posters ask for your opionion but diss you when you give it whats up with that

hi lori in other words consider the scource and let it go.lol

Hatley....you got it right! And you were right! This world is like a fruitcake, if there weren't a few nuts in it...it just wouldn't be right! Listen to Lori..a great mentor! Cheers.

hi lori and pergammo yes indeed we always havenuts in the fruitcake so I will ignore that and go on with my own life.

hi cowgirl no she said she had no daughter and it was just'
hypothetical but why be so rude about it. lol.

Wow! She got that upset over a hypothetical situation?
I haven't seen the discussion, but I will be on the look out.

Who knows why people act all up in arms on Mylot.

I have always wondered why people take things so seriously.

It's just chat! It's just conversation.

And you are right. If a person posts a question asking for opinions,
then they better get ready for opinions. Cause not everyone thinks
or feels the same way!

Good day to both of you!

Thanks for the lovely topic, Hatley.

I agree that she shouldn't have been rude about it. It's really uncalled for, and at the same time does it not make you wonder if maybe this person's question was not hypothetical! I appreciate the well wishes beauty and I hope that you both have very sunshiney days!

Maybe you're right....your opinion cut to the quick! If you ask for an opinion, be prepared for multiples, and not all of them will be to your liking! Suck it up!Sure want to find this discussion, would like to know why this person felt that bashing you was justifiable! Please just continue to be as honest and forthright as you are, and don't let this "fly" get in your ointment! We luv ya.

hi fellow mylotters that was what I was wondering was it possible she was talking about herself, and thats why she got go'upset. she asked for advice so she should have expected to get differing
opinions from all of us.

Wow, it's been a year since we discussed this? Wow it's so fresh in my mind! In any case, Hi girls, and sorry I didn't get back to you all sooner!

a year has zipped by but some things never change but still
theres so many wonderful people here so why get down because of one person. good luck god bless

How quickly a year goes. I know that a few months back I was thinking "wow I can't believe that a year ago we got those badges" badges meaning sheriff badges for mine and my husband's wedding...

Even now, it's been a few months (since our wedding) and I can't believe it! There ARE so many wonderful people here that I hope to keep responding and commenting to for years to come! Hope this site stays for years and years as well!

me cowgirl it only seems like yesterday you were getting
married. anyway I feel so good getting to all my old
dicussions and getting more feedback too. lovely.

Yes, lol, It does seem like only yesterday. For a full two weeks I'd have to safely say that I still called my husband "fiance"...

Oh there's so much I need to be doing on this site, I feel so bad when I don't get to everyone!

hi somecowgirl it is taking me some time but I swear I am going to comment on all responses as people were kind enough to respond in the first place.

196 emails are from mylot alone, and I find myself staring at the screen, stressing myself out because I want to atleast read every one but more keep coming in! Well all I'm saying is take your time and don't worry!

yes I really do have to take my time as here at Gold Crest they have some programs specially for us and I feel that as a resident I should attend some of them anyway. I needed to make some friends here too as it makes it easier to stay here. lol. but I do pretty much mylot a lot.

It's always good to make friends, no matter where your at. I suppose if you never went out of your rooms they'd think you to be a hermit (is that the word I am looking for)... If I remember correctly you moved there because you and your son were having financial strain? Oh please don't mind my preying!

Now I've opened two windows to comment back Hatley, and I'm not sure which is which. If your talking about the at&t phone here, yes it seems like nothing is free everything has some sort of gimmick, if not I wanted to comment back and say when I said prey, I meant pry!

hi goodie thanks thats so true so we just roll with the punches.

Hi Hatley, thank you for best response.

hi goodie123 you are most welcome hatley here.

latoyahall hi you are right she doesnt pay my rent, so let it
go in one ear and out the other.lol.

spark thats just what I did finally say in my comment, something about well I have lived a lot longer than you so have
learned afew thing about life, sex, and babies. lol

Good for you Hatley! There's just no substitute for life experience - especially when you pay attention as time goes by. Hopefully this poster will pay attention.

hi 11 months later wonder what she reallydid besides get upset over my opinion. well any way it was not worth getting upset
over as I found out. worse things than that happen.

jonesy and what was further aggravating is this she
said afterwards was just hypothical, she didnt have'a daughter only a son,lol.

maetsuen hi yes you are so right I should not have let
'it get to me, no use getting angry.

lazeebee hi no not going to let it spoil my evening,
just forget it and move on now.

right myklj999 you and I did disagree but we respected'
each other and thats what counts thanks much

hi nonnymouse yes you know I wondered myself if it reallywas hypothetical or not? lol. she was pretty fierce in her viewpoint.