sanctified

@sanctified (151)

Philippines • Age 52

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sanctified liked this • 27 Feb 09

lies . . . all lies . . .

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 25 Feb 09

It hurts to know when you find someone very close to you and someone you have trusted so much has lied to you. but what if, you suspect someone is lying to you but you have no proof. Do you try to try hard to catch him/her out or...

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Rachelg This is kind of a tough one. I can relate because I have had to deal with this off and on for the past 2 years. It is hard to ignore a gut feeling. I have tried to have patience and wait for proof, but my emotions always get the best of me, and I end up...

27 Feb 09

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sanctified liked this • 20 Feb 09

women hit men......

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 6 Feb 07

in general, people say it's never appropriate for a man to hit a woman, but what if she hits him first?

marital violence

men and women

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ayou82 Well, for me hitting a man is hard because they might give you a stronger unexpected hitting. I heard if you try to hit a man, you are aggravating their egos and they will come back and hit you. It depends sometimes if they are gentle enough to carry the...

20 Feb 09

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sanctified liked this • 13 Feb 09

Friend . . . Enemy

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 12 Feb 09

Everybody needs a friend, we all could agree with that, but don't you think we also need an enemy? Well, I have attended a "How to be successful" seminar and the speaker surprisingly mentioned that we need enemy as much as we need...

enemy

friend

success

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gzlgzl123 I totally agree with you.Maybe in many times we actually need an enemy who is excellent than you in certain areas.Your enemy will stimulate you in different ways and you'll look forward to win and have to prove that you also can do it.So it's important for us...

13 Feb 09

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sanctified liked this • 13 Feb 09

Is whistling a proper way to call somebody's attention?

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 12 Feb 09

I don't know why but I always hit the ceiling every time somebody whistles at me to call my attention instead of calling my name or calling me "Miss" I find it deeply offending.

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rosdimy I do not see whistling as a proper way to call somebody's attention. Even if it is not meant for me I still dislike hearing it being used on other people. I think whistling is more proper for xertain animals. Human beings need to be treated with...

13 Feb 09

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sanctified liked this • 26 Jan 07

entertainer's critics shoul go to jail?

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 23 Jan 07

a friend from korea told me that korean authorities are planning to criminalized those who would severely critized entertainers online. news had it that one famous singer had committed suicide because of too much criticism...

entertainer

online critics

suicide

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jeepstergirl I say that "If you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen." If you're going to be in the limelight, you have to realize that you're not going to be able to please everyone all of the time. If someone is going to commit suicide just because a minority of...

26 Jan 07

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sanctified liked this • 8 Jan 07

changing careers

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 19 Dec 06

it's probably one of the hardest decisions you can make. Changing careers could make or break your future. it's either opening the door to a better opportunities and much better life or lead you back to another cycle of...

career

career change

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Bunny2 I gave up my career as a medical researcher to raise my boys. I took up another career - as a romance writer when I was over 40. I am now back in medical research part time, but my domestic engineer duties and romance writing are my passion.

8 Jan 07

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sanctified liked this • 8 Jan 07

changing careers

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 19 Dec 06

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jeepstergirl I'm not sure there is ever a "best time." It's something that you just have to do... take a leap of faith. It's scary, but if you spend your whole life waiting for just the right time, then it may never come. Good luck!

8 Jan 07

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sanctified liked this • 2 Jan 07

guilty of not giving to beggars

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 28 Dec 06

do you always give to beggars? do you feel guilty when you give beggars nothing? I do, but i have read fom somewhere that beggars are using emotional blackmail. what do you think?

beggars

begging

giving to beggars

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Bunny2 I only give to people who are obviously collecting for an organization like the Salvation Army, Fire Fighters or the Ambulance. So many beggars are just scammers and I refuse to be sucked in. Of course there might be gebuine cases out there but I hope they...

2 Jan 07

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sanctified liked this • 29 Dec 06

vanity... what are you willing to sacrifice to look good?

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 29 Dec 06

people seems to be getting more vain than ever. we would do anything and everything to look good, sometimes to the point of harming ourselves.

beauty

look good

vanity

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alecsing Maybe this is the case. People nowadays do do anything they can to look good. From plastic surgery to liposuction, just anything. I think that people should just try to be themselves. That is the only key to look good. If you feel that you look good, then...

29 Dec 06

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sanctified liked this • 28 Dec 06

what is worse?

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 20 Dec 06

what is worse marrying young or marrying late? what would be the advantages and disadvantages?

married

marrying late

marrying young

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sapna1 no if you are financial strong and capable to handle your's family responsibilities and give love and care to you wife than there is no harm to married in younger age but if you are almost dependent on your parents then first stand and make urself financialy...

28 Dec 06

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sanctified liked this • 28 Dec 06

is it possible?

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 26 Dec 06

is it possible to love one person for the rest of your life? i since i don't think emotion could be trusted, well because it's always changing, i wonder why people get married knowing the fact that the feeling would...

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not4me My husband and I have been married for 6 years and have been together for 8. I was very picky while dating in my early 20's so I could learn what I wanted in a man and I found him. We have lots in common and I was right about him being a great daddy. We are...

28 Dec 06

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sanctified liked this • 28 Dec 06

is it possible?

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 26 Dec 06

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melody1011 yes it is possible to love one person for the rest of your life. But that love should grow and mature along with you for you to remain in love. You cannot expect puppy love after you are married for over 10 years. However you can expect a love that you can...

28 Dec 06

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sanctified liked this • 27 Dec 06

worry over what other think about you?

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 27 Dec 06

are you always worried about what other people think about you? why do you think most people do?

opinion

worry

worry over what other think about

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jeepstergirl I used to, and then I came to the realization that all that time spent worrying was silly, because the people that I'm worried about are busy worring about what I think of THEM! lol. It's a vicious circle. Everyone is self-involved, whether they want to admit...

27 Dec 06

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sanctified liked this • 25 Dec 06

principle

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 21 Dec 06

would you compromise your principle to save your life or your love one?

compromise

principle

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clavinee In my own perspective, sticking to the principles I've learned helped me live the right way and make critical decisions in times of distress. I speak for myself, having principles in life means having the mind of Christ. But I think if the lives of people I...

25 Dec 06

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sanctified liked this • 21 Dec 06

principle

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 21 Dec 06

would you compromise your principle to save your life or your love one?

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suniljoseph as far as i am concerned, my principles are very important. i have only one principle, not to do something that would cause me shame in front of my mother. so according to my principle if i dont do anything to save a life, however small, be it human or...

21 Dec 06

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sanctified liked this • 21 Dec 06

principle

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 21 Dec 06

would you compromise your principle to save your life or your love one?

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sundeepm474 I will not give more preference for the principles than the persons we loved.My first preference is for the living beings then only i will go for principles and all.Never give more preference for such a things and don't leave the persons who love's you.

21 Dec 06

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