Failure is not the end

@GandharD (148)
India
November 30, 2012 5:27am CST
Many people, when they fail, just lose hopes after trying hard to achieve something . Failure is mans worst enemy. I too have failed tremendously , in my academic life. I lost all the hopes of my future and i thought that I should end my life. But my Parents supported me a lot and they helped me to get out of the stress in all ways. Well, I changed my track of studies, now i am doing quite well in it. Just LOVE WHAT YOU DO! It may take time , But just go with it. So I just want to convey this, That you never fail... Your success gets delayed. If you strive hard definitely, success is yours. Has anyone failed in his/her life, lost hopes ...But still havent given up and are challenging ?
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
I too have failed a lot of times in my life. We are never perfect after all. I take these failures as life's challenges and a key for a greater success. I really believe in the saying, "Failure is the key to Success" that is why I never let these failure bring me down. I may cry and think how stupid I have been for failing, but I stand up and dry my tears and strongly say, I can do change my failure to success and strive hard. If other's can, they so can I. There's a reason for failing, and that is because we have to learn from it in order to do good next time.
@GandharD (148)
• India
2 Dec 12
Well said, Failure is the key to success! And man learns from his mistakes..
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
I've failed so many times in my life. I get really really sad & upset. But when that happens I'd just think about the wonderful things that have happened in my life & move on because life doesn't stop when we fail.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Exactly! I believe that is because these failures are life's challenges that makes us more strong and these failures are our key for success.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 12
Surely will do if you have supportive parents, what if they are not and you have no friends?
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Then you turn to your God and ask for his guidance. We all have friends even if it's only 1, it's still considered our great supporter.
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
You're right. We should not give up when we failed once, twice, thrice. Life is full of trials. We really have to exert effort to achieve something. There's nothig easy in this world.We should move on after failing and plan how to get a positive result next time. Goodluck to all of us.
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
Oh, I agree with you balipromo. We should never give up. We won't succeed if we haven't experienced failing. Thanks for the comment.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
14 Mar 13
for sure and you need to keep bouncing back and living up to achieve your dreams and stepping stones of succcess
30 Nov 12
I agree that failure is not just the end. You see the word "success" does exist because "failure" exist as well. Failure is just The negative side of a thermometer of life. Failure is just a step away from success. The best is to actually learn something from those failures, and that will definitely make you stronger. Blessing
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Very well said muteke11 . Failure is only the begining of a greater success ahead. Welcome to Mylot
@derek_a (10874)
1 Dec 12
I would never say that failure is the end. IN fact I think we can learn so much more about life from our failures than from our successes. Perhaps there is no such thing as failure and it is just life's way of telling us that we are not on a path that is suitable for us and we could learn more from a different one. If we can think like this, then things would be so different as you yourself have proved.. I think that the concept of failure is just that.. a concept, and not reality at all. _Derek
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
1 Dec 12
That is a very good message that you shared and I hope plenty of people read this and take heart in what you said. Just because we don't succeed in one thing does not mean we are losers. We just have to find something that works for us and then we can be a success as that. I am happy for you that you found a path in life of which you enjoy and thrive in.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
You know, friend. Failure must be an inspiration for man to succeed. If you let that failure to stop right there. You never be succeed in what you dream off...
• China
1 Dec 12
If you really want some examples than we can list many of that from the old day till now,but what my emphasis is that no matter what situation you are in,just keep a strong will and never give up. Just have a little faith,if you lose yourself you lose everything.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
Yes, you are right. I failed also many times, but I did not give up. I am always positive about that failure and I believe that every thing has a reason and has a right time. Just wait but be courageous enough to become strong in every difficulties and challenges that comes our way.
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
1 Dec 12
To fail is very tough. I've experienced failure a lot and at some points I gave up and just stopped. There were times though that I really insisted and never gave up, tried so hard and at the end I saw the fruit or the result I was aiming. When you fail, it doesn't stop there. Failure means you are lacking something and that you need to put more effort in order to be qualified to next level. This is sometimes hard to understand but really it is. I hope that no one never gives up, because giving up to something you've already started will mean that you were not really serious and you have no determination.
• India
1 Dec 12
Failure is definitely not the end... Failing to try again is!! Keep on running boss, you may stumble, you may fall, but you will humble the goal and beat it somehow, sometime. But, be sure to be aware, no matter how far you have gone on the wrong route, do not hesitate to make a U turn. Good luck.
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
Yeah! I actually thought of that so far ago. But no more now! Cause I have a great thing that I think when something happens, Its that, I always think that everything happens for a purpose and that God just do it for the best of you and for everyone in this world.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
30 Nov 12
Hello and welcome to mylot, it's not about the failure it's about the achievement of trying! we cannot succeed in everything we do that would make everything worthless and pointless, the fact that we have had to struggle along the way, pass hurdles and obstacles even if the endpoint is failure it is a true test of our measure to keep on trying. If we gave up all the time we'd never accomplish or achieve a single thing. If the first time we tried to explore the moon and it failed, did they give up trying? No and look what we have learnt just by exploring outer space, so that others can learn by not just the successes, the failures, often learning about how others fails, helps us not to make the same mistakes as they did. It's all a learning curve.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
Good day to you, Indeed, failure is not the end. Otherwise, it is just the beginning of something to look up with. As they say, you are about to enter another venture in your life once you fall down. What important is, you know how to get up and stand again. Hence, the fall that you have experienced is just the beginning of something. Beginning of a new life. With me here, I already fall a thousand times, but, in every situation that I have encountered, I always asked God to be with me. To guide me and lift me up. And I am very thankful as how God is helping me. For without Him, I cannot do anything. Since He is my strength. Like, last time, when almost all of my family members have turn their back to me, as I was left all alone to the family business that I am aspiring to have. As a result, I was not able to start that up. And I fail being alone on this project. But, I have tried another path as God is guiding me now.
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
Failure is the beginning. Every time i fail in my plan or goal i consider this as a challenge in my life.
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
When I was in college I failed in my class,I thought that was the end of my life.I did my best but its not enough.I cant really accept my failure that time.I was so nervous for my family because I knew they will get angry if they know.But when I told them about my problem they are very supportive and helped me to achieve my dreams.Failure is not an excuse...We can fail very so often but we are not a failure until we give up.It is hard to fail but it is worse to have never tried to succeed .
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
Hello, I encounter a lot of people who has the spirit of not giving up when they are in their lowest part of their lives. I also even watch a true to life stories about their struggles, hardships,challenges but still not giving up. I envy them. Hahaha!!! ... Why? Because they are very brave. I am, sometimes, a quitter. But some says, quitting is not the end, it is just a beginning of new challenges. Maybe, i am just afraid of responsibilities that's why i keep on quitting. I know, i am not always like this, with the help of the people who loves me, I know i can make it. I can face my challenges too.
@nani4ajay (108)
• India
1 Dec 12
Thanks a lot for this discussion, definitely every one fails in their life at any point of time, but the thing is that how we treat the failures, we are listening from childhood days "failures are stepping stones for success", it is ultimately true, the main reason for not getting success is not daring to fail. When dared to fail we will be successful, take step, take decision and don't give up work with more effort then success will be at your foot.