I did not get to talk to her.

@GardenGerty (157555)
United States
August 13, 2012 12:18pm CST
Hatley, that is. She is not answering when they page her from her room. I left my number. The very nice person that tried to help me did confirm that perhaps she has computer issues. She has been going to activities and bingo there at the retirement center. When I called it was about ten thirty in the morning her time. I did not want to hit her meals or anything like that. I will try again at another time and update when I get her.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
14 Aug 12
Let us hope that this is because she has found new friends and is happily engaged with her activities there. Thank you for trying and also for letting us all know.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
Her computer was down again, so she was participating a lot more in the activities there. She is back online now since her son worked some more on her computer.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
13 Aug 12
I hope you get through to her, I wouldn't feel ok until I do .
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
14 Aug 12
She was able to return my call. My return phone number had been written down wrong, so she had to get help from directory assistance. She is glad that I can tell people her health is okay, the computer is sick.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
13 Aug 12
Ugh, well smack my up the side of the head, I have been so stressed out lately I didn't realize Hatley has not been active here..When you connect with her, tell her I am asking about her and hope to see her back real soon..
@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
13 Aug 12
I had not noticed or only had barely noticed. MysD checked her profile about when she last logged in. I refuse to smack anyone up the side of the head though. Do what you can to get rid of the stress.
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• United States
13 Aug 12
"Do what you can to get rid of the stress." Gerty, I hope that wasn't literal, my stress is my family...
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• United States
13 Aug 12
See, stressed out, I meant to say, "smack me up the side of the head" not my
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Aug 12
Thank you so much GG! At least we can now be certain that it is not a health issue which is keeping her fom Lotting. Sounds like there is a lot going on for her to be busy with there at the center too
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
13 Aug 12
Yes, if she is able to go to activities then we know she is not somewhere in a hospital or something. I am glad to help out when I can. I still wish I had a number for HWG
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Aug 12
I have no number for HWG either but, and now that I am free again and have more time I can search for it, I am thinking that somewhere in the exchanges we had there is the name of someone close to her. If I can find it... that is on the agenda this week!
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
13 Aug 12
Please let me know what you learn.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
13 Aug 12
I've not been on enough to notice that she has not been on. I hope you can get in touch with her soon. I'm also hoping that it is just computer related, as you suggested and as the people at the center also suggeted. If she's getting around and doing activities there at the center then she must be ok. Hopefully her son can fix her computer for her soon, as if I remember correctly he's the one that comes by and helps her with that.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
13 Aug 12
I have only been on hit or miss, MysD pointed the problem out to me. It is more difficult for her to call as she is not in the US. I sort of knew I was not running in to her, but as you say, I have not been on that much.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
13 Aug 12
I only really thought about it after you made the discussion here. I hope she can get back with us soon though so we know just what did happen. I know she's had trouble with that computer in the past.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
14 Aug 12
I believe she will be back before the weekend.
• India
15 Aug 12
Hello my friend GardenGerty Ji, Well, She is a grand old memeber as well as nice person. She might be busy and She will come back soon. May God bless You and have a great time
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
Yes, she is back, and her computer is working better now.
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• India
16 Aug 12
Hello my friend GardenGerty Ji, Well, I am totally at a loss to understand why at all bad ideas take birth in one's mind tahn good ideas. Is it in Nature. So let's be happy taht She is back among ius. May God bless You and have a great time
• India
27 Aug 12
Hello my friend GardenGerty Ji, Well, I rememebr very well taht some 2-3 yrs back also, similar was her stae of mind and it seemed we lost her in deep trouble and one day She appeared majestically. many here get hibernated for reasons best known to them , but let's not get bad ideas. May God bless You and have a great time
• Canada
14 Aug 12
Thank you so much for the update. I know all about computer issues. They really suck. Fortunately I'm married to an old IT guy. Sharon has also posted on here about Hatley. I'm glad to see that people know where to find her, and are keeping us posted.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
She has posted enough about herself that I could look for her and find her. You know the very first time she disappeared she had ended up homeless, and another time she had some health issues. It is very helpful to have a live in IT person, like Walker and my son.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
14 Aug 12
thanks so much for any update you can give us
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
You are welcome. It is the least I can do.
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
26 Aug 12
Awww i hope you got her eventually and that shes doing well!
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
26 Aug 12
She is back online and on the Lot.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
14 Aug 12
thanks so much for this GG. so nice of you to think of us and keeping us in the know.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
There is no reason for us to have to worry if we can find out what is wrong. I am glad to help us all out. I do try to stay in touch if possible.
@savak03 (6684)
• United States
13 Aug 12
I have a special email file that I keep with all the discussions that I haven't yet commented on, so I checked to see when the last discussion she made was. I found that it was the last of July that she had been here. I'll bet she is chewing nails about not being able to get online. Maybe her son will get whatever the problem is sorted out for her.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
14 Aug 12
He is going to fix her computer within the next day or two. She called me back.
@savak03 (6684)
• United States
14 Aug 12
I'm so glad you finally got a response from her. I tend to worry about my friends here on the lot, especially the ones who are around the same age as me. I definitely count her and you among my top shelf friends as apposed to all the others who are just listed in my friends list. On that note I wish there was some system where we could have a separate list for those we have truly made friends with as opposed to those who are only 'friends' in the computer sense.
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@vandana7 (98834)
• India
14 Aug 12
I saw her response in one of the discussions. She said she's been playing bingo. :)
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
Yes, she is back online, and has been participating in the activities at the retirement center.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Aug 12
Dear GG I wished I was near my dear lady - I could have dropped at her place and repaired the computer. I must thank you for being around and giving us an update about dear Ms. Hatley. I amd sure like me many would have started worrying about her absence which is so much felt. I had also not seen any udpates from her on FB and that was another reason to start worrying. But I am feeling much better as now I know that our dear lady is fit and fine and healty. Hope she returns back soon... I would watch out for updates
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
Yes, sometimes we wish we were closer to our friends because we could help them more. I see she is online now.
• China
14 Aug 12
I have been wondering why I have seen nothing of Hatley for quite some time.She is so respectable that we miss her even one day apart.Hope her son will soon put her computer right.Keep me posted please.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
She is back online now. He hurried to get it done while he had time.
• China
16 Aug 12
Yesterday she commented back on one of my responses.She seemed to be very happy.thanks a lot!
@AmbiePam (85531)
• United States
14 Aug 12
I do worry about her.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
14 Aug 12
I think we all do, but we worry about you as well. I like that we are very family style here. I hope you are feeling better now.
@celticeagle (159102)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Aug 12
Well, you did finally get ahold of her. Ya, I looked ahead. That is how this thing works. Hee hee So she is fine and was probably just on the phone or something. Thanks for your updates. Like I said earlier I haven't been on much the last couple of days due to illness and the heat. They sure don't mix! Ugh!
@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
15 Aug 12
She may have been out of her room when I called, and then the number was written down wrong for her. But yes she is okay. I am sorry that the heat is making you ill.
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
13 Aug 12
I've been wondering where she's been. Please keep us posted! Will be praying for her and her computer.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
14 Aug 12
There is another discussion up now. It is the computer, I think she said a video card. Her son should get done with it before the weekend. Then she will tell us herself.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
hello GG, Thanks for this topic. Now I feel good upon knowing that it's not about her health. The last time she was on leave (from mylot) is due to computer problem and I am thankful that it's the same reason. Wish to hear from her soon..and updates too
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
13 Aug 12
When I actually get to talk to her I plan to start another discussion. I hope she can get her computer issues resolved soon.
• United States
13 Aug 12
Thank God she is alright. I'm glad to know she is going to activities. Maybe her son can fix her computer if that is the problem.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
13 Aug 12
I am thinking either her computer broke again, or she cannot afford the internet this month since she missed so much time on here. Either way, I hope she can be back soon.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
Hope eveything will be ok for Hatley. I know that she is a good person by the way she make her notes. I hope I can see her start a new discussion again or even just to make a response on some of mine. Thanks for the update.
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
14 Aug 12
She will be back soon and then we can all see her and her discussions and comments.