simmer

@simmer (70)

South Africa • Age 38

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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one thing missing in life

9839014217 @9839014217 (201) • India 20 Oct 06

satisfaction

life

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simmer Care free fun!

20 Oct 06

Do You Always Know What's Causing Your Anger?

ozzieblackcat @ozzieblackcat (531) • United States 7 Oct 06

I don't. Sometimes I feel angry and it takes me a while to figure out why I'm feeling that way. Does this happen to you? Does it take you hours, days, or weeks to finally figure out what's causing

anger

cause

feeling

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simmer Yup i also get angry and have to try and figure out why!I think feelings and emotions are so complicated that it takes anyone a while to figure out what they truely want!

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ARE FEELINGS ABSOLUTE??

amitava154 @amitava154 (367) • India 5 Oct 06

if we weren't angry we wouldn't know calm, if we weren't sad we wouldn't know happy....if we didn't love we wouldn't know hate,if we didn't know madness we wouldn't know reason.......so is there no absolute feeling?? we base our...

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simmer I think all humans have those feelings to teach you lessons in life!Your personality helps you control those feelings and do the right thing!Who you are is ur existence not what you feel!What you feel is just abit on who you are?Hope that makes sense?

20 Oct 06

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When you argue with your spouse, do you go to bed angry?

busybea @busybea (930) • United States 16 Oct 06

I try not to go to bed angry with him. Even if I have to wake him to tell him I hate it when we fight.

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simmer I often go to bed angry with my bf!I feel like ppl need time to think things thru so we normally sort it out the next day!Wel try too!

20 Oct 06

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do you trust your partner?

heartonfire @heartonfire (4119) • Denmark 18 Oct 06

after some situations involving cheating,and a bad experience with my other relationships,i am having trouble trusting my boyfriend ,and that affects our relationship pretty much..do you trust

partner

relationship

trust

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simmer No unfortunately i do not trust my bf either!We met thru my ex and wel sure you can figure out the rest!We are also on the rocks permanantly about our trust issues!

19 Oct 06

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WAT IS lol

kapil_chetri @kapil_chetri (540) • India 19 Oct 06

plz help me

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simmer It means laugh out loud!

19 Oct 06

When will Africa be save from Hunger?

mightygab @mightygab (86) • Nigeria 9 Oct 06

When will Africa be save from Hunger? If you have ever visited africa before, you will know the number of children dying of hunger. When will...

africa

children

hunger

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simmer What part of Africa are you talkin about?I am from South Africa and im sure not starving!

19 Oct 06

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Do you care about what people think about you?

bayboy @bayboy (986) • United States 19 Oct 06

Dont bother me one bit, how about you?

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simmer Im also guilty!I worry all the time about what ppl think of me!

19 Oct 06

How to REJECT a girl..

hawick @hawick (645) • Singapore 18 Oct 06

your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?

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simmer Just be honest and say it out right!Im sure she would want to know!Just tell her you are only interested in being friends and then do not flirt with her and led her on!Otherwise she will think that you are interested!

19 Oct 06

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Soul mate?

dixielol @dixielol (1579) • United States 15 Oct 06

Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not? Have you meet your yet? How do you/did you know?

soulmates

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simmer yes i believe every1 has a soulmate!i think you will know when you meet your soulmate!you will get signs or a feeling!

19 Oct 06

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Do you get lonely?

juls2me2 @juls2me2 (2150) • United States 10 Oct 06

what do you do to get rid of that feeling?

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simmer If you ever find that out let me know!I cant stand this constant feeling like im a nobody!Even my own friends seem to never be around wen i need em!

18 Oct 06

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do u both love & hate something?

tvnaresh @tvnaresh (1581) • India 16 Oct 06

my girl friend...:)

fun

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simmer yes i feel the same!I can love my bf so much sumtims but then i can hate him as wel!I think its more along the lines wen they try to control u and tel u wat to do.Thats wen u start to hate em!

16 Oct 06

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What can you do if your boyfriend has fell in love with your girl friend?

rockgurley @rockgurley (10) 4 Sep 06

I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU,DO YOU FIND IT EASIER TO ACCEPT IT AND SAY NOTHING AFTER your GIRLFREND BROKE UP WITH YOU JUST TO BE WITH

what can you do if your boyfriend fell inlove with

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simmer i hav been in ur situation and i think most of the time u can not remain friends!some things are beyond repairing!u can forgive em but u wil never forget it!I wud need to no more on ur situation tho?

16 Oct 06

Do you feel like killing yourself?

deathstruckme @deathstruckme (21) • Indonesia 29 Sep 06

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simmer Its really annoyin for sum1 to comment on something they dont understan!Counsilin doesnt help!I hav tried to kill myself a few times with no luck!It feels like u empty inside an u hav no way out until u are dead!Nothin makes the feeling go away!Death is...

11 Oct 06

How much control is too much?

HerShe @HerShe (2383) • Canada 16 Sep 06

To what extent should a person's partner have control over their life?

control

partners

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simmer Wel said no person has the right to control u!U are who u are if they dont like it they should leave!controllin someone gives them low self esteem and breaks up their personality!

11 Oct 06

Love triangle anyone??

pterion @pterion (417) • India 2 Oct 06

how often have u ended up in a love triangle..whre the girl u love loves someone else or wen u fancied someone else wen thre was another female losing her sleep...

love

love triangle

relationships

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simmer Im in that situation at the moment!Love my bf but hav stong feelings for the other guy!Hav tried to stop all contact but isnt working well!Keep gettin signs that remind me of him or i see him!Seems like everyday im reminded of him!Wat to do about that?

11 Oct 06

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What do you think about double standards in relationships?

SunnyDays @SunnyDays (1070) • Bahamas 3 Oct 06

IMO its mostly men who have them ..He can do this and that but the wife can't and I can't stand them

different judgement

double standards

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simmer yup i get that too!Im not married but having a full on fight coz my bf thinks he owns me!He tells me who to speak to and how to do my job u name it!NO MORE!!!I wont accept it!I am who i am u dnt like it u can bugger off!

11 Oct 06

Tarot Readings

Lillith @Lillith (774) • United States 21 Sep 06

I am not sure if this is allowed or not, but here goes. I am a professional tarot reader and I would like to offer anyone who is interested a one card yes or no reading. You ask

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simmer will i stay faithfull to my bf or wil i cheat with his friend?

10 Oct 06

Religion VS Relationships

charlesming @charlesming (1865) • Singapore 8 Oct 06

Has anyone lost a partner due to religion? Say, you or your partner got into a new religion and the relationship is ruined cause the...

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simmer No but i hav a friend who wont budge on his religion with the girls he meets!Needless to say hes 27 and still very single!u need to respect ur partner and who they are!Not change them to meet ur needs!

10 Oct 06

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