How to raise twins or more?

@lynnchua (3412)
Singapore
May 26, 2008 5:41am CST
Just wonder because I have hard time with my two kids and wonder how parent of twin or more cope with their kids. Like to learn from them.
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5 responses
@MizukiZHR (611)
• China
20 Jul 08
Some people said we can raise the percentage of having twins by eating more food containing folic acid.I don't know whether it is effective but I think you can have a try.Just green vegetables are enough.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
21 Jul 08
Its Ok, I do make mistake sometime no worry.
• China
20 Jul 08
Sorry I said something wrong.
20 Jul 08
I am a twin myself, my mum raised us and my older brother who is 18 months older. She made sure we were fed at the same time and slept at the same time thus giving her time for older bro. There isnt a way to explain how you cope as every child is different. make sure you have a routine and stick to it. If you get the babies to sleep at the same time then you can have time to do various things. What exactly are you struggling with?? Is it caring for the twins, providing for them or understanding how to bring twins up??
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
21 Jul 08
I don't have twins but I have two kids and I find it difficult to handle them as they grow older. They tends to bickers and fight very often and I am thinking of gettin experience from those who have twins or more on how to handle two at the same time.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
20 Jul 08
I didn't have twins but have brothers that are twins. I thought I wanted twins until I had my second child. I had 4 babies in 6 years so almost had twins. You take one day at a time and one moment at a time as well as each situation. I got the oldest to help with the next one as much as they were able for their age. When they were little it seemed to me to be easier then when they got old enough to fight. just take one thing at time.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
21 Jul 08
Ya true I don't have twins but two kids with age close to each other and they tends to bickers and fight when they got older. Thanx for the response.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 May 08
I only have one child. I cannot have any more than that. My mom raised four girls and we did not give her a hard time but she had a hard time financially raising us. My sister has four children also and she had a hard time raising them sometimes and coping with all of their needs all at once. I guess it is just a mothers instinct to take care of more than one child at a time. I could not do it myself though.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
28 May 08
Ya, true enough. Financial problem and coping it really hard. Especially with two or more kids. I'm having a hard time doing so.
@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
Hi there! The girls in the pix are my twin daughters. It is both hard and rewarding to raise twins. Even if they look liek each other (they're identical twins), I should have different approach to them. One of them is more sensitive than the other. They have different interest, different outlook in one given scenario so I have to be balanced in terms of dealing with them. But no wonder at the end of the day, simply seeing them really makes my day. Their warm hugs and kisses erase all the emotional trauma I had in a day.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
20 Jul 08
Thanx margaux, I don't have twins but have two kids which give me headache. Just wondering how people with twins or more due with their kids.