Tried Religion vs. Politics

@debrakcarey (19887)
United States
March 11, 2013 12:35pm CST
ok, I tried the religion interest (over the weekend) on the recommendation of friends who were worried I was getting burned out in politics. WOW there are stakes, stocks and whips over there! I had to check and make sure my feet were not on fire. I'll stick with politics if you don't mind. In politics all you get is voted out of office!
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@robspeakman (1700)
11 Mar 13
I think this should not be contentious at all Debra Don't you?
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• United States
11 Mar 13
Contentious? It shouldn't cause an argument unless someone makes it so. It seems to always happen. The best thing to do issue each person to state his ir her point politely without insulting or belittling the other person for their statements here.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
11 Mar 13
On who's part? I'd love to live in a world where everybody agreed, where there was no disagreement, unfortunately, as lamb states above, that will be when it's TO LATE to argue. I like a good debate. And I agree with Pointless...no insulting or belittling allowed.
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12 Mar 13
It would be bliss to live in a world where no one disagrees. Any perceived insulting or belittling is unintentional unless stated otherwise
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Oh shucks! I should have been online and tuned in, you could have used my support! Hmmm, I haven't started may discussions under religion.. but I do like to respond.. I guess I need to get retuned into mylot..
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
11 Mar 13
I've been off work for four days, three scheduled off and today I am ummmm sick in a way I won't describe. lol Anyway, I got a bit tired of hanging at FB as it is the same stuff posted over and over and everyone wants to respond with "Obama sucks" and yes he does - but can you elaborate...lol. Yeah, gave me a mental and spiritual and emotional workout as Sulynsi described. Her thread, poor lady and I do mean, she is a lady in how she approaches it all...but her thread was the scene of a multi car pile up between a few of us and her email inbox overflowed. lol I felt kinda sorry for her. But she's handled it well.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
11 Mar 13
Religion and Politics can certainly be the most volatile subjects to discuss, and can illicit some rather hostile responses. I can understand hostility from someone defending their religion or political beliefs if they are attacked, but can never understand why people have such difficulty discussing the subjects in an amicable manner.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Yes, emotions tend to run high in those two topics. I think, and it is only my opinon, that it is because they are very personal subjects. I mean, one is how we govern ourselves and one is who we allow to govern us. I don't understand why people get offended when you state you are what you are and elaborate on what you believe. For instance, I believe I am saved, going to heaven for instance...and someone comes up (hypothetically speaking) and is offended because they think I am saying I am better than them. ??? What? Anyway, I may return once in awhile. May even post a thing or two. I do plan on keeping up with responses (if needed) in the discussions I participated in.
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
11 Mar 13
Poor Debra - it was exhausting, wasn't it? I wonder if we burn calories in such discussions?? THAT would be AWESOME!!! I'm gonna work out over in the lot I think you did very well, I hope to keep seeing you there! I know NOTHING about politics, so I could only read your comments, but would be unable to comment back
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
11 Mar 13
I feel bad about some of the times I lost my temper. lol But thank you. I really admired your even and measured approach. I am not able to manage that all the time. Need to work on that. and yes...if we burned calories I'd be back in a size eight! lol
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• United States
11 Mar 13
I hear ya. I don't care for the religion category. I'd rather stick with the 'life' category and talk about beliefs in God as part of life. In the religion category one might get branded as a witch or a heathen if they don't agree with your beliefs. I believe everyone's experience of God is personal to themselves. Their experience if God may not be the same as mine. I respect that. Many don't respect my thoughts about my experience with God. I just go on and try to be nice to everyone.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Maybe I should have said lions, tigers and bears were present. We all wound up friends and agreeing to disagree. Don't get me wrong, it got a bit hairy for awhile, but misunderstandings were cleared up and things are now ok. I just felt it was a bit more spirited (pardon the pun) than politics ever was.
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@spicymary (558)
• Romania
11 Mar 13
Well... it's a topic with a lot more meaning for most who are writing there, so the polemics are harsher. But it just makes them more interesting :)
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
11 Mar 13
I tend to like spicey despite my describing the experience as akin to being burnt at the stake. lol Humor in a post draws readers I suppose. Which is why I put it like that. yes, ones worldview tends to be very important to them. I was astonished though that I was asked to be human first...as if my beliefs were something I could lay down and pick up at will. THEY are me. I can't imagine being me without them. I don't just half heartedly wake up in the morning and say, I think I'll be a Christian today. I am a Christian to my core. Not perfect mind you, that is not what I mean...but it is who I AM. Being a Christian influences all my thoughts. And I'd expect someone who claims to be say...a Buddist to be thouroughly a Buddist to the core. And why take offense cause I CHOSE to be a Christian and you (rhetorical) chose to be a Buddist? I just don't get it I guess.
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
12 Mar 13
Debra, you're sort of a confrontational person, so I can see how you could have trouble "over there." I post some in the religious topics, but I pick and choose which ones to respond to. Some people (just like in politics) post only to argue, while some post with real questions or problems. I'm more than happy to help when I can, but I don't argue about religion.
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
12 Mar 13
Of course, and I am quite sure of Whom I believe, as you are. We just have different approaches. I believe there is nothing to be gained by arguing with people about God. They won't be convinced by the best argument, but only by the Spirit of God.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
12 Mar 13
This is true. And we must not operate in the flesh, but in the Spirit. I don't pretend that I know it all, I share what I believe, what I do know. And I stand up to those who tell me I shouldn't speak up about what I believe, what I know to be the truth. So pray for me. Pray that it is truly OF THE SPIRIT that my motives and words are coming from.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
12 Mar 13
Yes, I realize I am. And it doesn't help that I am opinionated as well. But aren't we told to be SURE of Him in whom we believe?
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@GardenGerty (157652)
• United States
11 Mar 13
It sounds as if you have found some really hot topics.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Sin. REALLY HOT TOPIC. I have to say, I got offended when I shouldn't have a few times too. It is so hard to NOT misunderstand when you are speaking of feelings and emotions and beliefs. I stuck it out though, and am glad I did. Gained some insight and I think... a new friend.
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@Fatcat44 (1141)
• United States
12 Mar 13
Two things guaranteed to start a fight, politics and religion. I try to be nice and present my case because arguing is not of our Heavenly Father, but of the adversary. I present, let them read and the spirit to work from there. I cannot convert no one, but the spirit does. Have fun.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
12 Mar 13
Here's how I look at it; I am sure of the truth in God's word. I also believe in being 'nice', but I believe in absolute truth too. So, should I compromise truth for nice? I love my fellow man. I believe everyone has a choice to believe or not believe. But if I REALLY TRULY BELIEVE that God's word is true...and that it contains SALVATION and ETERNAL LIFE...I will risk someone's hatred or endure their anger to speak it, share it with them. They can reject it, they can be angry or upset with me. Afterall, the people who do NOT BELIEVE God's word are every bit as willing to share why they don't believe, correct? And the idea of compromise, tolerance...contain the subtle suggestion that those who know the truth should shut up and sit down and when we do that, the only voice is the one who does not believe the truth of God's word.
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@Fatcat44 (1141)
• United States
13 Mar 13
Our job is to introduce it to them in away that not being offensive. If you offend them, they will not listen. If it be by a little bit, or whatever. Introduce it softly and let the spirit work on them. It is the spirit that witnesses the truth to them and does the conversion, not us. If we ram it to them to hard, they will just turn off and the spirit will not be there.
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
13 Mar 13
Some folks are offended JUST because. lol In any discussion online, misunderstanding happens due to not being face to face, and because sometimes we all write differently than we speak. If I know in my heart I was not being hateful or judgmental, and they are offended at what is said...all I can do is apologize. Doesn't the Word say also Isaiah 55:11 11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it. You just never know what a seed planted may grow into. Even if not immediately. And as I said to Peavy, I think it is important that ego stays out of the motivation. And that is the hard part for me. My Irish temper is easily aroused. lol