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Could you date a person who has the complete opposite political views? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships3 months ago

For me it would have to depend on how passionate he is about being a Republican.If he passion Is politics, then I couldn't. We would argue about everything except the weather. But if he isn't that passionate and we can agree to disagree, why not?If we had at least two other things in common, it could work. What about you?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 75/100. magiemoretha (121)   ranked 1,936 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

Yeah why not?
I dont think political view will affect our relationship.
We can just appreciate any other perspectives and we also can hold our own principles.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

You are more openminded than I when it comes to politics.There is nothing I could learn from an Republican.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (13971)   ranked 2,472 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

Neither my husband nor myself could ever date a person with the total opposite political views. We are of one mind when it comes to politics, which is nice, since I can legally vote in Canadian elections and he can legally vote in American ones. If we agree, and we always do autmoatically, we each have a say in eachother's elections./

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3. myLot reputation of 49/100. darkjedi (1729)   ranked 3,420 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

It all depends on how hard core they are. There is no way in hell I could ever be with someone who was a hard core republican or democrat.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

I agree. Why should I put him through all the fights that would occur?Life is way too short.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. blackmantra_x (2013)   ranked 732 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

good day... why not as long as we can respect each others point of view then there's going to be no problem about it.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

" Respecting each others point of views". That is the key to making it work.But that is the main reason it wouldn't work with me. I don't respect the Republican point of view on most things.

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5. myLot reputation of 89/100. SHAMRACK (2483)   ranked 3,275 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

Dear friend,
As long as she or that person loves or likes to date with without any uncomfortable to me I hope each persons has their own views and opinions and it might her view to express her part to particular political party. I hope that may not effect our relationship. More than that I would consider other thins like loving reach other and trust we have to go on with a smooth happy relationship. Having their own views is subject the possession of an individuals character. I hope until she loves me and trusts me I do carry on my dating if I get one. lol

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6. myLot reputation of 81/100. TheSpy (3399)   ranked 2,489 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

Hi Sarah:

I could and have. We just never talk about politics.

Ivor


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

That's the best way to go.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. hellcowboy (2507)   ranked 1,595 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

I personally think politics and political views have nothing to do with a relationship,unless you are dating a politician or something,if my fiance had the exact opposite political views then me,I honestly would not care,because it is her choice if she chooses to support the democrats or the republicans,and even though I have always supported the republicans,now I really do not care about either side.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

Since you are not into either party really, it shouldn't be a problem.But I could see where one person is hardcore,really passionate about the opposite party could be a problem.For me, there are a few points that define my point of view of life. So unless he is a moderate republican or agrees to disagree, we would wind up fighting daily.


myLot reputation of 95/100. hellcowboy (2507)   ranked 1,595 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

Yeah that is true since I am sorta of neutral it will not cause any problems,but yeah if one person is hardcore about their,it could end up causing a problem, which could lead to fights,have a great day,good luck in your life,and Happy Posting.

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8. myLot reputation of 70/100. anniepa (5564)   ranked 1,098 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

What a great question! I'm not really sure how it would work for me if I hadn't married young and met someone who was a die-hard conservative. I think if two people had opposite political views but politics wasn't a major thing in their life for either of them, it probably could work unless or until something came up in their life that would make it an issue. For me, I met my husband when I was just 16 and he'd just turned 17. I come from a politically engaged family and he did not, although our family backgrounds were similar and his family was for the most part all Democrats, they just didn't eat, drink and sleep it like mine did. We were both still too young to vote when we got married but as soon as the age got lowered my dad went and got us both voter registration cards to sign. After 38 years of marriage I'm still the political junkie in the family but my husband and the rest of his side of the family have gotten more engaged through the years and we all agree on the biggest issues.

One couple that absolutely amazes me is James Carville and Mary Matalin. They've been married for years now and it seems like they have a great marriage yet they both earn their livings from being political advisers, him for the Democrats and her for the Republicans and they seem to be on the opposite side of every issue.
Annie


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

They must have a "no politics at home" policy at home.I can see it working if you agree not to agree.Otherwise it would be WWIII.

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. melissaruth1 (2755)   ranked 2,810 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

Not only does my husband have different political views than me, so does my mother. It makes for some pretty interesting conversations. It does not effect our relationship at all. I encourage different points of views, and ways of thinking.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

As long as it works for you. Funny, I am openminded when it comes to religion and ways of life but when it comes to a few political issues I am absolute.

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10. myLot reputation of 76/100. ProdigY47 (795)   ranked 6,102 out of 17,648 in relationships   3 months ago

Well, if you two agree to disagree in everything except WEATHER! Then I dont think its sensible to be so contrasting in relationships. Its better to have atleast a handful of similarities, and even if the two of you have less similarities you should try to accept or ignore the other person, but this cant go on long.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (7266)   ranked 5 out of 17,648 in relationships  3 months ago

Exactly. If I were to be with a diehard Republican it wouldn't work unless we have something in common.

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