Ok guys, why do you do this?!

Tom and I have only been married since Aug and he doesn't shave every day, but I have never found hair in the sink after he does. He is very considerate in a lot of ways like that.

Thankfully, my boyfriend is so tidy he makes sure he leaves the place better than when he has found it. For sure I would be annoyed if get to have a roommate or housemate that acts like that. I think it just comes as a habit. Guys should be more considerate and learn to tidy things up.

Lol Foxy I doubt if that will ever be taking notice of lol

My husband actually shaves in the shower. It is his son that is the bathroom piglet. He shaves his head as well as his face and leaves a huge mess every time. I have gotten to the point that I won't clean up after him anymore. It is my husband's son and if he won't make the boy clean up after himself, he can clean up after him. One time, he decided to shave his head in the middle of the night. His hair had been longish, around chin length in areas. He cut it off first and just tossed it at the bathroom trash can. Some went in and some didn't. When I went in the bathroom half asleep in the morning, I thought it was a rodent and I screamed.

Are you sure your husband isn't my brother? He moved in with us temporarily (That was almost 3 years ago). He never cleans up after himself and is a total slob. We were an all female household before and never had to worry about that mess in the sink or around the toilet, now we do. The only thing he at least does is put the seat down Other then that he is a total slob and it is very annoying I know. I hope you can say something to the hubby on it. I can't to the brother, he doesn't seem to get a clue on it at all. It just goes right over his head.

I hate it when my s/o does that it just pisses me off, hair is the worse thing to clean when your cleaning b/c it likes to stick to your rag and then fall off while your wiping the sink. I made a choir list so that he would have to clean up after himself every once in awhile so i didnt have to do it all the time. He made me get rid of it, now he wants me to make it agian, but he tried to push cleaning the ferret poop up on my step-son all the time, and I told him that was unfair, and asked him if he wanted to clean the ferret poop as his permenit job, he said no, so im just going to dish them out evenly (except i get a little more since i dont work) but his hair is the grosses thing to clean up. Im glad he doesnt miss in the tolit though.

I know...grrr....my husband's the same way too!! And the worst part is when he does it soon after I've just cleaned the bathroom! It's crazy! And we always argue over this!

I am SOOO lucky that way - not saying that my husband isn't messy but he has his own bathroom! We have 3 bathrooms one for him one for me and the kids and the every one (guest) bathroom.

I feel your pain foxy! I was informed when i asked if all men have bad aim that they dont INTENTIONALLY pee on the toilet or the floor.. its actually SPLASHBACK from when the pee hits the water.. Now.. i thought about it and i guess it makes sense.. but if i was to do it mistake or not, i'd notice and wipe it off. Same with the hair.. but that's because we clean it up for them.. if it where up to them i dont think they'd care if it where cleaned up or not.. hair or pee!!

My husband uses an electric razor and then empties it into the sink when he is done shaving. He is usually pretty good when it comes to rinsing out the sink and not leaving that mess there because he knows that I will make him go back and clean it up if he doesn't do that. There are some times though when I get up after he left for work and his hair is in the sink and I hate it too. I work hard besides having my job outside the house and going to school full-time and I work hard to keep the house clean so it gets frustrating if he does do that.

dont have a problem about this. Luckily, he will just clean up his own mess!

OOOOHHHHHNH this is one of my biggest pet peaves. I can't stand taht! My husband comes home and shaves and leaves hair everywhere! UGH!!!! Then leaves it there. Which really makes me mad. Yes, I can identify with your thoughts on this.

I think this may stem from their upbringing..My son and husband doesn't leave the mess where I have to "mop the floor", but my grandsons are awful in that area..But I guess my husbands mom/dad forgot to tell him that he too, needs to wipe the sink and counter if he makes a mess from shaving..(though his excuse is he has no time..)

Oh my gosh! My husband does this ALL the time! It drives me crazy! He somehow manages to get toothpaste all over the sink too. I don't know how many times I have reminded him that I am not his mother. His mom had 3 boys, my husband is the oldest. The younger two are like 20 and 23 or somewhere around there. She still waits on them hand and foot!

What I want to know is why more men haven't answered this discussion? I usually let the bathroom go until it's so bad he'll clean it up - it's a real stresser for me and I give up sometimes and clean it. My husband's worst fault is the messes of clothes, personal belongings, bathroom, etc. I don't know how someone can "make" someone clean up after themselves, I'd love to know, other than mentioning it, asking, threatening...

My brother used to do the very same thing when we were growing up. Actually.....I think he still does. Since I do not live in the same house with him anymore it does not bother me, but I feel for the woman who ends up with him. She will either have to clean up after him or hound him until he does it himself.

lol I would be willing to bet that it is a woman writing this lol I don't know why that is that we do this but I mean at least i dont miss lol that is a positive thing i think but whenever we shave or something like that it takes time that we really don't want to spend doing it anyways and the way i see it its just gonna be the same way tomorrow so why would we want to clean it up today and then have to turn around and clean up the same mess tomorrow...when in all actuality we coudl just leave it till the end of the week and then clean it up one time...that is just my thought process...lol JHL930

You are right! There are people which think only themselves! What to say? Be patient and try to talk to him with polite way!

not all guys do tht, i know some girls tht are like tht. personaly i clean after myself i dont need some one to do it for me. i just thing tht the bathroom should be dirty, it already gets tht way why make it worst.

I do not expect another person with whom I'm sharing a room, to clean up after I'm done shaving, or would I tolerate him expecting me to clean up after his shave. I clean up the sink after the shave and whenever they see that I have cleaned up, they respond in the same manner, by cleaning up before they leave the bathroom after the shave. bourne