This has to stop!

By MysD
@mysdianait (66009)
Italy
February 13, 2021 10:32am CST
It has been going on all week! It started when someone said that they must pick up some beans - and I asked them if they had fallen Then someone said that they had just had a coffee break - and someone asked if they were able to have it repaired Now I just came back from the kitchen and saw I didn't do the washing-up after lunch (because I came to myLot and forgot of course - but that's not the point). I asked myself why we call it the washing-up and not the washing-down! Do you talk to yourself?
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@LadyDuck (458549)
• Switzerland
13 Feb 21
I usually think I am talking to my husband, but as he does not listen, I suppose I often talk to myself.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
Hey wait. Does that excuse you and let off the hook?
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@LadyDuck (458549)
• Switzerland
13 Feb 21
@mysdianait I wait for an answer, I repeat my question, I repeat again... I give up!
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@paigea (35713)
• Canada
13 Feb 21
Okay, I guess I do talk to myself.
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@arunima25 (85426)
• Bangalore, India
13 Feb 21
A lot of time. Good to know that I am not alone in having those weird thoughts
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
Oh that is so reassuring!
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@arunima25 (85426)
• Bangalore, India
13 Feb 21
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
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@May2k8 (18092)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 21
I spoke to the grass in the backyard that was rocking.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
13 Feb 21
I often talk to trees. They are usually friendly people, though they rarely answer.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
@owlwings Do you hug the trees too?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
that might explain why you have mice and ants. Probably there is a rumour going round that someone is talking to the grass and they came to check it out
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@vandana7 (98865)
• India
15 Feb 21
All the time. I concluded Love is the most unholy thing because people fall in love and falling hurts. Happy Valentine's day flit and fly butterfly. By the way, talking to self is supposed to be healthy. I read it somewhere.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
15 Feb 21
Oh yes that's another one. Falling in love - very apt in many cases!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
15 Feb 21
@DaddyEvil Interesting article and many reasons to continue the habit too!
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
15 Feb 21
Maybe you read this article, vanny...
https://bigthink.com/mind-brain/talking-to-yourself
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• Preston, England
14 Feb 21
I often talk to myself in my head
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
Ah not aloud? I have conversations with myself aloud quite often. Often happens when I'm ironing though I've no idea why
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
@arthurchappell Do you have a pet? My cat Chicca often wakes up from her nap when I am talking to myself. The look she gives me says it all
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• Preston, England
14 Feb 21
@mysdianait sometimes aloud for me too
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@thelme55 (76485)
• Germany
14 Feb 21
Oh, yes I talk to myself. Sometimes with my plants and things in the kitchen. I wonder why it is called washing up and not washing down for ages but have not asked someone.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
I asked myself and couldn't get an answer so I asked here too Oh I talk with my plants most days too. When I open the shutters every morning the ones on the window sill always get compliments or encouragement if they look a bit off.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
15 Feb 21
@thelme55 @mysdianait I do talk to my plants and my fish... Pretty talks to the fish, too, but if she catches me talking to the plants, she rolls her eyes and tells me I'm crazy. I don't mind. I know my plants love me, so who is the crazy person?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
15 Feb 21
@DaddyEvil Plants love be talked to! That is obvious from how they react in the following days. Maybe you should point that out to Pretty next time she tells you off
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@BarBaraPrz (45515)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
13 Feb 21
Of course! Who else do I have to talk to?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
Do you answer yourself too?
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@BarBaraPrz (45515)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Feb 21
@mysdianait Usually.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
@BarBaraPrz So you are always right in that case?
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@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 21
I do talk to myself. Some people would said that I am weird. And what is wrong with that?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
Absolutely nothing! Do you tell yourself off if you don't answer yourself back too?
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@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 21
@mysdianait Sometimes I nag at myself for not getting my work done
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@rebelann (111222)
• El Paso, Texas
14 Feb 21
Yes, but I never get into serious conversations, I hate when I argue with myself.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
I tell myself off, like when I should have done the ironing but didn't. I remind myself too, just in case I forgot, that no-one else will do it if I don't I have never got into an argument with myself yet. I guess it's because I'm always right
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@rebelann (111222)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Feb 21
My problem is that both of me think they are right @mysdianait
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
15 Feb 21
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@paigea (35713)
• Canada
13 Feb 21
My husband talks to himself because he says that is the only way he gets the right answers. I can see how the different uses of the word break could confuse new English speakers. Yesterday I used the word pulses, meaning lentils, beans, etc. My friend thought I was talking about pulses - relating to our heartbeat
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
Your poor hubby! There you go - pulses is another one
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@paigea (35713)
• Canada
13 Feb 21
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@YesWay (3674)
18 Feb 21
If I didn’t talk to myself I’d be really lonely
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
18 Feb 21
I can totally understand that! I hope you laugh with yourself too
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
18 Feb 21
@YesWay Oh good! I often have a laugh at something that I said to myself
@YesWay (3674)
18 Feb 21
@mysdianait yes don’t worry - I often make myself laugh too!
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
13 Feb 21
lol. Odd. As for talking to myself? I do it all the time.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
Do you surprise yourself with the answers you get?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
14 Feb 21
@mysdianait I mean, just saying, if I want intelligent conversation, I am usually the best guy tp have one with myself.
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@Janet357 (75656)
13 Feb 21
Thanks for the laugh
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
A laugh does you good so happy to oblige
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 21
I talk to myself and my cats every day.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 21
I'm so glad that I have Chicca or I really would be only talking to myself - and that would be cause for concern!
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 21
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@GardenGerty (157624)
• United States
17 Feb 21
I do sometimes talk to myself, and sometimes to others as well. I am not always polite to me. One reason I avoid self checkouts at the store is some of them talk, and I talk back.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
17 Feb 21
I totally avoid self checkouts as I prefe talking to a real person and not to a machine - but you have a point. If I used one I would probably get mad at it and talk aloud, telling it off!
@much2say (53954)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Feb 21
When I have been on myLot, I have discovered that I forgot about some chores too . . . um, yah, that seems to happen way too often . I do talk to myself, but I don't talk to the mirror .
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Feb 21
I talked once to myself in the mirror but Chicca was sitting on top of the washing machine which is opposite and she couldn't work that out at all Talking about chores that need doing... no I refuse to talk about them right now as I have so many notifications to catch up with - but the washing machine has finished and if I don't hang out the washing no-one else will
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Feb 21
@much2say I was free today with no errands to run and other than risotto at lunchtime and then pancakes this evening and then the washing to hang out when the washing machine ended, I was here all day. Though... now that I have written it all down I was not here ALL day at all because added to that was the washing up twice too!
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@much2say (53954)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Feb 21
@mysdianait That must be so cute. I see videos of cats and mirrors - too funny!! Right - we won't talk about chores today - I know I have too many to list and get through . . . and thus far this morning I have not done very much .
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@besweet (9861)
• Ireland
16 Feb 21
I talk to myself a lot yes. Sometimes in my head and sometimes times out loud!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Feb 21
Do you answer yourself too?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Feb 21
@besweet Just as long as you give yourself the right answer, then there's nothing wrong with that at all
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@besweet (9861)
• Ireland
16 Feb 21
@mysdianait Haha yes
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
14 Feb 21
Yes... why? Is that something bad? Sometimes, when I'm talking on myLot I start laughing hard enough that I fall out of bed. Pretty comes running in asking if I'm alright... Then she reads what I just read and falls onto my bed laughing. Then I start asking myself why I shared funny things on myLot with her... She just keeps reading.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
Of course it's not bad! Unless you are saying things aloud and unaware of who might also be within hearing distance There is so much that makes me chuckle on here - even things which weren't meant to make me laugh at all
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 21
@DaddyEvil That's really good of you to send them a message. Not sure if I would do the same, unless I knew then really well.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
14 Feb 21
@mysdianait I do understand... sometimes, someone who doesn't speak English as their first language says something that just... uhm... sets me off and I can't stop laughing. If I know them fairly well, I send them a message and explain what they said so they can correct it. If I don't, I say nothing and hope nobody else notices what I did.
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@JESSY3236 (18921)
• United States
16 Feb 21
lol I do.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Feb 21
I hope you receive good advice
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
15 Feb 21
Oh yes, I often talk to myself.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Feb 21
Do you argue with yourself too?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Feb 21
@Nevena83 No! That is the last thing you should do! There are others who do that and we are the last peole to be criticising ourselves You should be telling yourself that you are unique and that you are so lucky to be YOU!
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
16 Feb 21
@mysdianait I mostly criticize myself.
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