't matter what his current girlfriend is like. He chose to date her. If he doesn't want to be with her, he needs to act like an adult and break things off with her. I will say a word in her defense, though, who's to say that being in this relationship with a skirt-chaser hasn't made her like this? A bad relationship can lead a girl to do things that don't necessarily qualify as being entirely sane.
@Hatley (164507)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Jul 12
hi ricki sounds like you have figured this guy out and I think he is just a pla yer, he r eally does not want to settle down andstay with one girl, he is in love with the chase, not the catch,and I think a guy like him is bad news to any girl who wants to love and be loved and settle down with him as he is like a wild goose.He will not settle down with just one girl.He really is bad news to a girl who wants one guy to settler down with her as he does not want to settle down.
@taura2p (349)
• Romania
9 Jul 12
I guess that it is just how some people are... I know many cases in which friends of mine are very in love with their girlfriends, and still would go out with other girls, and maybe even cheat on their girls. I can't find an explanation, I can't understand. I think we should just take things the way they are, without trying to find an excuse or explanation....