Im not going to ask now

@911Ricki (13602)
Canada
March 24, 2013 5:17pm CST
I met this friend in college, she is now mid to late 30s. We talk regularly, a little background. In college she use to flip out about everything, homework she call and I would have to talk her through it. She moved to England after meeting a guy online, married him, just to say she was married, 5 months later divorced him. She has been with several men since, and even catching something from a 19 year old. One man she was charged with stealing, and I know she isnt this type of person either. She is on disability, she has seisures but the government is on the verge of investigating because she stopped the medication, which I think is causing these well interesting decisions (I truely think she has some sort of mental problem). She called me up, and said guess what Im getting married. She met this guy online, met him once. They are getting married, having kids (the surgery way - she cant conceive or something), and fall in lady. When she was saying this, Im thinking are even listening to yourself. I saaid are you sure this is what you want, and I told her explaining this how she should wait, and see how it goes. I think all she wants is to move out of her parents house, she cant hold down a job (since ive known her she worked 3 months and complained about it - but that comes back to the prenting), she gets these ideas when she wants to move out, and her mother always make comments how can you not be like your brother (who is in a unhappy marriage and has 3 kids). She moved to Alberta dated a drg addict 20 something year old and lived on the streets with him, she says shes a recovering alcoholic (she drank less than me - so what do you call me), she became morman and preaching god to everyone (she use to cringe and hate people who do this), she meets guys and goes out with them constantly (sleep with them). She comes up with the craziest things, and in 4 -5 months it will hit her and everything changes and she goes off on a crazy adventure.
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@BarBaraPrz (16726)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
24 Mar 13
Well, you can't say her life isn't interesting, at least.
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@911Ricki (13602)
• Canada
24 Mar 13
haha that is true. She called me about a man in her building, they were talking about her religion, and she lent him a book. She said now they are in love, and she says they should be together yet he lives with his girlfriend. I said hes a coward if he is trying to get with you and lives with a girl. I had a guy do that to me, and shows how low he is, but she would go for him and think its fine.
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@MoonGypsy (4615)
• United States
24 Mar 13
i think your friend has issues with bi-polar or something. her behavior is quite erratic and she is all over the place. i hope she gets some help soon.
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• South Africa
25 Mar 13
I have bi-polar i don't act like that.
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@lilybug (21182)
• United States
24 Mar 13
She sounds like she has some serious problems and unfortunately you cannot talk sense into people like her. She is just going to make the mistakes that she plans on making.
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@Raine38 (8907)
• United States
24 Mar 13
Wow, that is a pretty messed up situation for her. If you didn't say how old she is, then I wold just thrown it for being young and stupid. But, well, looks like maturity really doesn't come with age, I suppose. I am not all righteous here, I am also prone to making stupid decisions even now, but I think when something didn't work the first time, why is the second time going to be any different when it is obvious that the issues of the past remain the same? Well, did she even tell you that she will consider your advices? I hope she does. She may sound happy now but then we all know that life doesn't stop there.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
24 Mar 13
If she was younger I would say she is just REALLY immature, I mean I know immaturity can be at any age but she should be past these kinds of things by now! Maybe there really is something wrong with her. I think she should go get checked for more than just her seizures. I have seizures and I don't behave that way. There has to be more going on with her...
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@Hatley (154558)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Mar 13
hi ricki I think she iu bipolar or a schizophrenic and maybe both as she surely has some sort of mental problems as far as I can see,She sounds like she needs a thorough mental evaluation I believe.It's a wonder her momn has not thought of that.
• China
25 Mar 13
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@dorannmwin (36608)
• United States
27 Mar 13
I think that I would do the same thing as you in this kind of situation and I wouldn't ask any questions about it either. I think that it is sad that there are people like this in the world that are able to ruin not only their own lives, but also the lives of others. After hearing the background that you've shared about this woman, I really hope that she is not successful in her attempts to have a child because those children would not be able to have any kind of a stable life.
@cvodrey (228)
• United States
25 Mar 13
I think you are correct in your assessment that she has a mental issue. She sounds bipolar.
• United States
25 Mar 13
It does sound like she has some kind of mental issue. It is odd that she keeps on going off with people she does not know then ends up either dating them or marrying them. It is odd that her parents are not keeping a better eye on their daughter and seeing what she does. I know that a person in their 30s are considered to be adults, but it in this case she needs to be taken care of. I wonder what she will do when she decides to come back.
@natliegleb (5186)
• India
25 Mar 13
dont ask it and it is hitting a high time and you need to certainly weed out and eliminate the difference and also merely you need to discuss with kids about this one for sure