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myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs 5 years ago

I have had a new female chihuahua "Honey" for exactly 2 weeks today and I am really wondering what kind of life she has had. She is about 1 year old honey colored and very scared and skittish. She has (thank heavens) made friends with my other two (Pepi and Schatzie). I am having some problems with her she was extremely obese weighing in at 11.5 lbs, is now on a diet, follows me around looking for food, but will not come to me me when I call her she acts scared as if I was going to hit her. She will come and sit by me when all is still in the house. She has NEVER been outside!! She was scared of the wind, would not walk on the grass and does not do her business outside! Supposed to be paper/puppy mat trained..NOT! My other two spend all day peeing on top of each other's pee so I thought if I put her outside with them she would do the same..NOT. So please HELP me housebreak her any tips would be appreciated. I have never had any problems before and I have had many, many dogs.


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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. CheekyHeD3viL (127)   ranked 1,603 out of 7,858 in dogs   5 years ago

oh dear, sounds like this little dog has been miss used!
such a shame for that to happen, especially if ur intentions are to give this dog a new life!

all i can suggest is that u take ur time, if its scared, treat it nice, be patient and understanding, if u were a child and got beat everytime u looked at the grass, later on would u look at it?

although its not fair on ur other two dogs, to drop wot ur doing to attend to ur new dog, but it needs to be done, spend more time with this dog, let it get to know u, and when it feels safe enough, hopefully its distant memories will become a blur!

sorry if its not much help! but this is through personal experience


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Thank you for your help

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   5 years ago

I really dont know much about dogs. But I always thought that those kind of dogs are scared of everything anyway. I guess I could be wrong about that but that is what I always thought. I wish you great luck with the potty traning though.
GOOD LUCK!


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

How wrong you are my alpha female, she is the smallest of the three and is the absolute boss. Afraid of nobody and certainly no other dogs. She think she is a great dane so I have to keep my eye on the bossy little Prima Donna!

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. theproperator (2141)   ranked 652 out of 7,858 in dogs   5 years ago

Have you ever tried clicker training with your dogs? I think it is supposed to be very good for skittish dogs because it is based on positive reinforcement. That helps build up their confidence and doesn't make you into a "bad guy" because you punish them. I think Karen Pryor is the name of the author. The book I used was called "Clicker Training for Dogs" and I think she has some othersr, too, it has been out for several years, so you could probably get it at the library or used on Amazon.

Good Luck.


myLot reputation of 89/100. CheekyHeD3viL (127)   ranked 1,603 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

now that sounds like a positive plan to enforce apon. good idea


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

I thought a knew a lot about animals but I had never hear of that so I checked it out and have ordered a clicker. Now I am going to watch training video. Thanks so much. Hope it works.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 125 out of 7,858 in dogs   5 years ago

Well I am so glad Honey has found a good home with you! Was she a rescue dog? It really does sound as though she may have been badly treated in the past - I have known other people who have had dogs with similar problems and I think in most cases with a bit of love and patience they settle down! I'm sorry I have no real advice for you as I have never experienced this problem myself but I do hope that you have success with training Honey and making her feel safe and secure! Happy days ahead! xxx


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Actually is a sad story. Her owner is a 32 year old female (a friend, of a friend of a friend) who has terminal cancer and is in a hospice and little Honey has been shuffled around from place to place, kept crated, given large bowls of food and a Water Dispenser nothing else doesn't seem to have had any love or caring for sometime.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 125 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

That is a really sad story - it makes you feel for her former owner and realise the impact that such a tragic event has on pets! t does explain a lot of the problems she seems to be suffering with - espescially for a breed of dog that thrives on attention and tlc ( I know they all do but chihuahuas seem to need it more!) I am sure as time passes and you show her the love and attention she needs she will become more confident and easier to train! I know you will make her feel loved and secure! xxx


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Thank you Mummymo it does give me a better understanding of what she has experienced and perhaps she was afraid of me thinking she was going to be caged again.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 125 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

No need to thank me my friend! Yep I agree with you - either that or that she will be moved on! It does explain a lot! She has went to the right place now to be well looked after and loved - I wish you both many years of happy companionship together! xxxx


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Thank you I hope so.


myLot reputation of 95/100. gabs8513 (23375)   ranked 9 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

That is so sad the ppor Darling well I know she will find it with you


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Thank you gabs and mummymo

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. sumofalltears (2673)   5 years ago

I don't have dogs because they are so hard to train. Having taken an older dog you don't really know what kind of previous training they have had. The only thing I can suggest is maybe give her a separate area to do her business. If she has been mistreated you are going to have a hard time gaining her confidence totally. Dogs have a long memory when it comes to being mistreated.


myLot reputation of 89/100. CheekyHeD3viL (127)   ranked 1,603 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

there really not that had to train, as long as you know what u want from the dog, and your confident, it will sense this from u, and obey!! practise makes perfect

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6. myLot reputation of 92/100. Signal20 (1823)   ranked 1,157 out of 7,858 in dogs   5 years ago

Just going to take patience, persistance, & preserverance on your part. Take her outside a few times a day. Put her on a leash, and just start out by walking her around the yard for a minute or two at a time, then slowly increasing it. Give her a treat afterwards as well and praise the heck out of her saying good girl you went outside. That should help her know what "outside" is and she gets rewarded for going out there. If you can get her paper trained inside, eventually move that outside for her to potty on. But I'd still keep taking her outside so she gets used to walking on the grass and just being outside. Poor thing, good luck with her!


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Good ideas, thank you.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. tdbrower1969 (1064)   ranked 1,774 out of 7,858 in dogs   5 years ago

I know that it is hard, but it will just take some time and some patience I think. We adopted a daschund from the pound and did not know anything about his background. He was very skittish and very defensive when we first brought him home. He still, even after a year, has a big problem with people putting their hands near his neck. I think that he was abused, but do not know for sure. We just let him follow our other daschund around, and it took a while but finally he began eating(he was very thin) and he began to use the bathroom outside. He is a wonderful dog now, and I am glad that I saved him, he was going to be put to sleep the day I adopted him. We still have some control issues, he still seems to think he can go out of the yard and into the street, but we are working on it.


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

I am so glad he found someone like you to love him and give him a good home. This little one is way over weight I don't thin she had any excercise but has been beginning to move around a bit.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. Lakota12 (23197)   ranked 240 out of 7,858 in dogs   5 years ago

I am afraid you are in for a long hard time of of being patient with her. Try a kitty litter box see if that help she had to go somewhere before and some times small dogs like kitty boxes. Hope this helps.
And just be patient with her she should come around after while hoping for you.


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Thanks Lakota, you are such a good friend


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lakota12 (23197)   ranked 240 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

your welcome and thanks! hugs

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. gabs8513 (23375)   ranked 9 out of 7,858 in dogs   5 years ago

Hmmmmmmmmmm that is a bit strange has she come from a bad home
All I can suggest is that you ease her outside by taking her on the Lead and walk her round
I hope you will get the poor thing sorted


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Gabs I just found out yesterday what she has been going through. See my comment to mummymo's response. Thanks for caring. Hope you are feeling better today. xxx

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. jennybianca (7229)   ranked 21 out of 7,858 in dogs   5 years ago

The poor thing. It appears as though she has been abused, as it's the only way I can account for her behaviour.
I really can't think of much to help in this case, except time. tIme & patience. She will beed a lot of confidence building. When she has this confidence she will do her wees & poos in the right place. Is she just scared of being with a new family? It sounds more than that thought.
I once had a very nervous cat, that I ended up taking to an animal specialist, & that helped a bit.
Sometimes, if the problem is extreme, the vet may put a very nervous pet on tranquilisers for a litrtle while. Just enough time to help get her confidence back, & teaching her where to do her business.

When she is confident enough to have her photo taken, I wouldn't mind seeing it.


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Jenny I have just posted some comments of what she has been through as I got some info on her yesterday. Wonder of wonders i got her to go outside into my yard yesterday afternoon. I am so please . Here is a photo I took of her.
Photo: Honey being brave



myLot reputation of 98/100. jennybianca (7229)   ranked 21 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

I rated your very cute photo & wrote a comment. Now I will look for your discussion about her, as the notification hasn't come through yet.


myLot reputation of 98/100. jennybianca (7229)   ranked 21 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Ohh, I think your mean your reply to Mommymo above.
I misuderstood & was looking for a discussion. It's getting late!


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15570)   ranked 320 out of 7,858 in dogs  5 years ago

Honey and I both thank you for the comment..Good Night!

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