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somegirlonline @somegirlonline (10) 19 Mar 11

It seems a lot of people come on line to ask for advice about their relationships. When all it really takes is to sometimes take a step back and look at things objectively. I find it helps to create distance in order to do this....

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somegirlonline Good point. A lot of people don't think for themselves as much as they should. Perhaps this is going to digress into a slightly more abstract topic. Are people more comfortable being told what they should do, than deciding what to do for themselves?

19 Mar 11

devijay78 @devijay78 (1573) • India 19 Mar 11

The time I spend on the computer clicking ads and being active on mylot is the only time I have for myself. The rest is used for household chores, cooking, dropping and picking up my daughter from school, taking care of her,...

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somegirlonline Firstly, thanks for the welcome devijay. Secondly, do you have any friends or family who could maybe help you out once in a while so that you can relax once in a while? It is important, for your own sanity at least just to have some time to be you. I...

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macayadann @macayadann (1235) • Philippines 15 Mar 11

It is hard to explain your side once you punish your kids because now their views are so far from us, but I do hear them as they explain. I am conservative when dealing to them and sad that often times they don't understand my...

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somegirlonline If they're round at your place at least you know where they are...

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macayadann @macayadann (1235) • Philippines 15 Mar 11

It is hard to explain your side once you punish your kids because now their views are so far from us, but I do hear them as they explain. I am conservative when dealing to them and sad that often times they don't understand my...

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somegirlonline Also, you could get your kids to invite their friends round for a slumber party or for dinner. That way you get to know who their friends are and who they're hanging out with so you worry less. Try to get to know the parents of the friends too. Maybe invite...

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macayadann @macayadann (1235) • Philippines 15 Mar 11

It is hard to explain your side once you punish your kids because now their views are so far from us, but I do hear them as they explain. I am conservative when dealing to them and sad that often times they don't understand my...

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somegirlonline Go out.. this sounds like it may be more about teenage rebellion which is natural. Usually kids will always do exactly the opposite of what you say when they reach about 11 upwards. My suggestion is to teach them how to be safe and respect that they have their...

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macayadann @macayadann (1235) • Philippines 15 Mar 11

It is hard to explain your side once you punish your kids because now their views are so far from us, but I do hear them as they explain. I am conservative when dealing to them and sad that often times they don't understand my...

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somegirlonline Firstly it depends on why the punishment was administered. Did your punishment teach them what they did was wrong. In which case chalk it down to a learning experience. By all means give them a cuddle. But don't say sorry for the punishment. You probably feel...

19 Mar 11

somegirlonline @somegirlonline (10) 19 Mar 11

It seems a lot of people come on line to ask for advice about their relationships. When all it really takes is to sometimes take a step back and look at things objectively. I find it helps to create distance in order to do this....

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devijay78 @devijay78 (1573) • India 19 Mar 11

The time I spend on the computer clicking ads and being active on mylot is the only time I have for myself. The rest is used for household chores, cooking, dropping and picking up my daughter from school, taking care of her,...

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somegirlonline Also if your husband was at work all day and you were at home. Your husband would expect you to look after the kids and do the household chores. Does he at least cook you a meal once in a while? A relationship should have some give and take and co-operation....

19 Mar 11

devijay78 @devijay78 (1573) • India 19 Mar 11

The time I spend on the computer clicking ads and being active on mylot is the only time I have for myself. The rest is used for household chores, cooking, dropping and picking up my daughter from school, taking care of her,...

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somegirlonline Well, what time do you wake up in the morning? I know it's tiring having kids from what people have told me and that people usually HATE to get up in the morning unless they have to but if you make an effort to get up a little earlier start maybe with 5...

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