he's the sweetest drug

Romania
September 10, 2012 6:22am CST
I can't take my mind of him. everytime I promise myself that I'll forget him something happens and I'm back in love with him...it's driving me crazy. he's practically like a drug. I know it hurts me but I can't stop thinking of him, I can't give up the idea of us being together. whyyyyyyyyyy??????? what should I do?
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Well, it's pretty obvious, you're in love! hehe.. I think this is what makes couples stick together - the love. As we all know, the people we give our hearts to are the people who we give the authority to hurt us as well. But the hurts just keep blown away when we're in love. I too have asked this question when my relationship with my partner was rocky. I was pissed at myself for not getting it! I am supposed to be angry, but I can't help but still think of us together and think of him. I guess I just really fell. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
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• Romania
10 Sep 12
you see this is the problem..we're not together. he said that it's possible for him to come and visit his cousin this week-end and that he wants us to see each other and spend the week0end together...jesus...I'm like my heart is melting. I promised myself that I'll forget him and put an end stop talking to him and so on...but I can't.
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Hmm... Maybe it's just deep infatuation. Feelings for infatuation and love could be deceiving. You take good care of yourself.
• United States
10 Sep 12
The answer lies in why you both aren't together now.
• Romania
10 Sep 12
he always had model look-a-like girls and I'm not that type. he wanted us to be together in the past but I was afraid that he would hurt me, cheat on me. the problem is that since than I haven't been able to forget him or consider him just a friend. he said that he might be coming to visit his cousin this weekend and that he wants us to be together...I would be the happiest person on the face of the planet if that happened. I've been hurt before so what difference does it make..I'm willing to take the risk
• United States
10 Sep 12
Sometimes you can't look too far ahead on things, because you'll talk yourself out of a good thing. Give it a chance, and at the very least if things turn south at least you won't regret going for it. Trust your instincts, and don't go further than you want to, but leave yourself open to good things. The other advice I'd give you, is don't sell yourself short. You may not feel like a model look a like, but maybe you are something amazing to him.
• Romania
10 Sep 12
I know I disconsider myself but seeing the girls he's been with before I can't help it. he sees in me something different because he had girls all over him always and I didn't act the way they did. well...we'll see what happenes this weekend if he comes or not
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
10 Sep 12
Hey, did he called after the two days of silence? Well, I remembered the last time that I commented on your post. Hope that your're okay now and you've sorted out that issue. Anyway, you cannot do anything of your feeling as of the moment and it's pretty obvious that you're in love with him. Just enjoy the feeling, your heart will know when it is time to let go. Cheers!
• Romania
10 Sep 12
he's not the guy I used to have a relationship with. we broke up. I don't really care about him. I don't know if you read all of my posts but I was with him and I was in love with another guy. well this is the guy that I'm talking about
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Sep 12
Oh, I see. Well, I'm happy that you are now in the arms of the one that you truly love. All the best. Cheers!
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
12 Sep 12
This is very much common when you fall in love with someone first time and to tell you frankly one cannot forget their first love. When you are in love for first time you will always dream about your person and you will eager to meet him again and again if you are not happen to meet him then you will feel that you are missing something. My friend you are in Love, Love situation and you you are loving him from the depth of your heart. All the best
• Romania
12 Sep 12
he's not my first love. I was in love with a guy for the first time and he really hurt my feelings. this is why I was practically empty. I couldn't feel anything for no one. but he was different. and I don't know how he did but he made me feel like this for him
• Portugal
10 Sep 12
you are talking about your ex right? just talk to him and say how you feel for him. maybe he feels the same. that way you can be together again. as long as both love each other thats the most important in my opinion^^ did you break up with your boyfriend right?
• Romania
10 Sep 12
yes we broke up. i don't care about him anymore. it's the other guy that I"m soo in love with. or maybe I'm confused I don't know what I'm feeling anymore
@Winike (65)
• Hungary
10 Sep 12
You can't think of anyone else because you are in love :) If you can't let him go then prove yourself! Show him that there's much more in you then in those models! But be warned: dont rush too much... just try to take it easy , i know it's hard as hell. Im been trough this many times , Believe me if you stay strong you will get him! Your sucess will be sweeter then you can imagine... Good Luck! :)
• Romania
11 Sep 12
I wish you're right. I don't want to rush into it because I know I might ruin everything. we'll see how things turn out between us. I dreamed of him getting back together with his ex...jesus this is drinving me crazy
• United States
10 Sep 12
I have nothing to go on here. we don't know if he ever saw you before. if he knows you are in love with him. nothing i can think off will help you. if he does not know already and he is single than go tell him how you feel.
• Romania
10 Sep 12
he knows how I feel and he recently broke up with his girlfriend.
• Kenya
10 Sep 12
The only way to get over a temptation is to indulge in it, think about him as much as possible but if you want to forget him then you can't go see him no matter how hard it is for you. Look for hobbies or other activities to occupy you especially when you feel like you must see him and through this hard work maybe you will forget him in the near future.
• Romania
10 Sep 12
my mind tells me it's wrong and that i have to forget him but I can't do it. I promised myself so many times that I would do that... I've been hurt before and it took me lot's fo time to be able to feel like this for someone but he managed to make me fall for him. I don't know how but he did it to the point that I actually dream of him
@riyauro (6430)
• India
10 Sep 12
Gosh you are in love and it is good if the person have the same feelings for you and it is better to tell him. Be careful not to get hurt. Make sure you come to know what he is thinking about you. i hope that he feels the same for you and you can be together. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
• Romania
10 Sep 12
he said that he wants us to spend the week-end together if he manages to come her( he's from a different city)...and I'm like...I can't wait for friday to come. I know it's wrong but I can't help feeling extremly enthusiastic about it. I mean maybe this time it will be different. this song reflect perfecty how I feel http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ROonIpJRlA
@missjahn (4578)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
i am also like that, i mean, i told myself not to think of my boyfriend more if we have a lover's tiff. when he woe me again and said sorry, all bad things happened will be gone and could easily forgive him. i cannot hate myself for that because it is the most wisest thing to do and that if will not reconcile with him, surely both of us will suffer. but he asked sorry, huh! with no sweat at all. simple pursuant and i will be fine at that. i do not know in the future for we have been into this relationship for 6 years now. why forget him? what is the problem why so?
@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
10 Sep 12
I assume you already tried to forget him? Why???? You are the only one who knows why. Since you are not able to forget him the only thing I can advice you is to go on with your life, plan your own future, go for your goals and if you think of him in between I hope you are realistic enough to know it's not for real and you still have nice times just because of your thoughts about him.