What makes a friend into a good friend?

@jricky1 (6800)
China
December 31, 2012 3:28am CST
I think it's a long way for people to get to know each other,while this long process needs our trust and interests to have further step.So what's your way to turn into good friend? But this is really lovely to get another good friend in life.
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12 responses
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
31 Dec 12
A good friend will always be there. A good friend will support your decisions even if they don't agree with them. A good friend will not let you drive drunk. A good friend will answer the phone when you call, because they don't know if that's the last time they will ever hear from you again. A good friend will stand by your side at all times and will know the right time to step in. We all need good friends in our lives. A good friend is honest, trustworthy, and willing to share his life with you too.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Dec 12
Yes,a genuine good friend definitely stand beside you no matter what happened.It's nice to hear the thoughts of you about good friend.And i really appreciate it.Thanks a lot and enjoy everyday.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
31 Dec 12
Thank you. I've thought long and hard in what I want in a friend.
• St. Peters, Missouri
31 Dec 12
This is so good. I like your description of a good friend.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
31 Dec 12
Well, I, in my life, I've had to deal with many people. Some of them I thought was a true friend, but I was wrong count on them! They eventually turned out to be the momentary acquaintances, far speech to compareĀ  with true friends! Today, true friends, and I emphasize the word "real", I have only three! I'd better few but good. With these people I'm perfectly okay, and I'm glad they have with me, a relationship of mutual trust friendly.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Dec 12
So take it true to see whether someone are suitable for us to be friends.Enjoy your perfect day and share what you've got to these really awesome friends.Happy new year.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
For me, there are acquaintances, friends category, good friends and best friends. Acquaintances are those whom i already know by name, i have met them for a brief time, we have been introduced but we never really have spent time together to have some good talks. A friend is someone who i can have a good chat with, but never personal... we can talk about anything, spend time together and have lunch or dinner every so often but they are not aware of what my favorites are, what makes me irk, what i am going through in life... and of course good friends are those whom i have spent a little more time with like a friend, a good friend to me already knows something about my life, a bit personal, we can tell each other secrets and expect them to be kept and between us alone... Best friends are those i have been with since i was younger, but i can consider a good friend my best friend too if that person has been with me through thick and thin, that we have already went through several things and we still are best of friends.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Dec 12
You are so right.First i think the same value toward life is so important since the process we know each other then we find happiness when hanging out.While best friend is totally different from these.Having good friends to share things is a happiness in this world i think.Thanks for share,chiyosan.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
31 Dec 12
Hi jricky We find many friends in our life but we get only few good friends according to me a friend can be called as a good friend when he /she has some qualities like supporting our goals and us and says no to do any kind of thing if he finds a fault in it.A good friend sticks with you at good times as well as bad times so on .
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Dec 12
Yeah,a person can gets many friends,but limited good friends.While it only take one of two best friend.I think this is really enough for us,cuz we don't need to make everyone share what we thought.
• India
31 Dec 12
Hi friend, True and real friends are always like a great treasure. We must be very lucky to have them. Our true friends are like our shadow and they will follow us anytime even it is good or bad. This real friends always stand for us and do anything for our sake. It is very hard to determine and explain the value of a real friend. In this modern days, it is really hard to see a true and real friend. But still some people are existing in this sort. But we must search them hard. I have some good friends in my life, they are always supporting me and help me whenever i need it from them. In the same way, i am helping them whenever they require it from me. This kind of mutual help are quite common in true friendship. A real and true friend never expect anything from his friend and do a lot of favor for his sake. In fact the activity of this kind of real friends will create a great impact in our mind and we are ready to do any favor for them without asking them. I have one best friend in this sort and always i consider him as my own brother. But few years back he betrayed and back stabbed me. After that incident, i lost my faith with real friends and always keep certain distance from all my friends. We must be very careful with our friends. If you have a good friend from your childhood till today and he is loyal to you, then never give up him for any cause.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Dec 12
Thanks a lot,prakash.It's nice having you these suggestions.Overall friendship is simple if you really find that one to accompany you and someone totally understand you.For me it is the most lovely thing that the best girl can be my bridesmaid when i get married.She really know me.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
A friend can really be trusted and must be there through thick and thin, ups and downs. He must not be a traitor or back fighter. True friends are real wealth. Happy New Year!
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Dec 12
Yeah,the person should make me feel i can trust them and we had great time being together.Time will tell us everything so i don't worry about it.Thanks for share and hope everybody enjoys good friends and the life.Happy new year.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
I've been my own best friend for almost 80 years. When I was young I was not always my own best friend, because I was making some embarrassing mistakes, and I hated myself afterwards. However as time went on I began turn into my own best friend because I had learned not to do those stupid things.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
2 Jan 13
The best way to have a friend is to be a friend.
@Keola12 (799)
• United States
31 Dec 12
honesty and loyalty along with setting a good example and being there for friends in their time of need is what makes a good friend. Their is also a strong mutual respect that must exist between friends.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
31 Dec 12
We humans are such users. I know that most of my friends are only my friends because a) they have things I need to use and/or b) I have things they can use ... if we can't use each other, we end up associating with each other less-&-less. Oh! What a World! What a World!
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
1 Jan 13
a good friend is someone who can always help you in need. best friend is the one who will cry when you wipe the tears and calm and they will not be watching the torment. best friend knows and anyone who has such a friend was born lucky. best friend so prices should be respected and honored! nice day!
@Pegasus72 (1898)
28 Jan 13
A good friend is always there for you no matter what they dont' have to agree with you they just have to be there for you.