People talk the good talk, but do they walk the good walk?

@Hatley (163781)
Garden Grove, California
September 24, 2012 10:55am CST
sleepy this early morning but read a discussion about starving dogs'and how horrible this world is.first the world is fine, but we people 'can and do mess it up. So much rhetoric is used on how awful it is to see animals and people starving but little is used at times about how we are really fixing 'these problems.That discussion triggered my thoughts that why should we go on and on about problems when most of us are mot even trying to help cure the problems. Oh I know one person cannot change wrongs but each of us could do this much.Find some food and feed the starving dogs or other animals that you see. We do try to help people on low incomes with food banks and such. I wonder if we do that much for animals that need our help.Just thinking and hoping maybe if each of us did what we could where we were it might somehow help a little. I know I should pretty naive but its just my thoughts and me. Your take my fellow mylotters.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Sep 12
Every little bit that somebody does, makes the world a little bit better. As for starving dogs, shut down all the breeders. Every dog that somebody buys from a breeder is keeping a shelter dog from being adopted!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Sep 12
I agree Dawn, with the animals the BREEDERS are so at fault! They keep breeding more and more animals and more and more end up at shelters!! They should be stopped...
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Sep 12
hi dawn and LovingMyBabies the breeders are really to blame for so much.I was just thinking about a store window in a ma l I used to go to that had the cutest baby puppies in it and I never realized just what happens to these puppies if nobody b uys them and what has a store that apparently is a gift card and stationery store to do with selling puppies? I should have asked I guess.Was that another pu ppy mill? I know once dogs'aer in shelters they all will not get a new owner and a lot will be 'put to sleep. thats so sad.
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• Canada
24 Sep 12
I, somewhat agree...BREEDERS are a huge culprit, and a very sad additive to this mix....BUT some of the largest Dog/Cat population comes from "UN-neutered" and "UN-spade" Pets NOT in control of the owner's!! Responsibility lies there, too!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Sep 12
dear Hatley, I have seen many of them; people who always talk about good deeds, but are not walking through making/doing any good deeds. People who talks a lot instead of taking any action or giving a little help that they can extend...
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Sep 12
hi jaiho and stringter hi stringer you do bring up some pertinent thoughts here. Perhaps although I am not able to get out and physically help abused animals perhaps just talking about it and "making people aware of the problems can be my little bit towards helping the problems.hi jaiho yes scome people just talk but never do any thing more to help.Yes if we report abuse to the right people we can help abused animals too and if we can spend a little for some food for that stray it would not hurt too I think,.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
24 Sep 12
First of all, how can you tell for sure they don't do anything about animal abuse ? Maybe they do, anyway, talking about the subject is a lot since it can bring up the awareness to the people. If someone is abusing an animal they report him, he can get a punishment and the animal gets safe. Even keeping an open eye on our near environment can help a lot for the animals.
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• Greece
25 Sep 12
As an animal lover I have already acquired 6 dogs and 3 cats. One dog had to be put to sleep when she got cancer and one cat just went missing. We searched everywhere for her and mourned her loss for a long time. When we first got involved with a couple of dogs in need we had no idea how it would multiply. Now it costs a fortune to look after them properly with injections,vet care and good food and housing. The problem is too big for anyone to solve it needs government action against breeders, dog dumpers,kitten dumpers and neglect.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
24 Sep 12
How do we save the pets? One pet at a time as if we each looked after an animal then it would make a difference
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
24 Sep 12
I think it is good to feed the starved dogs and animals as Hatley said and also to give food for hungry animals.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Sep 12
hi cynthiann and ajithlal yes we all could do what we can and i would make a big difference. I cannot see how anyone could bypass a staring dog or cat and not just do something to feed it., I know i maybe naive but sometimes changes come one step 'a a time too.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
25 Sep 12
You're right, the world is what it is. And the people are the ones that create all the problems that need to be fixed. But it is always as you said, they keep on talking about the problems but nothing about how to fix them. Its like with politics, they all keep on saying the same thing and say they are on our side, the people, but that is plainly not true. And no one wants to change things it seems. I guess we just all have to do the best we can for ourselves and get through this life with as little hardship as possible. We are only here once and we all have to make the best of it.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi inertia my I missed this whole page.shame. anyway yes making committees to help the homeless and they never did anything else b ut just talk. sad.yes I am agreeing and I cannot do much either to help things but maybe just talking about it could somehow help. maybe even just talking about it might somehow raise awareness of some problems we all could do something abo ut.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Nov 12
hi inertia yes it really does as some care,some just talk and a ver y fewwill actuall talk,plan then find ways to implement the plans., it would reqally help if more people were aware in this present economic climate a lot of middle classs people have become homeless dueto lost jobs and evictions and nobody to help them out at all. Soi forget all the hooey about all homeless being dru ggie and alkies and loonies as a lot are y our neighbors who got their home foreclosed and had no p;lace to g o. we all need tol ket ou r cit y dads to work on jobs for th enm and hou sing f or them as a lot have children and some are small children,.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
12 Oct 12
Raising awareness is always a good thing to do. But for the most part some issues fall upon deaf ears. I know in a perfect world we would raise an issue and it would be taken care of. But in the world we currently live in it does take many years for something to actually change.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Sep 12
I agree that many people talk a lot but they are not willing to do anything about things. To me, my favorite thing in the world is to help people. For example, the other day my husband and I took our kids out to eat for dinner. The waitress was telling another waitress that her son has to be with a babysitter now since her husband just took off and left her and her son. My heart broke. At the end of the meal we handed her $50. She said oh you pay at the counter not to me. I said no sweetie, that is your tip. Take care of your son. She smiled and said Are you serious? Really? I said yes, that is your tip, Have a Blessed night. I know I made her day by helping just a little. I love being able to help when I can, it makes my day in return! I much rather help than be helped... I also know it does not always take money to help either. I used to sing at a nursing home and the ladies there were SO happy every time I came. I kept them company and talked with them. It made me so happy that I could make them happy. I also raked leaves for the elderly because they were not able to do it anymore. They were so happy with just that little bit that I did. It is a Blessing to be able to help and serve others. If more people knew that feeling I think everyone will help a LOT more. =)
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Sep 12
hi lovingMy Babies oh mythat was so sweet of your husband and so few people ever really pay attention to the waitresses unless they want to complain.Yes you m de her day. I was feeling blue'one day after work and was hungry so stopped in at my favorite restaurant and ordered a grilled tuna f ish sandwich. We had just been told we were not getting that raise as the county was bankrupt. When I went to pay for it the waitress said oh its already been paid by that lady over there. S he smiled and said" hope you enjoyed it.I see you working so hard in the library,.good bye." I thanked her and she just smiled and left. I was so surprised wow. yes anything we can do to help another can help others to in some way.what gets me is people talking about starving animals yet never stopped and fed one at all. if we all did some things to help the world wou ld be really great.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Sep 12
hi again you know something has puzzled me at my favorite mall. I used to stop at this stationery store window to see these adorable puppies for sale. Now why were they there in a statinoery store as it was evidently a breeder thingy. I often wondered if the puppies were ever bought as that window had lights all around it and the dogs looked overheated and they had one little container of water. I wish now I had called the prevention for cruelty to animals on that shop but at the time I assumed they were cared for.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Nov 12
hi rubywillow welcome to mylot and look there are cood things in the world tool like mylot and all our friends here. little by little one day at atime onepreson at a time can do a lot to make changes if we all do som ething'to help a dog or cat or a person. hugs from hatley
• United States
24 Sep 12
I agree with you completely. I have been saying the exact same thing for years. I try not to complain about the problems of the world, because unless I'm doing something to fix it, I don't really believe I have that much of a reason to complain. If you're not a part of the solution, you must be a part of the problem. Right?
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Sep 12
hi arielpaige that is right and my son has said that to me for years when I was complaining about something.so we can do our part in some way to help solve some of the problems instead of only complaining about them.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
25 Sep 12
Interesting thoughts here my friend. The biggest problem I think becomes when people want to own pets and then not ready to own up to the responsibility that this brings. Owning an animal is great if people take time to care for them, feed them, etc. When people do not take time to want to feed their animals or animals out there needing food it is cruel. Feeding them usually is cheaper than a child. So why are their not more people out there willing and wanting to help?
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi tina thats like the fifteen stray cats people have dumped behind our building and in the p arking area of the employees pf the vietnamese grocery store. the meat cutters do come down'and feed them once a day somone here suggested they were fattening them for their own use which to me was not very funny.no these men are kind hearted and are helping these poor cats.they allonce belonged to somone who got tired I guess and left them out here to fend for themselves. sad that people are that heartless.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
24 Sep 12
There are lots of things we can do in this world. We always can make this world better place to live. Love can do miracles in this world. I think with more power comes more responsibilities. Responsibilities not only to do better for us, but also for others. I think we have the responsibilities to make this world a better place not only for humans, but also for the animals. Giving food for starving is one of the greatest thing to do in this world. May God Bless You and all others who do these good things.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Sep 12
hi ajithlal yes if each of us cou ld help just one dogor cat it would make a difference for sure. If we are comfortably well'off why not donate some food to dog shelters a nd take in a stray and save it from being exterminated at the dog pound.I can no longer get out physically and do these things myself but if I can encourage others to do it maybe I hav e done some good some way. ,.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Sep 12
yes and when i used to have a lot of money, I donated to ASPCA and feed the children and many other charities. i still do at times when i have a little i can spare. when we went to the store a while back there was a couple of cats i fed part of my sandwich. so yes i do when i can.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi bunnybon do you know I missed this entire page and I do not know how i missed it sorry . I when I was able to walk used to feed the strays around but now I cannot do that so I just write' about it I guess. how is life now with your family?better I hope
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
25 Sep 12
yes, i have seen such people , who talk about the problems but when their turn comes to help, they just run away from our sight,. They just talk as you said, but never ever could help.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi prashu yes I have too and I get tired of hearing how they made committees to solve the homeless problem bu t thats all it ever came too.When these men are the city fathers who could have come up with some solutions had they really wanted too.sad.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
They say "practice what you preach", and I totally agree with that. What a beautiful world it could be, when every creature in this planet help each other to solve the issues of everyday life rather than destroying each other. Hunger, povery, war would be minimize. It's easier said than done but I believe,really, people need people. As an individual, I will do my best to help, one way or the other, even how simple it is, bring food to the hungry people or animals living in the streets. Thanks
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi mikhyung I wish I could get out too and help but I am house bound and thus am just sitting here typing this discussion and wishing it would help in some way.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
as i can see in this world that is full of wonders, common things we see and encountered everyday are simple and we could ought to think that these are normal occurrences and that part of life as the earth phasing its orbit or axis to make day and night all over the world. as i noticed too that those common things that are just explainable and need not deep wit and algorithms to solve it are the things that were barely recognized and being given solution to solve this petty problems to consider but still rampant in the society. like this, hungry animals. i am guilty of this, because i shooed staggering dogs away rather giving foods for them to eat. i am afraid that this animal would bite me, so that is why. there is a certain agency that gives care to the wild animals who were being abandoned by their owners but like of the street children, they cannot accommodate all of the needs to adopt them all, well, i guess, that is the situation here in the philippines. thanks my madam :)
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Nov 12
hi missjahn thanks so much for all the kind words. I am glad that some animals agre being cared f or and the others held accountable too. Good to hear that. hope you see you r star go up. keep on posting and study a bit of grammar and you will just get better and better. takes a little time as English is not the easiet language to learn if you are not born hearing it.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi missjahn I sent a p rivate message to Alex who is going to get his bosses to check why your star kept falling and i really did thank him for me and for you too.I do not blame you in being leary of a starving dog if is co uld snap at you.Iam glad there are some agencies like that in the philippines but I know those problems are bigger than small agencies too. thanks for your nice response,. hugs from hatley
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
hello there my madam! thanks for being so kind and for the concerns. i cannot repay you for this but God can. best wishes for you. to let you know, sir ravasivan is very supportive too on this behalf but should not wish to mention what he'd do to uplift my staggering spirit because of what had happened. so glad for about to give up but as a weary soul, i sought sanctuary by you and others kindness to stay alive and active in here. about that agency, yes madam, people were being informed that if their pets were not kept properly and that they would allow it to walk out from their fences or gates, that certain agency would capture the animals. they can get it back by bailing it. ahmpt, it is not only dogs but also different types of animals in a society. thanks for responding in my comment reply and for messaging alex about the problem i have now in here ... God bless you always, good luck and good health. so glad found you my madam
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• Philippines
25 Sep 12
hi there! You are right, the world is not horrible, God never made anything that is not good. People let these horrible things happened. We've seen and heard lots of people reiterating what someone must do with this and that, others urge us to do something, to act on it but it makes me sick when these people who urges us do not perform what they want us to do. The best teacher is our own experience but the experience of others. For us to learn, its not always necessary that we have to experience the pains and the joys. Other's experiences should teach us as well. We must walk the talk!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi jemmarespinosa yes we can surely learn from others ex periecnces and from our own too. If we see an ill dog or cat that appears homeless we can either walk on by or feedit and find someone if we cannot take it ourselves to adopt and care for the homeless animal.Also if we see someone stranded on the freeway we can stop and help or call for help or just gone on by .those who walkthe walk will help i n one way or another those who talk will say none of my condern and drive on by.We all do have choices.
@smtrsv (186)
• India
25 Sep 12
Respected aunt, What the people are do ing we should not care. It is taught us by our elders. What is good, we should find out with the talks of the people and we should continue on the good way. It is upto us whether we focus on the talks or walks of other people. In this process we forget our our way. I do not bother what the people do. I care what I am doing.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi smtrsv welcome to my lot. yes indeed we should care what we ourselves are doing b ut here I am sad as I cannot get out and physically help others so here I am just writing this discussion and hoping to make people aware that with problems they will not go away with talk but with doing something to solve them.sure we can talk out how to do something but if it never gets done then the' problem willnot be solved.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
12 Oct 12
There is no denying the truth in what you say, but I cannot realistically see the situation ever improving. Most of us are eager to give vocal support, but expect someone else to provide the action. I have been involved with a lot of fund raising over the years for the local hospital geriatric ward, but have done much on a more personal level. My neighbour recently took in a stray cat which had been roaming around for a while and was always hungry. We both fed it and I still have cat food in my cupboard, but I did not consider giving the animal a home. It seemed totally inconvenient for me to actually keep a cat, which may sound selfish but I do admit my faults. As for people who are hungry, this can be a difficult situation. I rarely give to beggars in the street who claim to be homeless, mainly because it is so difficult to decide who is actually genuine. Too many people are making a living today from begging, even though they are not really homeless, so as a result the genuine needy are often ignored and classed as the same.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Oct 12
hi Asylum I live in the US so we do not really have beggars here an we have programs to help poor people.but we have homeless people on the streets an we are not getting jobs for t hem and housing they c an afford. they all talk abou t it but nobody really actually does any thing positive at all.[b][/b]
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
27 Sep 12
I agree Hatley the world is not a horrible place...people are! by not doing what is right! people and animals have suffer famine and hunger for as long as we know[ and lets not start on cruelty to animals][or humans for that matter] but at the end of the day[ and lets be real] giving food stamps it only help for a day or 2...we should be looking at long term solutions and that should be a concern for the governments of any country in the world where a community should be able to sustain themselves with the help of their own government and then maybe poverty can be avoided...until then we can give the dog a bone but what happens after tomorrow?
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Oct 12
hi alottodo You are right food stamps help but a good job does a hell of a lot more and it gives all dignity and self respec. the homeless need j obs and places to stay til they can afford to rent apts; here in Southern Califoria rents are horrivly expensive .there needs to be a limit of that really .
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Nov 12
hi a lottodo I agree there should be some sort of limit not all people in California are wealthy so what do you working class people do to be able to afford the rents,I know a lot of families all the adults father mom and adult kids are working so they can split that 12 00 to 2 000 a month rent among them. not fair at all.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
31 Oct 12
I just don't understand why rents have to be so high!....really! I think the landlords are a bunch of greedy people...there should be a limit some how where people can pay their rent according to what they earn so they can have a dignify life and not have to relay on charity or live in the streets.
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• United States
22 Oct 12
I read a good many of your responses and it seems like most have taken this topic to cover animals in need. I think that is as good a need as any. There are so many needs in today's world and we live in a rich country that is blind to a lot of them. I hate to be pessimistic but it has been proven that human nature leans toward greed and without laws to prevent misuse, a lot of good organizations get abused for profit. I applaud the true workers of help but sometimes it is hard to see them for the fakes around them.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Oct 12
hi thats so true cableman and it dampens our ardor who are not well o ff to'donate to anyone one.I do it for diabetes as i am a diabetic so they have my heart but I cannot give much.I rfeally wish I could as its a worthy cause.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
30 Oct 12
You know, this is one of my pet peeves. If people care so much about something that they say bothers them, they should do something about it. It isn't that hard, and it doesn't take much. People who constantly complain and criticize are difficult to tolerate.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Oct 12
hi Canellita cute name lol. anyway pne newer mylotter always griped about no good interesting discussions to respond to so I suggested she makes some and show us poor uninteresting mylotters how to make a good interesting discussion and she did' and she quit complaining then started bi;t.ch=.ing about how good her discussion was and how she did not get any responses.I suggestged she start responding to othersif she wanted them to respond to her.people do remember complainers a lot.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Nov 12
hi canellita that is a really good comeback and I shall borrow that some d a y lol.I think some new ones get scared by the work qu ality and thnk they cannot'make a good response but too in anything you have to feel you have self esteem and are able to come up tol any task.if one believes in ones self you really cand make great posts here. so one just has to know they are somebody and can do it as well as anyone else.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
31 Oct 12
I used to respond in a similar fashion to people who complained about no interesting discussions to respond to. I think if you can not come up with a response to a discussion regardless of the topic then you are the one who is not interesting and that is what I used to tell the complainers.
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• China
27 Sep 12
Not long before,I have been moved by the scene where many people rescued dolphins stranded on the shore on a voluntary basis and let them swim back to the sea.On the whole,most people in the world are kind-hearted.If everyone no sooner said than done,this world could be even better.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Oct 12
hi chang yes most people are kind hearted and with some encouragement many'will help anyone when they need helpl I had a bad fall and broke myhleft shoulder outside my favorite restau rant. now a lot of people just w atchced but four of the staff of the restaurauhnt c ame o ut to see if i needed h elp and one gave me a glass of water.someone had already calledd the paramedics and they came very soon. allwere very kind to me
• China
1 Nov 12
I always admire the volunteers and charitable organization for the way they help people.They always come out onto the places where people need them most.They work selflessly even lose their lives.Happily,There are so many soft-hearted people in you Gold Crest.
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• China
6 Nov 12
That shows that people's awareness of enviromental protection yet remains to be increased.They would as soon litter as take a few steps towards the big barrels for trash.If they think that does no harm to them,they have another guess coming!
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• India
10 Nov 12
Hatley, we must help other human beings and animals as much as we can. If we have enough money and have the ability to fulfill our needs and necessities, we must think about other persons who are struggling with poverty and starvation and help them as much as we can, this kind of helping activities will give satisfaction to us.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Nov 12
hi vidhyaprakash you are so righ if we are in the position to help those who are less fortune we must all do whatever we can to help others.Sadly I am not in a financial condition to help anyone not even my self.lol.but the city fathers in the county do have some funds that could be used to get homeless people off the streets and into jobs and also housing too.I just know it could be done.