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that is what i'm afraid of. we're just in a relationship for like 5 days?? and he already want that.. that's why im confused because he's my 1st, but i really cant do it..

If you are not sure then don't do it. It's better to be safe.

5 days is too premature relationships. Don't.

Thanks.. i just need sum1 to talk 2 about this matter, because my parents doesnt know about him..

That's too heavy on my opinion. 5 days, it makes sense your parents didn't know who he is, because it's still early until you have introduce him to them. But what I want to tell you is, you don't want an unexpected pregnant happened to you, right?Besides, he is your first time, when you did pregnant, you will trap inside the circle, it's getting heavier to solve the stuff if he washes his hands off your problem, and you will need to pay the responsibility to your parents later. This is the worst scenario.

yeah, i already think about that, but he keeps on telling me that i wont get pregnant.. but of cors i know that it's not impossible. he also told me that if sumthing like that happen, he will support me, but still, i dont want to do that, i dont want to take the risk. and besides, i want him to meet my parents but he doesn't want to, at this time.. i want our relationship to be legal but he doesnt want to..

Leave him, this type will never scratch his toes in my journal.

Thank you for all your comment.. i really appreciate it.. actually im thinking of breaking up with him, i just need some opinions on this matter... thank you very mch..

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...I agree with the other posters... also there's no sense in it, you will only get hurt.. it's usually not the same for a girl as it is for a boy, it would likely be wham, bam and be over so quick your head will spin and you will be left empty and feeling a little the worse for wear/use.. especially if he then drops you and moves on to the next girl(friend) - sorry, sweetie, but he's likely a cad. Five Days! How many five days can a gal go through in a life time? There's good guys out there.. If that's what you want (love) don't settle for anything less.

Thank you verrrry much.. *sigh* i really don't know what to do anymore, he can't just understnd my reason.

Follow your gut instinct my dear. Just go off to someplace where he wont be there with you. You know go off for a walk or a ride someplace, noisy or peaceful which suits you and then make a decision

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Some boys take an insurance to those virgins to make she will be hard to leave him. Then they will be up on the wind. It's not a fair healthy relationship anymore, they hit two birds with one stone.

thank you, i feel relieved.. you are right, i really don't want to do it, but he keeps on telling me to trust him, and that i don't undertsnd him. but i cant force myself to do what he wants me to do. so we end up, or rather he ends up getting mad at me...

You had made a wise decision. There are still many other men that can understand what is the meaning of respect.

thank you.. i think i already have a decision...

thanks.. really appreciate it..

he told me na pananagutan nya daw.. but i still cant...

wow!!! i laughed at ur comment, i dont know but maybe because it's true..

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i don't know whats he's assurance, but he keeps on telling me that he will not run away, and that he will support me..

Support you in what? I hope he means in your decision not to do it. You sound like a smart girl, i'll trust that you'll make the right decision.... Good luck.

break him up.. if he love you he will understand and never force u to do it.. i tell you if u give in he will just leave u.. don't be weak, there's lot of guy who is not like that.. who respect.. good luck to you..

steph your are absolutely right. I had a similar decision to make, not about sleeping with that guy whom my mother did not approve of anyways, but about some other things where he wanted to set pressure on me. He then told me there are others around who would sure follow his wishes and so I firmly said then go there and leave me alone and I broke up with that insensitive person. It was hard but the right decision.

I'm glad you made the right decision. I had a one night stand from a guy I thought I was madly in love with. I knew him since we were in the 6th grade and he used me and we now have a 16 year old daughter that he has never had a thing to do with. He had nothing more to do with me when I told him I was pregnant.