Where Have All of Them Gone ?

Thiruvananthapuram, India
August 31, 2007 11:21am CST
It's been quite a wonder to me wherein many of my friends on myLot are not seen around logging in . Are all the pals otherwise engaged or are they fed up with this forum ? I would sincerely advice all of those myLoters and keep things alive . It is time they realize that this is the only genuine site for socializing at its best !
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27 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
Yeah your right I'm wondering too I just saw many new one here and few from old members. It seems there are been fed up about whats going on here, like the payments just what happened to me yesterday and today my number of post and my earnings are been decreasing for almost .10 cents and I must way to my payout this month. I know most of the members are tried of doing, me I just don't want to quit because I do like to bond with my friends here but sometimes I got bored too.
@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
31 Aug 07
You have a point. This website is a good place to meet people and make some friends.
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• United States
31 Aug 07
Present and accounted for. I'm missing a lot of friends lately too. Probably outside enjoying the last of summer days while their kids are in school this afternoon, lol.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
31 Aug 07
I can just guess but some may have been kicked out and then getting kids ready for school has slowed down the posting in here too Keep them in freinds list and just take on more and put notify on so you know when they post something ok? ok!
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@Fishmomma (11658)
• United States
31 Aug 07
Many of my friends are very busy during the summer, so aren't logging in now. Its harder to post when there are less topics to view. This summer is really going fast for me; however, today is going to be a long day because of our record temperatures. Have a great weekend.
@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
31 Aug 07
I've noticed the same thing happening. A lot of people have seemed to just vanish on us. I think a lot of the people here go to school, so that is taking up their time right now. Others have had to leave probably because of personal problems. But you are right...this is an awesome site, and I for one intend to stay.
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@patgalca (18481)
• Orangeville, Ontario
31 Aug 07
Yes, I am missing a lot of my friends. I know people are getting fed up with the decreasing pay rates here; I know I am. But I am still drawn to this community. Another explanation is the summer season. People are away on vacation. Others have kids home and don't have time to go on the computer as much. As someone else said, those that didn't have jobs may now be working and have less time to post here. Hopefully we will see some of them return after the summer. I miss some of their great conversations because, frankly, the discussion quality has decreased since they have left.
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@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
4 Sep 07
hey s794, I've notice alot of the regulars have fallen away too.??? I guess for everyone that falls away there are 5+ more to take their place so let's keep posting & making $$$ even if it is spordical LOL +'s |:)
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
3 Sep 07
For me, I have too many other activities going on right now. So, I can't be as active on this site. But I will usually check out your posts because they are engaging and interesting.
@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
7 Oct 07
I love it here at MyLot and love all of my friends. I know that others have went to other sites but they always come back to here. I also have joined some other the other sites with my friends just because they are there and that makes them fun but my heart is here at MyLot.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
4 Sep 07
Still here sukumar, just been really busy with visitors and getting my son ready for school. Once he starts i will have a bit more free time to respond to the many discussions I have missed and hopefully to make the minimum payout which is coming up very soon.
@lani0529 (1720)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
Hello sukumar!(",) I also noticed that my friends are somewhat inactive here so I also started a discussion like yours. I did get alot of explanation and if you want to know more about it, you can check out my discussions. Others were now busy with their own jobs and logging in less often while others were caught up feeling that it's not worth it. I can say that they are not interested anymore while others are taking their vacations. So don't worry, some of your friends are coming up. Well, if you asked me how long will I stay here? The answer is, until there is mylot, I will be around. Great day and God bless!(",)
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
3 Sep 07
I am also wondering about this. I have many first friends who invited me, but I don't see them around. I am wondering maybe they are just busy with their work leaving them no time to surf online. Or maybe they have something else more important to do. Anyway I am happy that I can spare some time to be on mylot every day to interact with my friends to exchange ideas.
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
well i had been feeling that way either..i really feel like my friends had been quiet and i'm not getting e-mails of new discussion started wherein my inbox was used to be full..now i just got like 16-20 post in my inbox..where are all friends gone..no matter how many sites i had been introduced to i never left this site because i know this site had never failed me..they always pay on time and i had enjoyed my stay in here so much
@brendalee (6082)
• United States
2 Sep 07
A lot of bad things went on here and I got tired of it. I found another place that I like better. But I do try to check back in here at least once a week. As much as this place makes me mad, I could never leave it.
@Eskimo (2315)
1 Sep 07
There was a mass exodus of members at the begining of August, all going over to Yuwie, which is not quite the same as MyLot, but seems to be less restrictive. Most seem to spend much more time over there than here now, so that could be why you don't see so many of your friends. It pays as well, and membership there has expanded quite dramatically in the last month. If you want to try it to see if it is suitable for you then I can give you a referral link (or some other MyLot member could give you a link). There are 10 levels of referral there (Unlike Mylot which only has 1), so it is possible that you could earn quite a lot in referral bonuses.
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
2 Sep 07
do you know that only 10% of all my mylot friends are active answering discussions and posting discussions? yes, most of my early friends from the time is started december 2006 have just simply went poofed! maybe, they found out that this is not their cup of tea or simply they are not as addictive as we are in the net, they have a life!these happpens also in real life with friends but they are just there, hanging out.buzz them and they will answer.
@derek_a (10873)
1 Sep 07
Yes, I have noticed that it has gone rather quiet recently. It could be seasonal as I read once that Internet activity does slow down towards late August, something to do with vacations..
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
3 Sep 07
I was gone for a few days...I got busy with other things, moving things around, putting decorations up that have been in boxes, looking for a job, searching for a school...surfing the net...watching in wonder as my baby practices his motor skills, crawling and standing and walking - holding onto things.... Hope this conversation finds you well...
• India
1 Sep 07
Hi friend i still here in mylot, but in recent times i find less time to come here.Of all my friends around 125 (only a handful) only 10 to 15 members are active here. The rest havenot turned here for more than a month. But everyday i first check my friends list, in a ambitious manner,to see those who have come again after a lay off,and has the posts made by them has increased or not. But only disappointment remains for me.