Have you found The One?

@34momma (13882)
United States
August 5, 2008 1:43pm CST
are you with the person you would consider the one? your soulmate? Do you think there is that one person you are suppose to share your life with? I have been thinking about this very subject for a fe days, and i am just not sure. what are your thoughts on this topic?
4 people like this
12 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
5 Aug 08
I have really found the one. I think my boyfriend is my soulmate, the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life. I love him so much and we are connected on so many different levels. If you aren't sure then you need to think things through. What made you want to be with this person in the first place, things that you love about him, and what makes him special above all others.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Aug 08
well i am happy you have found someone you can share your life with. it is so important to be with someone you can share those special moments with
• Canada
5 Aug 08
I thought I was with the one I wanted to share the rest of my life with but recently I've been second guessing that. I think there is a person for everyone, someone who gets you completely and who's intertwine and just know each other so well. However, that doesn't mean that the two are meant to be married. They could be best friends.
2 people like this
@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Aug 08
what great insight my friend. however it's not good to live in doubt. doubt is just another word for fear. and anything done in fear is never going to work
• Canada
6 Aug 08
I've started realizing that my doubts were no good. I'm trying one last time to work things through with him but if still not then i know he obviously isn't the one for me and I must move on.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 Aug 08
I have been with my husband for 16 years now and married for thirteen of them. I would have to say that he is the one for me because of all of my bad, past relationships. We make it work in life even though there is 15 years age difference between us. He is older than me. I know there are times when I feel it just isn't working the way I had hoped it would but I would not give him up for a chance to meet someone else. I feel if the lord wanted me to be with someone else, then it would happen when he is ready for it too.
2 people like this
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
5 Aug 08
Well... it depends. I really don't go much for that "Soul mate" thing.At least the common definition that tells me that the soul mate is the only person in the world that is right for me. There is no such thing. There are lots and lots of people in this world that can be the right ones for us, thinking differently is just a fantasy - and sometimes an excuse to justify doing something wrong like cheating , I've heard that. If however you are asking if I am with the person that I love and chose to spend my life with, then yes, I have found the one. It doesn't mean that life will always be worry free and that we'll be happy forever and ever, but it means that I found someone with whom is worth working and compromising.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Aug 08
now that is what i am talking about. being with someone you can fight with, and laugh with. someone who is willing to work on the things you need to work on. that person who is willing to bring 100% to the table, not that 50/50 nonsense. who wants half of a person
1 person likes this
• United States
5 Aug 08
yes i have found the one.. He is the perfect one for me we have so much in commen and we love the same hobbies.. I love my husband and he loves me..
2 people like this
@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Aug 08
pixie sounds like you and your husband have a good relationship. good for the two of you. thats so great
• United States
8 Aug 08
Thank you i think i have found the one for me.. He is so perfect for me.. He does the sweetest things for me and some times i notice them and some times i don't... We are so prefect for each other.. we love the same hoobies and we love the same foods.. Hes everything to me.. I don't know what i would do without him...
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
5 Aug 08
I believe that everyone does have a soulmate and I am 100% sure that I found mine. The hardest part is working so hard to actually be with him. He is in a different country but fighting to be with him is totally worth everything I have to go through!
2 people like this
@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Aug 08
long distant love is not easy. but when you want something i say go for it!
• Canada
5 Aug 08
My husband and I have been married almost a yea, and we knew long eore we got married that we wee mean to e togethe. Next weekend we ae going to get married all over again. We eloped, and now we are going o hae a wedding in the presene of family. We have had our challenges, but we have goten though them all together, and we know we still stick together, no matter what else comes out way.
1 person likes this
@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Aug 08
oh how wonderful. good for you girl. i am glad you found such a great person to be in your life
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
6 Aug 08
After I got married with my wife, I never looked back. Neither am I going to look back in time to come. I don't really know how to explain it to you. It is just this feeling I got when I first looked at her back in the lecture theater all those years back. That one thought that went through my mind when I first saw her. "If she became my girlfriend, I am sure she will be my wife. No other girl will be the one." And from there on, I tried to get to know her better and that is how we got together! And this feeling of being together till we grow old, well, it is just there. I really do not know how to describe or explain it in words to you. You just have to feel it to know. So to answer you question, I would answer YES to both questions. The person that I will be sharing my life with is the one I married to. So, penny for your thoughts. What made you start to ponder on this subject for a few days? Care to share?
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
8 Aug 08
There is no doubt in my mind that I've found my absolute soul mate. I'm his as well and I know this because of how he treats me. Now that's not to say we don't have arguements for we do but we also know how to talk things out too after we've cooled off. We do almost everything together and if I know a little bit more about something I'll help him and the same goes for him. I love him to the end of this earth and would do anything for him.
1 person likes this
• Canada
7 Aug 08
15 years ago when I met my current husband, I would have said a resounding YES! And I heard him tell his mother that "She is the one", so he felt the exact same. But now, with all the water under the bridge, I'm not sure either. During all the difficult times, all my friends told me to leave him, but I still had that lingering feeling that he was once "the one", so why couldn't he be again. It is still a work in progress and only time will tell.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
11 Aug 08
all relationships with everyone you meet are a work in progress girl. it's also a wonderful time to learn some really vaulable life lessons. however that doesn't mean you need to stay and learn the same lesson over and over. don't worry annie, all things come to light
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
im separated and havent foung the right one. still keep on looking and having a hard time who will be the right one. maybe, prayers will do. Gods guidance and help will be more 100 percent sure. im hoping to find the right love so that ill be for once. but still have to look for my daughters welfare. ill be maybe getting in a serious relationship after i see my daughter in a stable life. so who ever the right man for me will wait for a little more longer. hahaha
1 person likes this
@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Aug 08
don't you worry girl, you hold on to what you want and it will happen
@daninuk (145)
• United States
6 Aug 08
if i have one, then i'm not with im right now. but frankly i'm not so sure if i believe in the concept of a soulmate. i think that experience builds a person and so far, my experiences have not been soulmate belief supporting.
1 person likes this
@34momma (13882)
• United States
8 Aug 08
i am not sure i think there is one special person out there or you. but i do know if you open yourself up to recieve love, pure true love, you will get it
1 person likes this