Am I sending out vibes?  

You go girl, its nice to have someone flirting with you, even if you don't know it until your son told you. You must be looking hot for an older gal. Its been so long since someone flirted with me, I probably wouldn't know it neither. hehe.

Raydene, it is all how you look at it. You are attractive because you feel good and you like yourself. Of course people enjoy being with you, and talking to you. The other thing is, you have a knack for really listening to them. You probably give eye contact,and when you are talking you do not just keep waiting for a chance to jump in with "your" part, you listen to their part of the conversation. You are making them feel good, and important. Do not change! Do not feel bad! They are just confirming that you are a really nice person.

Lol, I don't know how old is your son. I think he is kind of suspicious about the true nature of the guys you're talking to. You can line up 10 guys in front of you and I bet...your son will tell you that all of them are flirting with you.

There's really nothing wrong with flirting for as long as we know where we stand. Sometimes, when I'm talking to my best guy friend, he will tell me that I'm flirting with him. I was taken aback since it wasn't my intention to do so.

I think there's some part of each one of us who's giving out those vibes without our knowing. You are now a free woman and have every right to do as you wish.

There is no harm in flirting raydene (even if you are unaware of it), just enjoy the attention! It's good for the soul, lol!
We can give out vibes without even knowing it, and you said yourself that you feel good about yourself now, so it probably shows, and people pick up on it. You are being positive and working with the Universe girl!

I think in our modern society pheremones and afrodesiastics are very underestimated. If you talk to an animal trainer they will tell you different species dont even communicate lust or love. They just sense it in each other. I think a lot of that has been supressed by the modern world in us but we all have that gift. Also our instincts know what attracts us better then we do sometimes. Very cool story.

I can understand you feeling a bit uncomfortable with flirting now - it's never easy to get back on the horse. Just remember that you don't need to do anything you aren't 100% sure of - but you are allowed to enjoy the attention!! Go for it!

it depends on how you look at certain situations, if you feel like you are okie with that, you sohuld not change your behaviour becausse others are feelnig other wise, may be there is a good gap of years between you and your sons, that makes them see the world from different angle, if you okie, continue living same way, do not bother yourself about how people will react

You have a lot to give ma! You are a very warm, sensitive, sincere young lady, I say young because that's what you are, and flirting makes you feel younger in my eyes, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it whatsoever, it's flattery too, remember YOU are control and you can play it how you like it, I know it will be weird but go with your head, you know when you are ready, there's absolutely NO pressure, hugs, you're special and everyone else sees it too, you give off a lot of positive energy and that attracts xxx

You don't have to flirt back sweetheart , Just realize that you are beautiful and enjoy it , xx

Hi Raydene:
Nothing wrong with a little flirting. It makes you feel good, to flirt or to be flirted with. And honey your not old. Don't count yourself out. Even if you don't want a lover, there is alot to be said for companionship.