I am an exclamation mark junkie! Is this a bad thing??

@James72 (26790)
Australia
August 9, 2008 2:54pm CST
I have been reading through many of my responses and discussions posted and have realized that I tend to use exclamation marks a LOT! I guess I do this to place emphasis on certain things I have said; much the same way as I put some words in uppercase to put an emphasis on those specific words also. Is it annoying as a reader to see so many exclamation marks? Or does using them create the attention or emphasis on the sentence or word I am trying to highlight or make stand out? (As I seem to think it does!) Please let me know as I may need to calm myself down a little in this regard!
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@CrazCo (409)
• Canada
9 Aug 08
Haha! I don't find it annoying at all unless there is multiple of them. Like this!!!!!!!!!!!! I used to have a huge obsession with exclamation marks where I would end every sentence with "..!!" in italics. People incessantly told me how frustrating it was so I broke the habit on my own.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
9 Aug 08
Well even if it DOES end up meaning that I need to chill out little bit on using exclamation marks it appears that I have at least found a fellow exclamation mark junkie! Thanks for responding.
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@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
9 Aug 08
Not necessarily. THat makes your style of writing and it's ok too. Personally punctuation signs either in abundance or scarce don't really bother me one way or another. I guess it might be annoying for some people, but personally I pay more attention to the content, what is being written, rather than how it is emphasized. Come to think of it I tend to be a smillie junkie LOL
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
Oh so NOW I get the smilies!!! lol. Better late than never! :) (See, I have given you many exclamation marks in return as well!). It is nice to see we are able to feed each others addictions like this!
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
A smilie junkie! Well I didn't get one in THIS response! lol. I am happy to hear that it is the content of the writing rather than the punctuation that matters. Thanks for responding.
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@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
10 Aug 08
I've been trying to restrain myself LOLLLLL And for me , yes , it is the content. I tend to right = and read - as if it is a conversation and sometimes punctuation marks that might not be conventionally places really add meaning to what is written. But after responding to you discussion I checked myLot guidelines and one item on the "don't do" section says for us not to "use all-caps or excessive punctuation." However I have never seen mylot creating a problem with member just for using a bit more exclamation marks. They never gave me trouble for my smillies either :):):)
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@maryannemax (12154)
• Sweden
9 Aug 08
I am just like you. i do use exclamation marks a lot. i wanna put an emphasis on most replies i do. it does not mean i am angry. sometimes, i just mean that i am excited, happy and glad. i don't have anything against people who use exclamation marks often, too. i do understand their side.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
Well so far everyone seems OK with the fact that I constantly use them. This is obviously a good thing for me because it now means that I can be myself without having to have thoughts in the back of my mind to stop this every time I write something! Thanks for responding.
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• United States
10 Aug 08
i also tend to use a bit more punctuation than necessary to point out my points i realize that it may be a bit annoying; i'd never tolerate it if i was reading a book or the newspaper - but this is pretty informal - and i tend to type very much like i would write a letter...just try to get things going, without a lot of drawn-out, properly written sentences and paragraphs.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
I don't seem to di this anywhere but on this site for some reason..... And at least it is better than "text speak"! That IS one thing that annoys me; when people use the same abbreviations on here that they would use when sending a text message. Thanks for responding.
• India
10 Aug 08
It doesn't matter as nobody pay attention to exclamation marks.I usually read only the matter and not grammer.It certainly doesnt create any nuisance.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
Good to know that it is not seen as a nuisance! But I hope that people do pay SOME attention to them because I use them to emphasise something I am trying to say. I also do the same with uppercase letters. Thanks for responding.
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
I dont find it annoying! That's the way you write so it's ok! I'm sorry if I write so short message because you got a lot opinions already! Have a good day!
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
Yes it IS the way I write on here it seems! And I guess it is also a reflection of my personality! Thanks for responding.
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@Polly1 (12644)
• United States
9 Aug 08
I don't think its a bad thing, its just another way for you to get your point across. I don't find it annoying when people do that.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
9 Aug 08
Well I thank you also for confirming that it is OK for me to be myself! Funny thing is that I write a lot for my work and yet the only place I seem to use exclamation marks repeatedly is on myLot..... Thanks for responding.
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• United States
9 Aug 08
You're an exlamation point junkie? Who knew? Does this lessen or take from the quality of your writing? Isn't there something worse? What if you were a question mark junkie?
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
lol. Just a self observation! Maybe if I was a question mark junkie instead then maybe this would be a good thing because it would mean that I would have posted a LOT of questions for people to answer and will increase my responses! Thanks for responding.
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• United States
15 Aug 08
I am very glad to find that so few people are annoyed with it, because sometimes I look at something I've written where every sentence in the entire paragraph has an exclamation point at the end and I feel like a bubbly grinning idiot. Then I have to sit there trying to decide which sentence I feel the least enthusiastic about so I can remove at least one. It's like cutting out my tongue or my heart or something!
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
15 Aug 08
Oh I am glad too! You have no idea! lol. The last thing I wanted to do was to have to rethin entirely the way I write and the mannerisms I use. To do this all the time would have surely taken some of the spontaneity out of it! Thanks for responding.
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@ellie333 (21016)
9 Aug 08
I do this one all the time. I also have a habit of putting 'eh!' at the end of something a lot of the time. It doesn't bother me at all though if I see a lot of exclamation marks in a response or a discussion. Ellie :D
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
9 Aug 08
Well I am happy to hear this as it means that I don't need to consciously think extra hard every time I write something on here! Thanks for responding.
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@di1159 (1580)
• United States
9 Aug 08
Oh my, I didn't realize that I'm an exclamation junkie too! I guess when a person is in mylot, it feels like we are conversing instead of just typing and exclamation marks help convey how our tone of voice would be. Let's just say we are a lively, animated, passionate group and use this punctuation mark to get our thoughts heard! Heres's to !!!!!!.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
10 Aug 08
I agree that using exclamation marks helps us to express certain things better. Writing lacks the tones and audible expressions we can use when speaking. Lively, animated and passionate is a nice way to describe it! Thanks for responding.
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• United States
9 Aug 08
I think this is a matter of personaility. Your personaility shows in your writing style. I like to use exclamation marks a lot also. I don't think it's annoying as a reader to see others use them I think it actually makes me more interested in the writing.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
9 Aug 08
Phew! I am really happy to see thus far that the general consensus seems to be that using exclamation marks throughout my posts is ok. It is an aspect of my personality I guess and I can only be me! Thanks for responding.
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• India
10 Aug 08
Exclamation marks show that you enjoy writing the repsonse or comment .... its shows your enthusiasm ... keep it up!
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
11 Aug 08
That's it! It's an expression of my enthusiasm! I like that..... Thanks for responding.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
11 Aug 08
Well if I hadn't of chosen a best response already I reckon you would be in the running for sure yes! lol. How about we say that you have secured the Silver Medal seeing as we are in Olympics mode at the moment! ;)
• India
11 Aug 08
if you agree then is my response the best ?... hehee
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• United States
9 Aug 08
I used to be an exclamation mark junky just like yourself. Not I am going in the opposite direction and am often very hesitant to put the on. Thanks for reading and good luck.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
9 Aug 08
So what inspired you to change then? Was it because of some negative comments regarding your use of them or was it just a personal decision you made? Thanks for responding.
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@cwilson26 (2735)
• United States
10 Aug 08
Exclamation points are fine here on Mylot and they don't bother me at all. The only thing they are not good for are writing in articles. I write for a living and my main income right now comes from writing articles online. I never did use exclamation points in my articles so it was never a habit I had to break. However, some people have been known to do it in articles and it is really a no-no. It's just not good writing to use even one exclamation point when writing professionally. So I would say don't worry about it here on Mylot but don't do it if you write articles. Now I also write fiction and some exclamation points are good in fiction to show excitement or to really emphasis a point. So no worries here on Mylot. :)
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
11 Aug 08
I definitely agree that there is a time and a place for them and the informality of myLot is as good a place as any! I don't write for a living per say; but in a sense I guess I do because in my job I write daily for marketing materials, proposals, business plans, white papers and other documentation and I very rarely use exclamation marks in these instances. Sometimes for brochures or other marketing materials yes; but I consider this OK on these instances of not overdone because it can help get a point across. Thanks for responding and good luck with your writing!