I have a secret to share

Yes, on the old myLot and especially when I was a new user with very few posts (mostly in general nature) most would think I'm a young male of which I've never bothered to correct them either. They'd addressed me with "man" or "dude"...

i have figured out what most people are. But boy or girl it does not matter.

I find the majority of members, at least the ones that I know, tend to have names that infer a gender. I do remember a time many years ago when several members here used female usernames despite being male, although I never did understand why. I suppose that my username qualifies as one of those that does not signify my gender, although it would not be difficult for people to realise that I am an old male fool after reading my posts.

i shrug it off, too, and it depends on the topic being discussed also.

I have just been addressed as a man, but I'm a woman. My Panama hst is responsible for that.

Well, whenever I interact with people on myLot who don't have a gender-based profile picture, I don't actually judge them whether they are boys or girls. Interaction is what's important regardless of the genders anyway. He he. Kudos~

Mostly it should not matter. I have been fooled by some but not often. I go look at profiles if it has any relevance I try to find out from other discussions.

Back in the day, they were people that actually pretended to be a girl, and then posting naughty but not to the point of violating the rules. From them on, I just chose to interact and be more careful with how I answer the questions. .

I'm often confused, until they mention their wife or some other telling detail. Many names are not obvious. It doesn't really matter, other than getting to know the person a little better.

I do like to know a person's gender, and I've had a couple of people just these last couple of days think I was male.

I don't know about a lot of people and it doesn't matter to me.

It's not a big deal because in English if you write to someone "you" it goes both for male and female. In Hebrew the second--person personal pronoun (singular) "you" splits for f. And m. For a male you say in Hebrew "Ata" and for a female "at".

Sometimes, after a long time I am shocked to find out that someone I thought was a male is a female, or the other way around!

There are a few whose gender I don't know but mostly it doesn't matter anyway.

I am one of those who thought that you are a boy . I have mistook some myLotters too as a boy but it turned out they were girls.

Whether that little yellow head rasp is a girl or a boy I would like to rip that red flippin thing out of its mouth.

so, can you reveal us your gender?

only drawback to not knowin' what one's gender is'd be callin' a 'sir' a 'ma'am' :)

It is just okay, most of the time they think I am one too.

That is funny. I just respond back to people and go on. I don't really give it a lot of thought when their images or name is not one gender or the other so it makes it like a surprise when you do interact with them.