chants, candles, prayers, positive vibes needed please!!!  

Thank you so much, her mum is an absolute basketcase understandably...I was on the phone with her last night until midnight and she is a mess....i'm right behind her too..this girl is my girlie ya knwo, she's like one of my own kids...

thank you TeresaK I appreciate it so much!!

Keep us posted,and know that we're here for you!!

Yes let us Know!

Thank you Darkwing truly...and I hope you are right and with any help from MyLottians, together we can get her home safely and into care...I'll be devasted if something bad happens to her and it'll kill her mother....

thank you again

Yes, I'm sure it would. So, let's work hard at this, so that she gets home safely. I'm sure if she was depressed, she's just wandered off to get her head together .. I sure hope so. xx

thanks Zuk....turns out she is NOT (according to them) with those crack dealers but I was doin some deep thinking and gut feeling about this other chick that hangs with my neice and there is something that isnt right...I think this girl KNOWS where my niece is...there is something that just isnt sitting right with me about that one and I'm usually pretty on the money with stuff like that...

I talked to her mum again late last night..still no word and she is just exhausted so I verbally sent her to bed and told her not to concern herself with the behaviours and attitudes of certain ppl there (like her daughters father and my idiot brother) and their lack of compassion etc..I asked her if she wanted me to come across to canada to be with her but she said no that being just a phone call away is doing wonders for her etc....but I feel so helpless ya know...this girl is my girlie too like I mentioned before, she's like one of my own kids...I know its not a kidnapping type thing which would be even more hellish but still not knwoing where the hell she is and WHO shes with, what they are conning her into etc whether or not she is safe and so on is really painful...and knowing that her mom feels so alone over there (even though there are ppl around her which is actually even worse than if she was literally alone ya know) its just killing me...

When this is over, I know I'll just crack....I'm trying to keep it together for my gf ya know...I have to be the voice of reason, the strength etc but when that girl is back home I'm gonna collapse I just know it...

Ugh...I'm babbling again..sorry....anyway thanks again Zukepr (and everyone else)....

Dont you dare apologize to me! LOL
Babble away if it makes you feel better.
I dont mind and I will listen for as long as you need me to.
I am here for ya hon!
Blessed be!

thank you so much everyone..and thats from her mum too btw...

still nothing...havent heard from her BUT we have an idea of where she MIGHT be which isnt a good scene (bad a$$ kids with crackdealer parents)...HOPEFULLY once these so called parents catch wind that the cops are involved they'll send her on her way and she'll get picked up....Other than that we're at a loss...I've run out of former contacts back home to get ahold of but I've gotten in touch with who I coudl and put the word out so thats SOMETHING at least...

Her mum is such a mess and I'm doin my best to hold it together for her (she's pretty mcuh on her own in this...my brother is useless and her ex/Krissys dad is right up there with my brother)....I'm trying to keep it cool and be positive but man once that girl is found I WILL crack....this put me back to when I was that age and my brother, mother etc didnt care that I was on the street doin what i had to do and all the feelings that came wiht that life..so this is really doin a number on me...and I cant even begin to imagine what its doin to my gf...

sorry...yappy..

thank you all so very very much....

not a problem - yap away - sometimes it helps just to rant on for a bit until you wind down a little.

Thanks susan....still no word and we are on day 5...she was SUPPOSEDLY seen on Friday night in the next city over but we dont know for sure or nor if its true....We think that some of the kids are fully aware of where she is but like teens tend to do they are sticking together HOWEVER some of the kids are being as helpful as possible but still there is no word on where she is....thing is though, she left without her purse, she has no I.D, no money and jsut the clothes on her back....