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myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love2 months ago

Do you feel that you love yourself? What is/re what are the special reason(s)and positive traits, which make you feel that you love yourself? We always say that we love our friends because they are very nice and trustworthy etc., but what about you? Please share your thoughts with me.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 42/100. moon317318 (344)   ranked 1,638 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

why not, ofcourse... who won't love one's own self


cool_kkin (51)   ranked 5,242 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Yaa i love myself, there is only reason behind this is she loves me.

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. coolmailraj (633)   ranked 4,536 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

A sort of yes a and a sort of no.
I am not able to get a fix on this one, but there is some thing me that tells me that I am best as I am and there is something in me that wants a total turnover of my personality.
But to say, I would rather go with "I don't love myself".

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. sunita64 (4759)   ranked 1,834 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

I feel I hate myself, actually everyone loves himself or herself most and that is where allthe problems arise. If you love yourself then comes ego, someone if does something against you then you hate that person. I feel we hate others because we love ourselves too much.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

It appears to me that your answer has some paradox in it. Ego is not loving yourself. If you cannot love yourself then you cannot love others, to fall in love with others, you should be able to fall in love with yourself. Thanks for sharing your views.


myLot reputation of 73/100. thepheonix (156)   ranked 4,440 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

hey dude first thing to say is that if you cant love yourself you cant stay with your self
you will always abuse urself for doing mistakes
the first thing you need to have is that you should love yourself because you are the only one who can give the happiness or sadness to yourself
so when always try to be happy and so love yourself at first case and then try to find love who is very much happy with himself and try to take things like ego or any such things as mistakes


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Th, Thanks for your support.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ayessa (646)   ranked 472 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

I don't think it real that we hate someone because we love ourself more. I know that we may sometimes feel hatred on ourselves specailly when we commit mistakes but its all temporary. Once we outgrew the hatred we all come to realize that we love our own self. You wouldn't be buying and wearing clothes to protect ourselves in heat and cold and to look good if not we love ourselves. Little acts that we do everyday is a proof the we all love ourselves.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Aeyssa, Thanks for your beautiful and intelligent thoughts, hope your sub-comments are read by dear sunita64.

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4. myLot reputation of 83/100. ellie333 (3324)   ranked 91 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

Absolutely 100% love myself but I couldn't have answered that a few years ago. It took a lot of years for me to totally accept me for me and love that person. I now look in the mirror and see God's created beauty but I also see a beautiful human being with a lovely caring nature who is a loyal and trusted friend, who has also been blessed with loyal and trusted friends herself. I have my health also. I'm always here for me now, not in a selfish way but I used to run around like a headless chicken trying to please others whilst not pleasing myself. Ellie:D


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

It is really heartening to know that you have started loving yourself........LOL! If you can love yourself, you can love others, I believe. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and making the discussion interesting.


cool_kkin (51)   ranked 5,242 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Yes you are right .. if u start love ur self, then after u stat love with others.

But nobody ubderstand what is love??
Any one know what is love??


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Just try fall in love with someone, you would come to know....LOL!

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5. science_vs_romance (58)   ranked 4,878 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

In my eyes everyone should love him/herself at least a little. Because everyone has something special and everyone is individual. So I'd say I'm quite satisfied with myself as well. I like my looks and my behaviour to people, I'm helpful and social. Of course there are still things that I don't like.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Thanks for sharing your positive attitude and coming out with wonderful thoughts.

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6. myLot reputation of 91/100. balasri (5776)   ranked 952 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

I love myself for my spirit i have .If one doesn't like oneself he can never expect others to like him.You have to love yourself to make that self assurance show on your face to command respect and love from others.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

It is really heartening to know that you love yourself for your spirits. I completely agree with your views. If you can love yourself, you can love others, I believe. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and making the discussion interesting.

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. SViswan (3215)   ranked 990 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

Interesting question and I'm glad you bought it up.
Just yesterday, I was talking to my husband's friend and he asked me the same question. I said 'Yes, I do'....then he said...'If you love yourself, you will never let anyone undermine your worth...whoever the person is'. And then I got thinking. Because some people (people who mean a lot to me) do affect the love I have for myself. Atleast the few moments after I hear a negative comment, I stop loving myself if it's an important person in my life (parents, sibling, husband). What the friend was trying to say is that I shouldn't do that and I think he's right. It will take me a while to get there...but I know I will. I just hadn't thought of it the way he looked at it.
Now, as to the why I love myself....I have the qualities that I consider good in other people and when I don't I cultivate it. I like that quality of mine and I love the fact that I am setting a good example to my kids (I practice what I preach). Even when I think of a negative quality in another person, I first look inside myself to judge if I have the quality myself...and then change it if I do. I do not think it's fair to point a finger at another person when you are doing the same thing yourself.


myLot reputation of 79/100. kiran1978 (1099)   ranked 202 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

happyHi SViswan, I think that is a great positive quality that you have, never judging someone else without first looking within youself. Also practice what you preach, your kids will grow up respecting you for that.


myLot reputation of 90/100. SViswan (3215)   ranked 990 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Thanks Kiran. I can see from your posts that you are a wonderful person yourself. I can see that you are genuine:)


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

SV, I am thoroughly impressed with your thoughts and line of thinking. It is really heartening to note that you set an example yourself, before preaching. Woh! it is great on your part, when you say that before pointing out finger to any other fellow, you see within yourself about that negative point. You have truly positive and brilliant attitude. Hats off to you. thumbupthumbup


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Kiran, many thanks to you too for your inputs.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

SV, I may add here that my observations about Kiran is similar to you. She is really a wonderful person.


myLot reputation of 90/100. SViswan (3215)   ranked 990 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Thank you Deepak!
lol..great minds think alike.
Talking about Kiran, I think I can give a long description of her good qualities...though we have interacted only on myLot:)
She really is a wonderful person and a great teacher and mother too!


myLot reputation of 79/100. kiran1978 (1099)   ranked 202 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

thumbupblushhappyHey guys, I am truly flattered with all the compliments you have given me. You have made my day. Don't know what I did to deserve all those kind words, thank you. I think both of you are very sweet, kind genuine friends and it's a shame we can't all catch up for a drink. So I am toasting to you with my vitual glass here, cheers to both of you for being great friends.


myLot reputation of 90/100. SViswan (3215)   ranked 990 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

lol..Kiran..thanks for the virtual toast. But I don't drink...the last time I did, I made a complete fool of myself..lol
You truly are one of the nicest people around.
Btw...how's the baby girl doing?


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Kiran, thanks for the toast, I wish it could have been in reality, but nonetheless your positive thought was just wonderful and superb, this shows that how nice and positive you are. happy

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8. myLot reputation of 100/100. faith210 (5792)   ranked 789 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

Hi deepak! Yes, I do love myself. I love so generously and forgive easily that is why I can love myself with all the imperfections I have and could forgive myself easily for the faults I have made. I love myself but I know in loving myself I can give love more to my fellowmen.
Take Care and Keep Smiling! Happy Mylotting!happy


cool_kkin (51)   ranked 5,242 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Every body wants to love him self, but you have to some reason for every thing othere wise you cant do it as you want.For love you have to love some some, it doesn't matter what she/he feels about you, but dont think any thing bad for her/him. If you really love him/her, it mean you are always behind him for support each every steps of life.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Thanks for sharing your positive attitude, I can guess that you are a loving person and you are full of love and affection. happy

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. jairgirl (730)   ranked 1,094 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

hello dpk262006,
im asking myself now if she knows i love her LOL
YES i do love myself, i always believe that there is no one who will love me till i learn how to love myself self.
it works and i am really happy knowing that i grew up knowing that i can always count on myself before i can count on others.
it gives me so much pride and self confidence knowing that no matter what happen i will not gonna judge myself and blame myself for something bad/wrong along the way.
i feel if we know how to love ourself first then everything will just follow.
if others cant accept you for who you are at least you have yourself and the fact that you love yourself will make all the difference in the world.
that's how i feel about myself and i sure love myself with a question and or doubt.
takecare!


cool_kkin (51)   ranked 5,242 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

It depends about the opinion of each other about this topic.You can love any body that you want or you like, then you realise, you are going to change thats is the love for yourself, as a reaction of your love which you start for him/her.


myLot reputation of 93/100. jairgirl (730)   ranked 1,094 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

correct me if i'm wrong but i honestly dont understand what you are trying to say as it doesnt seem to really tackle on my response.
i agree that we all have our own answer for this post that is why i am ONLY talking about MYSELF.
anyway, maybe you can explain your post more for me to get it.
i guess my IQ right now is rotten as i am tired but a clarification will be great.
takecare!


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Thanks for sharing your positive attitude and for asking yourself that do you love yourself? and for confirming the saem. I can guess that you are a loving person and you are full of love and affection and whatever you do in your life you would definitely succeed. happy


myLot reputation of 93/100. jairgirl (730)   ranked 1,094 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

thanks, i hope i do succeed in my dreams coz i dream to help animals and old people someday.
anyway, i do have great affection to all living and non-living creatures/matter in our world and i try to show my love and care the best way i know how.
appreciate the compliment though haha!
takecare!

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10. myLot reputation of 79/100. kiran1978 (1099)   ranked 202 out of 7,346 in love   2 months ago

AT this time in my life my self esteem is a bit lower then I like. But I do know that I am a good person. My positive traits, hmmmmmm, well I think the biggest thing is that I see myself as pretty caring person who has a passion for nurturing kids and giving them the best in life. Another trait that I like about myself is that I am a fighter, I will never give up in something I believe in. My friends would see me as very loyal, funny and caring too.

Now I feel like i have tickets on myself, lol. lol So tell me about your positive qualities my friend.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Yes, no doubt about it that you are a nice, caring and wonderful person and you do have some positive traits, which makes you dear and lovable amongst your friends and near and dear ones. thumbup
It is difficult for me to list my own positive traits.......LOL! Briefly, I am very caring and sensitive and I try to be humble and positive in my approach..........
Rest of the traits you can judge yourself.......after reading my posts...........LOL! happy(otherwise you would say....I am indulging in self-praise)


myLot reputation of 90/100. SViswan (3215)   ranked 990 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

lol...Deepak has so many good qualities...let's start a discussion to discuss his good qualites:)


myLot reputation of 79/100. kiran1978 (1099)   ranked 202 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

lolLol, you forgot to mention you are funny, every discussion you always crack me up. I agree with your positive qualities that you stated about yourself, from the short time I have chatted to you on here, you do seem very caring and humble. Thanks for the compliments, you will need a pin to pop my big head soon, lol. w00tlol


myLot reputation of 79/100. kiran1978 (1099)   ranked 202 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

lolHey SViswan, I am almost tempted to start a discussion on Dpk's positive qualities, he he. I think it would be interesting to see the responses, look out for it on mylot discussion board, lol.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4611)   ranked 15 out of 7,346 in love  2 months ago

Kiran and SVboth have you really made my day. (I could see your comments today only). Yes, I forgot to mention that I try to be funny and humourous and I love to make others laugh. happy
It is a great thought on your part (SV and Kiran both) to start a discussion on me...........after reading your idea, I am feeling nervous and flattered....LOL!. blush

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