I thought i was going to dinner with my guy friend 2day but i thought wrong.

oh worldwise trust me i have a heart.HE called me bright and early this morning and made thease plans dear.I wouldnt be so upset if i didnt get dressed up and everything.He showed up to just sit around not go out.

The girl should be thankful that she got a good man. She better chill out and be good to him before he go and keep going. Who said that? Somebody is typing under my name, LOL, just kidding.

A good man!?He is not my Man.

Hahaha Rosie you are so crazy! It is funny, but It's not funny, I would be mad too, I think you would too, wouldn't you?

he aint my man but he can keep trucking elsewhere.cant pay for dinner so i know he cant pay my bills.

I talked to him and his excuse was he did not have any money.Now he should have called me before it was time to go out so i would not have gotten all dressed up for nothing.that was silly

I will clear this up.He is not my man.He is simply a friend that is trying to holla at me.Anyways why he forget something that he planned this morning.When i just talked to him he said he doesnt have the money.He should have told me hours before.Im sitting around thinking i have plans but anyhow i did talk to him but he is gone home.

I am a little confused, if he is not your man, then why would you be so upset. I would have wrote him off when I opened the door and saw him dressed like that.
If he is playing games like that, you don't need him. When he asked you out, knowing he had no money, was he expecting you to pay. If he was, then he is just too funny. I try to keep up, but I don't think I am THAT liberated.

i was upset for the simple fact i got all dressed up to sit around the house. true friends dont do this type of thing to each other if you feel me.i dont know what he was thinking because he set the date up this morning and now he is saying he has no money.I dont know what is going through his head but i dont have time for it and then he wonders why he's not my man.

He is telling you by his actions that he does not have what it takes, not even to be a good friend. A good friend of mine has an ex whom she talks to on a regular basis. She claims that he became her ex because of his lies.
He just tells her all kind of crazy stories and wild dreams that he thinks up and she sits there and entertains that crap. I have met him a couple of times and he is one of those people that you can feel the scum from all under your skin.
I can not even be polite to him and pretend that I like him. If he comes over while I am at her apartment, I leave. The first time I met him, I told her right in his face that she should have left the trash outside. Girl, he was ready to fight me for that.
I will be 38 years old next week and I am not ashamed to say that I am single by choice. I want God to work on me until I am ready for the right man. I am tired of all these jerks trying to run some kind of game on me. Life is too short for me to waste my time on that kind of crap.
Girl, I could tell you all day long about the kind of men that I have come across in my life time. When I was fifteen, I met a guy who was twenty-five. Yes, I was young and dumb and full of you know what. But, I learned a lot from him and because of him.
He use to take me around his buddies and they would just talk over me, like the kid that I was, but honey, I listened to everything. I have come to one conclusion in my life, if God don't send him, I don't want him. I don't care how lonely I get. It is not worth it to me to be crying and boo hooing over no loser. There is not a man on this earth who is worth my sanity.

AMEN sista!!!!I know that is exactly why he isn't my Man and he is about to loose my friendship.I was in a ten year relationship and then i dated a guy for a year that did not work out so now im single by choice also.I feel the same as you when the GOOD LORD bring him then i will know.

oh and i'll be sure to send you a birthday shout out next week!! which day is it?

My birthday is Thursday on the nineth of August. I have not even thought of anything special to do yet.

Are there any gospel plays coming to your area?Maybe go to one of them.

Friends don't do this to friends! All he accomplished is to tie up your evening and prevent you from making any other plans that you may otherwise have had.

nope. i talked to him and he said he doesnt have the money.SO why in the world did he sat the date up this morning if he knew he didnt have the money.that is crazy.then he wonders why he is not my MAN.HE knew he didnt have the money from jumpstart.He could have played it off and called me way before it was time to go out and told me that.so i wouldnt got all jiggy.

yes he is crazy! i agree that... if he dont have money then why he didnt call you to cancell the date?!!! he just make you all dressed up and then he will come in your house and pretend that he doesnt know what he did?!!
WHAT A MAN! good you didnt let him in lol

I know,exactly.

LOL you r funny!! I didnt let him in but his excuse was he didnt have any money.What in da world is that?please!!

he took the cake this time though.i need a break from him anyway.last minute stuff im not with.

You should go out on the town alone and have fun!

you sure got that right!!

Thanks for feeling me camrod.He tried to come in and chill but i did not let that happen. i dont think he can even pay my internet bill.I have three kids.i can't get with that.

no thats alright. he knew what the plans were.
and by the way welcome to mylot:)

Oh no i couldnt let him in.I answered my phone and fussed his butt out. he was saying he didnt have any money at the last minute.I cant see myself being his Lady.

So why did he ask you out if he didn't have any money in the first place?

Time to move on my friend LOL

cause he crazy as hell

hahaha

Oh TRUST me i let him sat out there.I think he called my phone over 50 times before i picked up.HAhaha but i dont even want to waste my time trying to train him.

I'm actually speechless over this one.His momma should have taught him better.