I feel mentally bad

I fight, but I have no control, because it does not respect me, and I no longer know what to do.

@didinedhia He is so rude to me, he can terribly hurt me with words.

@Nevena83 you have to fight this!!!! i really hate this!! you have to control him

I have no friends, and my son has seen such bad behavior from my parents.

@KlyliePot Unfortunately .

@KlyliePot I do not know. Maybe.

@KlyliePot Yes we are surviving on hopes.

She is small and she is good, but my son is acting badly towards me and I no longer know what to do to change it.

@KlyliePot Yes, it's so sad.

@Nevena83 Puberty surely is a problem for many boys and girls. I hope it's transitory.

@LadyDuck I'm afraid he will not pass it and will become like my brother and my father.

I do not really know what's at stake anymore. Many say it's puberty and that's normal, while others say it has seen it from my parents and my brother, and he's acting like that, too.

@Nevena83 That’s a tough age for boys. Not quite a man yet, but also not a child anymore.

He's 16 years old.

@moffittjc Yes, but his behavior really hurts me.

@Nevena83 Is there someone to talk to about it?

@Hannihar No

Yes, it's very difficult, but I do not know what to do.

@Nevena83 I guess it's quite normal for boys his age to be rebelling against you. I also have a son 17 yo and there are times that its hard to understand his mood and there are times he is easy to get along with. I think its the hormones that he have in his system right now that makes him behave this way. For as long as the hurting does not go physical perhaps try to tolerate him and understand him as much as you can. Hopefully by the time he is in his twenties he would overcome this behaviour else there might be deep seated problem in your relationship as parent and child is.

@rsa101 Since his entry into puberty, his behavior has changed. It's very rude to me. I often ask him whether something is angry with me or whether he thinks I'm wrong, but he never answers, always says that he did not do anything wrong.

My son is 16 years old. Many say they are the reason for his age, but I'm afraid that such behavior will remain.

@Nevena83 You are in a difficult situation. Can the social workers or the police help?

He saw how they behave to me. And now my son is acting like that for me too.

@1hopefulman I hope that I will not have such a big problem with him, that I should call the police. And social workers in my country do not work for the benefit of the family.

@Nevena83 Do you have a man around that can take care of this?

@marguicha No, I do not have a man who could help me.

He's 16 years old.It hurts me with ugly words every day.

@Nevena83 Yes, probably it is a mix of both

@nela13 But it's terrible.

I do not know why this is. Some people say it's puberty and they will pass, while others say that he learned it from my parents. I think that's all about it.

@Nevena83 Is there some other elderly person in family or school who can be close to him and have a casual chat??

@arunima25 There is nobody anyone he could talk to.

I always do it, but he tells me that he does not do anything bad.

@Nevena83 Mostly, from dreams that never came true. I chose to keep my child despite worst circumstances, she's 15 now and it came with a lot of sacrifices and bad experiences. Failed dreams and pains and illnesses plague me now.

@yoalldudes Oh, I'm so sorry. But I can understand your pain, I feel the same.

I'm sorry you feel bad too. If it's not too intimate, what's the reason for your depression?

Yes, his behavior kills me and I no longer know what to do.

@LowRiderX Yeah, that's why it's very hard, he behaves the same as my brother and my father. I'm disappointed with that.

@Nevena83 Now it's very difficult to change the situation, it's no longer a little, now he is a teenager

He does not respect me, he tells me ugly words ...

@KlyliePot Yes, respect is very important, but he does not think so.

@KlyliePot yes

@Nevena83 You can't expect things to change if you stay there. You have to take action..Complaining without action will get you nowhere.

Yes, every day I say it to him, and one day it's ok, but in the coming days he continues on the old one.

@snowy22315 But I do not have the opportunity to get out of here.

@Nevena83 Try to put your foot down and discipline him, otherwise he's going to continue this behaviour and you don't want that.

I do not know what to do. I tried in every way, I talk to him every day, but he still behaves terribly towards me.

@Juliaacv I do not know how, because whatever I do, it does not affect him.

@Nevena83 do you think this is one of the reason there.No father figure.Just saying and too bad.

I do not know, when I ask him, he says he did not say anything bad. That is getting on my nerves. Some say it behaves because it's puberty, and some have seen it from my parents and now imitates them. I do not know where his father is, we have no contact with them for 12 years.

@amadeo I do not know, but I think my parents influenced his behavior.

@Nevena83 I can understand. Try making him.understand listen to his needs and make him understand what is right and what is wrong . You may take the help of somone elder in your family in this.

@shubhu3 I'm really trying to find a solution. No, nobody can help me, because my parents are behaving terribly towards me, he learned from them such behavior.

I do not really know what's at stake anymore. Many say it's puberty and that's normal, while others say it has seen it from my parents and my brother, and he's acting like that, too.

@Nevena83 He should respect you. Don't allow him to say ugly words. You are his mother.

I'm sorry to feel that way. And I feel very bad for days. He acts ugly toward me, hurting me with ugly words.

@dya80dya But I do not know what to do.

@Nevena83 Well, whatever the issue, I do hope you find some resolution.

The mistake is in my translation. Yes, it's a very difficult situation and I do not know how to solve it.

@KlyliePot yes, maybe.