My Grandmother's "Feelings"

@owlwings (43915)
Cambridge, England
February 26, 2016 6:45am CST
My mother was born on 26 February 1909 in Broadstairs, Kent, the third child of Edith and ‘Chad’ Horne. I think that her childhood was happy, though the family went through some hard times after her father died. She would often tell us stories about her life in Kent as a girl and, as children, we always clamoured for more of what she called her ‘happenings’. There were several which involved my grandmother’s apparent second sight, all of which, I think, involved keeping the family from harm. One which I remember her telling often was set on a particularly gloomy and wet Sunday when all the family were gathered in the front room engaged in the the sort of quiet and absorbing activities which children of the day were expected to do on a Sunday afternoon. All of a sudden, my grandmother stood up and said, “We must go for a walk, dears!” Everyone said, “Oh no, Mother! We don’t need to go for a walk in this weather, surely?” But my grandmother insisted, saying that it was something they had to do. Of course, nobody wanted to and there were many grumbles but my grandmother was adamant and hurried the children on with their boots and gaiters and overcoats and scarves. It really was a most cold and damp and uninviting day but out they all dutifully trooped to walk along a muddy country footpath. After they had been walking for about 10 minutes or quarter or an hour - no longer - my grandmother said, “I think it’s time to go home now.” and so they turned round and headed for home. Surely, my mother thought, the most pointless and tiresome walk they had ever been asked to do! When they arrived home, everyone was astonished to see that the front window was smashed and there was broken glass all over the place where they had so recently been sitting! It was concluded that a car passing had kicked up a stone with enough force to break the window but nobody could explain it, since motor cars were rare and there was very little traffic along that road, especially on a Sunday afternoon. Even more astonishing was that my grandmother had so urgently shepherded the whole family out of the house for no reason at all, that anyone could see. When asked about it later, all she would say was, “Well, dear, I just had one of my ‘feelings’!”
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
26 Feb 16
This is an incredible story, but I know what it means to have those "feelings". It must be something in common to those born at the end of February.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
It was my mother who was born today. My grandmother was born on 6 January 1871.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
26 Feb 16
@owlwings I am sorry I mixed the dates. My grandmother was born in the year 1881, only twenty years after Italy was unified.
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• United States
26 Feb 16
OK, that gave me the chills...was it dumb luck or more than that, no one will ever know for sure.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
Well, there are three similar incidents in my mother's stories of my grandmother. Another time, she was with the children on a tram in Broadstairs and she suddenly announced that they had to get off, even though it wasn't their closest stop and it meant a longer walk home. They later heard that the tram had run over and killed a man just afterwards.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
@AbbyGreenhill Maybe you could call it that. She was a very determined, practical and down-to-earth lady and would have been the first to laugh if anyone called her a psychic or anything like that. "Mother's 'feelings'" were just one of her little oddities and everyone rather made a joke of them. None of us found them very spooky.
• United States
26 Feb 16
@owlwings OMG - maybe she had a true 6th sense.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
26 Feb 16
I am a firm believer in these kinds of feelings and I think your grandmother was wise enough to listen.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
I think she had that rare gift of being able to listen to her 'sixth sense' without letting her reason or logic get in the way.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
@BelleStarr I think that you're right. Many more people should develop and learn to listen to their intuition.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
26 Feb 16
@owlwings I think more people should develop that since I honestly believe most people have it.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
26 Feb 16
Lucky for all, and good they heeded her and went out for that short walk on a dreary, drizzly afternoon without question.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
Children were much more inclined to do what the adults told them in those days (Though they certainly grumbled about it)!
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• China
27 Feb 16
I thought it was just an over-told story about "my grandmother" until I read down to the end, and it goes mysteriously and some kind of weird like a made story. I have heard a lot of such unbelievable stories about "feelings" in my village, and some women even can be a so called fox-fairy with super power to deal heal some disease that medicines and doctors can do nothing to. Anyway, good story and feel glad for your super power bestowed grandmother.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
27 Feb 16
There was nothing fey about my grandmother. In all respects, she was a very practical, down-to-earth lady. She just had the ability to listen to what her intuition told her. She also had a very firm faith in God and in the power of prayer, which may have helped, though there was no 'religion' or prayer involved here (except that I'm sure that she gave thanks where it was due afterwards!)
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• Philippines
26 Feb 16
Her "feelings" truly saved her family. Not sure if that is the same with gut feeling?
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
I suppose that it's something like that. She certainly never said she knew WHY she had to do what she did. It only seemed to become apparent later that she had saved the family from a nasty or dangerous experience.
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@pumpkinjam (8547)
• United Kingdom
27 Feb 16
I truly believe in some kind of sixth sense type thing. Call it intuition or call it psychic ability, there are too many examples of these 'co-incidences' to ignore that there might be something in it. Yesterday, for example, I was suddenly sad for reasons unknown, only to discover later on that a family member had been taken to hospital. Dorypanda has more of those 'feelings' than I do but I would not dismiss them, especially in cases of the likes of your grandma where her feelings could have saved lives.
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• Philippines
26 Feb 16
Reminded me about the day before the incident at our home. Grandma insisted to go with my mom to the province, but disaster happened before they left. I wonder, had mom commute earlier, we would have panicked and wouldn't know what to do. grandmothers had instinct no one will understand.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
26 Feb 16
Amazing, good thing that your grandma had "a feeling" that afternoon.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49274)
• United States
8 Mar 16
It's good that she went with her gut feeling or someone could have been hurt.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
26 Feb 16
Definitely an odd occurrence. I've never met anone with 'feelings' so I have no direct experience with such a phenomenon.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
I can't say that I've ever known anyone else who had such 'feelings' though my mother and I and all of my siblings occasionally have irrational urges to take certain particular actions which turn out to be the right choice later on.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
26 Feb 16
That is really wonderful feelings and your grandma is great.
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@Dena91 (15934)
• United States
26 Feb 16
You're grand mother was wise to listen to her intuitions. I believe we all need to be more alert in doing so. I believe that is one way in which God is speaking to us. Have a blessed day
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
27 Feb 16
I have heard of people with those "feelings". Not everyone trusts them but some do.. I do too
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• United States
26 Feb 16
Amazing that your grandmother had such a great gift. I love your stories Owlwings. They are always delightfully heartwarming.
@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
26 Feb 16
Wow, ya do you know if any of you has inherited this ability? I have a family branch which also had clairvoyance in the lineage. It was passed down to a distant cousin of my generation, although now it's fairly watered-down, but she can still sense ill omens just before it occurs.
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
I don't know of anyone in the family who has such clear and unusual examples of this. I would hardly call it clairvoyance or even prescience because she didn't know anything about the impending danger in any of the stories I heard. All she knew was an overwhelming motivation to take a particular action and she didn't let her reason override it.
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
26 Feb 16
@owlwings oh I see, so that is more premonition than clairvoyance. Ya that branch of my family used to be able to accurately predict deaths of people they know (so it was claimed). By the time it gets to my cousin, she can only sense something terrible is about to happen, but not what. So ya it is "watered down"
@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
27 Feb 16
I believe those kinds of things are a thing for sure!
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
27 Feb 16
???
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
27 Feb 16
@Jessicalynnt There is certainly reality - only discovered after the event.
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• Centralia, Missouri
27 Feb 16
@owlwings feelings one can't explain, knowing things before they happen, that sort of thing, undefined sixth sense of a sort
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@JudyEv (326691)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 16
Some people are very 'knowing', aren't they? In some ways, it would be a great gift but in others, not so much.
@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
26 Feb 16
Wow.she might have seen it.coming. err felt.it indeed
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
26 Feb 16
She certainly felt something though on each occasion she didn't know WHY she should do something, she just knew that she had to do it.
@Telynor (1763)
• United States
27 Feb 16
Quite a tale! I wager that she knew something was up, but not exactly what. So glad to hear that you were able to hear her 'happenings.'