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myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love1 year ago

are you with the person you would consider the one? your soulmate? Do you think there is that one person you are suppose to share your life with? I have been thinking about this very subject for a fe days, and i am just not sure. what are your thoughts on this topic?

 
 
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eeyore39 (3181) response was accepted on 8/8/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. rmuxagirl (6615)   ranked 1,590 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

I have really found the one. I think my boyfriend is my soulmate, the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life. I love him so much and we are connected on so many different levels. If you aren't sure then you need to think things through. What made you want to be with this person in the first place, things that you love about him, and what makes him special above all others.


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

well i am happy you have found someone you can share your life with. it is so important to be with someone you can share those special moments with

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. Amanda81587 (667)   ranked 1,612 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

I believe that everyone does have a soulmate and I am 100% sure that I found mine. wub The hardest part is working so hard to actually be with him. sad He is in a different country but fighting to be with him is totally worth everything I have to go through!wub


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

long distant love is not easy. but when you want something i say go for it!

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3. myLot reputation of 83/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1000)   ranked 851 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

yes i have found the one.. He is the perfect one for me we have so much in commen and we love the same hobbies.. I love my husband and he loves me..


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

pixie sounds like you and your husband have a good relationship. good for the two of you. thats so greatwub


myLot reputation of 83/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1000)   ranked 851 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

Thank you i think i have found the one for mewub.. He is so perfect for me.. He does the sweetest things for me and some times i notice them and some times i don't... We are so prefect for each other.. we lovewub the same hoobies and we lovewub the same foods.. Hes everything to me.. I don't know what i would do without him...

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4. myLot reputation of 70/100. liltunergirl (401)   ranked 4,010 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

I thought I was with the one I wanted to share the rest of my life with but recently I've been second guessing that. I think there is a person for everyone, someone who gets you completely and who's intertwine and just know each other so well. However, that doesn't mean that the two are meant to be married. They could be best friends.


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

what great insight my friend. however it's not good to live in doubt. doubt is just another word for fear. and anything done in fear is never going to work


myLot reputation of 70/100. liltunergirl (401)   ranked 4,010 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

I've started realizing that my doubts were no good. I'm trying one last time to work things through with him but if still not then i know he obviously isn't the one for me and I must move on.

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5. myLot reputation of 100/100. arkaf61 (5728)   ranked 1,752 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

Well... it depends. I really don't go much for that "Soul mate" thing.At least the common definition that tells me that the soul mate is the only person in the world that is right for me. There is no such thing. There are lots and lots of people in this world that can be the right ones for us, thinking differently is just a fantasy - and sometimes an excuse to justify doing something wrong like cheating, I've heard that.
If however you are asking if I am with the person that I love and chose to spend my life with, then yes, I have found the one. It doesn't mean that life will always be worry free and that we'll be happy forever and ever, but it means that I found someone with whom is worth working and compromising.


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

now that is what i am talking about. being with someone you can fight with, and laugh with. someone who is willing to work on the things you need to work on. that person who is willing to bring 100% to the table, not that 50/50 nonsense. who wants half of a person

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20594)   ranked 1,520 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

My husband and I have been married almost a yea, and we knew long eore we got married that we wee mean to e togethe. Next weekend we ae going to get married all over again. We eloped, and now we are going o hae a wedding in the presene of family. We have had our challenges, but we have goten though them all together, and we know we still stick together, no matter what else comes out way.


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

oh how wonderful. good for you girl. i am glad you found such a great person to be in your life

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. MH4444 (1385)   ranked 1,014 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

The problem with this is the logic of a soul-mate is almost always seen as soul-mate=stay together forever.

I had a soul-mate, and it was incredible; but our paths changed course, and we parted. One thing that was great was the way we expressed our love for one another still knowing that we were not compatible. He wanted to party, and I didn't. So, it had to end; but that's the only real issue.

The love-of-my-life is how I described a man that I loved that died. I believe he was a perfect mate for me. We were in every way compatible. He was older than me though, and I couldn't choose him because of it. We had some time together and it was pure joy. We didn't even have to do anything to be completely happy together. We seemed to know what the other was thinking in public situations and we shared common beliefs and like and dis-likes. But! he died, so as to "finding my soul-mate". What's a soul-mate?
Are we meant to stay together to be that?
Who knows.
But!
I do want to stay with my current boyfriend for now.
I do have to say that we are not marriage compatible. He has very different beliefs than me. I will only marry a man that like the guy that died; I match in every way. No need to settle these days.
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myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

i hear ya on that. when people settle that do that out of fear that they will never find someone. anything done in fear never works

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. dumblnddzzy (10277)   ranked 1,414 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

I thought I had found 'the one' but apparently not. I am still searching for the perfect one for me. He must be funny, & easy to get along with...are you listening myklj? LOL...Lori


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

LOL!! girl once you know what you want, all you have to do is ask, have faith and wait for him to come to you

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. zeny_zion (1196)   ranked 5,026 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

im separated and havent foung the right one. still keep on looking and having a hard time who will be the right one. maybe, prayers will do. Gods guidance and help will be more 100 percent sure. im hoping to find the right love so that ill be for once. but still have to look for my daughters welfare. ill be maybe getting in a serious relationship after i see my daughter in a stable life. so who ever the right man for me will wait for a little more longer. hahaha


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

don't you worry girl, you hold on to what you want and it will happen

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10. myLot reputation of 71/100. Kimberly92119 (435)   ranked 7,448 out of 11,872 in love   1 year ago

Yes I found the one and he is so wonderful


myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4837)   ranked 171 out of 11,872 in love  1 year ago

good for you honey!

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